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ishyB -> RE: Gag Reflex (4/10/2010 2:15:37 PM)
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The most important thing that makes you gag during a blow job is using the wrong angle.
Most men's cocks are actually deeper than your mouth is, so when he tries to put in his cock too deep, he'll soon reach the end of your mouth and the beginning of your throat.
The problem than is that your throat does not make a straight line in the same angle as your mouth does, rather they are at an angle to each other in normal positions.
Often kneeling with your head bend down (a common bj position) only increases that angle.
What you have then is a guy trying to force his cock around a curve, which obviously isn't going to happen, so instead, he'll hit the back of your throat, making you gag.
The easiest way to prevent this from happening is by finding a position in which you elongate your neck and align your throat and neck instead of angling them. Look straight up, and you will find that your month and throat are much more a straight line than in a normal position, thus enabling him to follow the natural curve of your body.
And easy way to give bj this way is by laying down on the bed on your back, with your head off the edge, and allowing him to fuck your face. Or on hand and knees on the bed and him standing up besides the bed. Or make sure that you are sitting higher than him, crouch down and do it from that angel (almost like an animal drinking from a pool of water.)
The second thing you have to consider is that your throat is usually in a rest state that prevents objects from entering it, unless you swallow.
This means that if he pushes against this barrier, and you don't swallow, he's again putting pressure on your throat, causing you to gag.
To prevent this from happening, you will literally have to swallow his cock.
Realize that once you swallowed his cock, you are most likely not going to be able to breathe at all, so you need to be prepared for this, and stay relaxed. If you panic, you will gag.
To practice this, find a position that is comfortable for you both, and that creates the right angel between your mouth and throat.
Slowly insert his cock until you feel resistance. Do this at your own pace, not his!!!
Once his cock is at the place of resistance, try to keep it there for a while and just relax.
Once you feel ready, gather up some saliva in your mouth, and while you swallow that, move his cock just a little bit deeper.
If you are successful at swallowing him, just stay like that for a little while, don't move, relax and then take him out.
It is very important that he does NOT move unless under your direction during this whole process. Gag reflex problems are often partly psychological, and him repeatedly making you gag will only make you more nervous, thus tenser, and will not help to fix the problem. The less he moves, the easier it is for you to get used to the sensation.
Practice this often, in a relaxed situation. Do NOT start trying to incorporate this into your normal bj routine until you feel absolutely relaxed and comfortable to have his cock down your throat.
A good way to learn this is to before every bj practice this for about 5 minutes, and then go back to your normal bj routine where you don't take him in as deep. You will know when you are ready to start combining both.
Another neat little trick that can get you used to strange sensations in your throat and master your gag reflex is by using long cooked strings of spaghetti.
Hold the end of the spaghetti string between your fingers, and swallow the other end.
You will now have spaghetti in your throat that is also hanging out your mouth. It's a very strange sensation the first time, so try to relax.
If you are relaxed, start moving the spaghetti around by pulling it out a little and letting it glide back in. You will most likely gag from this at first, but with some practice, you will get used to it.
I wish you good luck and lots of fun at practice time,
ishy
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