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TheHeretic -> Anybody familiar with Facebook? (4/3/2010 3:10:04 PM)

Does anyone know if Facebook has a feature that allows you to see who has been viewing your profile, or to hide your profile from someone in particular?

I've had the strangest thing happen over there.




Lucylastic -> RE: Anybody familiar with Facebook? (4/3/2010 3:17:33 PM)

There was info flying about regarding seeing who has checked your profile but  it turned out to be a hoax as far as I can tell
but if you go to  your account, then privacy settings, you can block all sorts of ways
Good luck!!!! their privacy is abysmal if you dont shut it down tight as you can
but then ...are you ever really private online....nope




delicatelydirty -> RE: Anybody familiar with Facebook? (4/3/2010 3:24:39 PM)

Facebook is a pain in the ass as far as privacy, like lucy said you have to shut it down manually and even then there is more visiable than I would like....




TheHeretic -> RE: Anybody familiar with Facebook? (4/3/2010 3:32:34 PM)

Actually it was someone else's profile. I added a dear old friend, then clicked on her ex-husband's profile. I went to go back a bit later and he was gone from the friends page, and search turned up nothing.





pahunkboy -> RE: Anybody familiar with Facebook? (4/4/2010 6:15:40 AM)

People.

I don't think you should put much info on facebook- or myspace or any sim site.

On the one hand- a very basic info can allow old contacts to find you- good and the bad.

But I really want to caution everyone here- that- those of us who are over 30??  really should not use this type of site.

Even when you THINK your settings are private- the format changes and poof- your privacy is gone.

People have had all kinds of info used AGAINST them via this type of "networking".

So-  BEWARE!    It is akin to telling danger stranger the key to your life.





sappatoti -> RE: Anybody familiar with Facebook? (4/4/2010 8:28:14 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: TheHeretic

Does anyone know if Facebook has a feature that allows you to see who has been viewing your profile, or to hide your profile from someone in particular?


There are a few third-party apps (not built by Facebook) that claim to have the ability to keep a list of those that have viewed your profile, the number of times they have, etc. I tend to shy away from third-party apps as many of their privacy statements use vague, questionable language so I don't yet trust them. While they may track who views a profile, they must also be granted permission to have access to everyone else's profile info as well. I do not wish to put those who view my profile into a situation where their privacy may be compromised because I'm using a third-party app.

As for hiding your profile from particular people, Facebook does have a sort of a "blacklist" process you can use for many things, but not everything. There is a certain amount of information in your profile that remains public, such as your profile name, your profile photo, etc. The list of always-public info can be found within the Privacy settings of your account. The simplest way to keep that always-public info limited in scope is to simply not put anything incriminating in those parts of your profile (or leave them blank if it is allowed).

For everything else that can be posted to your wall or shared with others, you will find a small dark padlock icon. Rollover that icon and the current level of privacy will show up. If it's too broad for that piece of information, click on the padlock and security options will show up. One of them might be "Only Me" which posts that info only on your Wall and it won't show up on anyone else's News feed. Another option should be "Custom" and clicking on that will allow you to add people to a list of those that should NOT see that piece of information.

I've used it and it does work, although it can get pretty tiring rather quickly to keep having to blacklist certain people from seeing everything that I post or share at the item level. The blacklist option is available as a default for some things in your account's Privacy settings but I have found I cannot count on that one setting alone to keep everything I post or share from reaching those for whom I don't want viewing it. Some third-party apps may not even look at your account's default privacy settings and instead rely on you duplicating them within the app's own separate privacy settings.

Facebook is a royal pain in the ass when it comes to privacy or blocking others from viewing your profile and posts. I'm convinced that it was designed to NOT be private at all, and what little bit of privacy that is available now was put in to appease the masses screaming about lack of privacy options. But those options have to be manually set in so many different places that it becomes burdensome or tiresome to keep track of them all. Plus, like PA alluded to, changes in FB's APIs or frameworks can, and sometimes do, negate your privacy settings or makes them ineffectual at best. One must then go back and review every privacy option they've previously set to make sure that it hasn't changed back to FB's default or been altogether removed.

Just as a note, yesterday FB closed their public input on another round of proposed changes to privacy, so depending upon what they decide, we all may have to go through this privacy lock down song and dance yet again at some point in the near future.




sunshinemiss -> RE: Anybody familiar with Facebook? (4/4/2010 8:32:19 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: pahunkboy

People.

I don't think you should put much info on facebook- or myspace or any sim site.

On the one hand- a very basic info can allow old contacts to find you- good and the bad.

But I really want to caution everyone here- that- those of us who are over 30??  really should not use this type of site.

Even when you THINK your settings are private- the format changes and poof- your privacy is gone.

People have had all kinds of info used AGAINST them via this type of "networking".

So-  BEWARE!    It is akin to telling danger stranger the key to your life.




What the fuck does over 30 have to do with anything?




sappatoti -> RE: Anybody familiar with Facebook? (4/4/2010 8:53:51 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss
quote:

ORIGINAL: pahunkboy
People.

I don't think you should put much info on facebook- or myspace or any sim site.

On the one hand- a very basic info can allow old contacts to find you- good and the bad.

But I really want to caution everyone here- that- those of us who are over 30??  really should not use this type of site.

Even when you THINK your settings are private- the format changes and poof- your privacy is gone.

People have had all kinds of info used AGAINST them via this type of "networking".

So-  BEWARE!    It is akin to telling danger stranger the key to your life.

What the fuck does over 30 have to do with anything?

Though I disagree with PA's age assessment, I think I understand what he's trying to state. Maybe not.

Using my family and friends, of all generations as the basis, I have noticed a generational gap, if you will, when it comes to the issue of one's privacy. Those of us from my generation and older tend to view privacy as something personal; only giving out personal details of ourselves to others when it is necessary for whatever reason. Those in generations younger than myself have a tendency to hold a laissez-faire attitude about their personal information; it's no big deal to them if their friends or family members know some of their details, even most intimate moments.

Again, using my circle of people as an example -- which probably is highly different from anyone else's circle -- my nieces, nephews, and their friends have no problem sharing everything about their lives, even the intimate details of their dates and adult activities (yes, they are adults) in the open forum of Facebook for all the world to read. They have no problem with broadcasting their intimate photos via MMS to any and all who wish to see. Those who are in my generation or older tend to keep that stuff hidden, if it's even posted anywhere at all.

When I've asked my nieces and nephews if they think that having all of their intimate details out for public inspection, view, and comment is wise, particularly in light that many employers scour such pages and sites to look for what they might consider to be inappropriate behavior, they shrug it off and hold the opinion that it won't matter.

So yeah, PA may have a point but I don't agree the magical age is 30 when it comes to realizing the value of holding certain parts of one's life private.




pahunkboy -> RE: Anybody familiar with Facebook? (4/4/2010 9:02:22 AM)

sappatoti, BIG HUGS!

That is precisely what I meant.






LaTigresse -> RE: Anybody familiar with Facebook? (4/4/2010 9:02:37 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: pahunkboy

People.

I don't think you should put much info on facebook- or myspace or any sim site.

On the one hand- a very basic info can allow old contacts to find you- good and the bad.

But I really want to caution everyone here- that- those of us who are over 30??  really should not use this type of site.

Even when you THINK your settings are private- the format changes and poof- your privacy is gone.

People have had all kinds of info used AGAINST them via this type of "networking".

So-  BEWARE!    It is akin to telling danger stranger the key to your life.




Oh sheesh PA, quit being so freakin paranoid!

My family is connected via facebook and we love it. We can share photos and information with one another. It really keeps us more connected and positively involved with one another. I have a sibling in Ohio, several in Colorado, and several here in Iowa. My kids live a distance from me, as do my grands. I can take photos, like I did yesterday, and share them with all of my family, my grand's mother, who lives 200 miles from me, with ease.

I simply keep my 'friends' list confined to the people I am comfortable having access to to my family...........IE: family and very dear friends.

I have a completely separate acct for my photography........I don't care who views that.




slaveluci -> RE: Anybody familiar with Facebook? (4/4/2010 9:02:53 AM)

I've been on FB about 6 months or so and feel this way about "privacy" there: There really IS none. I don't post anything or "friend" anyone that I wouldn't want the world to read or know about. If you follow that principle, you know that no matter how settings change, there will never be anything there that you need to worry about..........luci




pahunkboy -> RE: Anybody familiar with Facebook? (4/4/2010 9:04:27 AM)

PS- the magic age is not 30.

Older  folks tend to be -- more aware of privacy--place a premium on it.




pahunkboy -> RE: Anybody familiar with Facebook? (4/4/2010 9:06:37 AM)

Well  LAT,  good fences make good neighbors.




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