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leadership527 -> RE: A Question for Straight Male Sub/slaves (4/8/2010 11:12:54 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MISTRESSREE I mean in a friend context, if your friend said they had lost respect for you, wouldn't you feel hurt by those words... Above all other people in the world, I depend on my friends to tell me the truth. Someone didn't get to be my friend just by happenstance. If I call someone my friend, then I respect their opinion. And if their opinion of me has plummeted, then I've got a problem. So, to your point... I would expect ANYONE that was on my friends list... independent of whether they are dom, sub, or any other thing, to tell me -- if necessary very bluntly -- when I was being a fuck-up. I expect this of Carol who is not simply "a sub", but "my slave".

MISTRESSREE -> RE: A Question for Straight Male Sub/slaves (4/9/2010 8:13:47 PM)
Leadership527----Thank-you for taking the time to offer your opinion in answer to My question.... I understand you are a Dom which I respect you as a individual living happily practicing your Power Exchange Dreams and finding a slave who lives those dreams alongside You is Magical in This Universe as I am sure You are very aware of..... Kind of what I am hoping to find on here TruthBeKnown.... Of couse, correctly you answered in a strictly friendship point of view because you are not submissive but Dom and sooo you answered how you would feel if Your friend told you that they had lost respect for You.... Hmmmn Interesting that you said that you would expect your friend to tell you that you are being a Fuck-up!!!! Honestly have you had a female friend tell you that---would that change your opinion??? Or is it Your Male Friend's opinion??? Hmmmn just guessing but correct Me if I am wrong, when I believe you are speaking about Your male friends???? Just a guess because being a Dom you live that in Your Universe and ideas of Power Exchange... I am assuming that perhaps if it was a sub/slave female who was telling you you were Fucking Up You may feel a bit more your authority was being challenged???? Nooo??? Correct Me if I am wrong.... The thing I find soooo facinating about this Post is every single person has a different perspective and point of view... I enjoy reading all the responses and respect all points of view..... I think that My whole premise was to try and find out what submissive males think.... They come from their own unique heartfelt point of view.... That is Magical in My Universe.... Would they tell a Domme they had lost respect for her??? If she was in the lifestyle and a friend and they were not subservient to her, still would her position entitle her to a measure of respect???? I don't know it is really rather complicated in My context because there is much I cannot really go into in regards to the friendship..... I think what I am trying to determine is the intent that these words were said to Me.... Was it meant to wound and Being told the respect was not forthcoming meant to drive the knife in deeper???? Or??? Was it meant to try and find common ground in order to continue.... That is what makes alll the difference and why I came on here asking about the respect issue..... Now in My mind I still do not know??? The Doms or Dommes say you were probably a bitch and deserved it... The subs say they actually would walk away without saying anything so hurtful even if they wanted to.... Wow interesting tobesure!!!!

joey46 -> RE: A Question for Straight Male Sub/slaves (7/2/2010 8:15:06 PM)
I might say something like that if I were totally frustrated, hurt, and enraged about something awful, but unless I was intending to end the relationship I would regret it quickly and hope that I could be soundly punished and allowed back. There is a school of thought that says that when others put something like that in our faces it is actually a reflection of our own inner wisdom giving us a chance to work through something important for us. The "hot button" is usually viewed as the tip-off on one of these. It's not that the other person isn't being a hateful jerk. It's just that it is an opportunity to move through whatever it is that makes us so vulnerable to a hateful jerk. For myself, I see the point in this view but have one hell of a time remembering it when said hateful jerk is right in my face and have no idea what to make of it when I realize that I may the one acting like a hateful jerk.

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