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RE: D/s card party - 4/3/2010 2:56:20 AM   
lally2


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I am curious to see how many Doms would be interested in participating (with their sub) in a card party. Each sub would be dressed in revealing clothing, either at your feet or chained to your chair. Each sub available to be toyed with while serving drinks and/or food. All Doms playing cards and the winner of each hand or after a predetermined amount of time would have his choice to pick a sub for a "break" to play with. The winner for the night getting his choice of sub for the rest of the night. Tell me what you think and if you would join in.


Interesting, but not interested personally...I'm not comfortable having someone toy with my girl.  I don't think it would set well if something happened that I didn't care for happening to my possession that I wasn't in control of, just as if someone came up and did anything while I was playing with her  (say at a club)...which would be really bad for that person.  Perhaps if I was very close to and trusted the other participants completely (and there were a set of guidelines), and I can only think of...nope not enough for a card game.  It's OK, I'll just stick with solitaire.

But on another note, this does remind me of a couple a while back that had issued a challenge:  The "My sub is smarter than your sub" thing.  She (the dominant) put out the rules that if you lost, her sub would be "let loose" onto the loser's sub or the losing sub's dominant to do with as they would.  So confident was she, that I seem to remember that there was no other offer given in the event of the unthinkable happened where her giant-brained sub perhaps lost, and what the prize would be in that situation.  Of course, I'm sure there are a few good sadists out there who could think up some equally delightful ego-crushing ideas for that couple if it happened...but this thread is about cards and not wits.


the thing is that there are alot of guys who are ok with letting someone play with their girl but with the understanding that if anything happens theyre not happy about then the play stops.

as SirsHolly said, it is a fantasy, because the moment you start thinking about how youd actually set this up for real it would have to be full of rules and restrictions.  the sub with the bad shoulder cant have her arms tied back, the one with the bad knee cant kneel for longer than a few moments, the one with a pathological fear of blindfolds would have a terrible time - the one who got beaten with a riding crop (me for instance) would end up a snivelling mess.

its fun in principle and might be fun in practice if the people involved were trusted and experienced BDSMers

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RE: D/s card party - 4/3/2010 3:05:53 AM   
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RE: D/s card party - 4/3/2010 3:31:45 AM   
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I think the OP question IS fantasy, but an approachable / doable one.

Oh, and did I say "all men are pigs"?  I bet this has been done in the Leather (i.e. Gay, male BDSM) world plenty of times without all this hand-wringing and trying to decide what is appropriate, allowable, acceptable.

Bottom line: See if you (and yours) can make it happen......

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RE: D/s card party - 4/3/2010 7:27:13 AM   
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Hows'bout they have met socially before and decided that everyone was cool with everyone else?  Restrictions (inc. hard limits)known.

I think the OP question IS fantasy, but an approachable / doable one.

Oh, and did I say "all men are pigs"?  I bet this has been done in the Leather (i.e. Gay, male BDSM) world plenty of times without all this hand-wringing and trying to decide what is appropriate, allowable, acceptable.

Bottom line: See if you (and yours) can make it happen......

Regards, the (almost) always optimistic Lance


I agree if this were a gay male situation it would be seen differently. However, we all know little boys and little girls are very different. Even submissive little girls have their female sides firmly intact and straight men are often possive. We are all still human we just have ropes :-)

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RE: D/s card party - 4/3/2010 7:30:56 AM   
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I think it's a silly idea that I would have no interest participating in.  I hate maufactured "scenes".  They're like a bad high school play. 


But..but...but...the way you play cards, you'd have pick of all the bitches all night long.

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RE: D/s card party - 4/3/2010 1:00:30 PM   
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RE: D/s card party - 4/3/2010 1:06:11 PM   
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Status: offline 		You would bring someone gross to the game and intentionally throw in your hand when it was her turn to be killed.

Also I wouldn't want any sub of mine playing with you....Upon closer inspection all of your toys are covered in poo.

You are an icky man.


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RE: D/s card party - 4/6/2010 9:47:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		It's a hot fantasy, but I can see a lot of problems with actually doing it...

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RE: D/s card party - 4/7/2010 6:09:08 AM   
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Status: offline 		Why not turn the tables?  Let the submissives play the game, and they can choose when they win a hand; who will play with them...now that would be an interesting game...

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RE: D/s card party - 4/7/2010 6:20:30 AM   
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Everybody's focusing on the seminude subs.  Doesn't anyone care what the card game even is?



It's Dom-strip poker; winner gets the subbie, loser has to get nekked. It'll make all the left over wallflower subbies feel better that way.....someone else to giggle at

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RE: D/s card party - 4/7/2010 11:46:59 AM   
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ORIGINAL: domiguy

You would bring someone gross to the game and intentionally throw in your hand when it was her turn to be killed.

Also I wouldn't want any sub of mine playing with you....Upon closer inspection all of your toys are covered in poo.

You are an icky man.


Your nick should be ickydom.


. Yeah I don't foresee a lot of hot Doms at this type of party....I am not one for "sceneing" anyway, but the few times I have been to events, the hotness factor was pretty limited for us anyway.  Yes, I am shallow that way. Yes, so is he. I am not going to be groped by a Rush or Glenn Beck look a like anytime soon. It's far from what I would even call a fantasy really. More like a distasteful test of "subliness" and I don't go there. Ever.    


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RE: D/s card party - 4/7/2010 12:04:24 PM   
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Status: offline 		It sounds like it could be fun so long as everyone involved knew and trusted each other very very well.

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RE: D/s card party - 4/7/2010 12:07:05 PM   
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But..but...but...the way you play cards, you'd have pick of all the bitches all night long.



Geez, you are really shameless.

Even if he did have his pick, you would probably follow him home, ruining the entire evening

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RE: D/s card party - 4/7/2010 12:22:06 PM   
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It sounds like it could be fun so long as everyone involved knew and trusted each other very very well.


Probably not. After watching some really fat and disgusting dude walk away with my primo snatch because he filled his inside straight on the river....I would prefer that he kill the bitch instead of returning her covered in his sweat and drool.

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RE: D/s card party - 4/7/2010 12:38:33 PM   
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But..but...but...the way you play cards, you'd have pick of all the bitches all night long.



Geez, you are really shameless.

Even if he did have his pick, you would probably follow him home, ruining the entire evening


I would. But that's only because my leash would be attached to his belt.
Woof.

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RE: D/s card party - 4/10/2010 1:53:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		Sounds like a good idea, but how crappy would you feel if you never won a hand?

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RE: D/s card party - 12/24/2012 2:10:30 PM   
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RE: D/s card party - 12/24/2012 2:21:02 PM   
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I think snap would be a good game to play


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RE: D/s card party - 12/24/2012 2:25:00 PM   
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RE: D/s card party - 12/24/2012 6:37:28 PM   
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I could see how it could be fun... if I hand-picked the masters and slaves to play with. If it was among good friends who it would be laughing and exciting and playful and sexy with? Sure.

But just any old group of people who I may or may not find attractive or fun to be around, like it seems to be you're advertising for (and what the heck, on an international site...? Are you planning to fly us in on your cash?)... no.

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