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RE: Am I a man?????? - 4/5/2010 10:49:14 AM   
lusciouslips19


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ORIGINAL: kiwisub12

No no - first you have to SHOW it, then you demand to have it sucked!!!!


Get it right girl .... er...... boy...... er.... whatever!

'What are you some 13 year old boy????

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RE: Am I a man?????? - 4/5/2010 11:50:15 AM   
afkarr


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Status: offline 		If anybody wants to determine my gender, they're welcome to meet me in person for coffee. I'll even buy my own, lest they think I'm only after their wallet.

That said, it seems nobody even bothers reading profiles before emailing and demanding such nonsense- my profile- which is short, sweet, and to the point- clearly indicates Im currently involved. It also indicates I'm looking for a dominant anything at this point. Doesn't stop the wankers from sending me stupid one line demanding mails.

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RE: Am I a man?????? - 4/5/2010 12:50:07 PM   
DCWoody


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Status: offline 		I think the main way to tell the difference between sensible requirements and unreasonable demands is whether or not they're expecting/asking for nudity.....then again, possibly a complication that even the nice guys would also (I assume)...quite like nudity, if it's an option...

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RE: Am I a man?????? - 4/5/2010 1:02:15 PM   
lally2


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Status: offline 		i tend to give out my mobile.  i know people have a problem with that, but i never have.  noone has ever abused it and anyway, if they did, it rings, you see who it is you dont answer -

solves the whole gender thing in half a sec, but then ive only had that one dweeb write to me and get offensive -



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RE: Am I a man?????? - 4/5/2010 1:43:33 PM   
DickSteel


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So I ask you this, isn't my profile and picture enough for a first conversation?

No you're not a man. However, if you were a 'true' sub, you would post fully nekked profile pics with genital close ups, insertion and blow job pics.

Your cyber guy sounds like a real wanker.

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RE: Am I a man?????? - 4/5/2010 5:30:07 PM   
UniqueRaven


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Status: offline 		This is why i don't use a cam - at all. Too many "Doms" pushing you to perform for them online.

i tell anyone that i chat with that i don't have a cam, but i have no issue with proving i am who i present myself as, namely, female, and, me. And all the pics on my profile - with the exception of the one on my knees - are recent (last 6 months). i offer to do the thing taking a pic of myself (clothed) holding up a sign with whatever they want to say on it and send it to them - but i've never had anyone ask.

i also don't immediately talk sex with someone - i don't fulfill online fantasies, i'm a private person, and if someone asks "what's the kinkiest thing you've ever done" or something like that i graciously decline to answer. i have rules to protect myself as unowned property, and not sharing personal and private information until the relationship progresses is one of them.

i honestly get a lot of positive responses to this - and most believe that i'm real because i portray myself as such. i have only had twice that someone decided to not continue talking when i told him i didn't have a cam, which was fine.

Bottom line - setting rules to protect yourself while you're seeking a Dom isn't disrespectful, it's necessary - and anyone worth getting to know will understand.

Good luck!

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RE: Am I a man?????? - 4/6/2010 4:33:32 AM   
eyesopened


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Status: offline 		I understand that there are a lot of scammers.  So I kinda understand.

What I have a problem with is the attitude of this Dominant.  He is approaching with a negative attitude.  He is first expecting a scam, he is making his first approach from a negative point of view.  I have no need for negative people in my life so I would have passed him by, not because of the demand but because if he's starting out looking for something 'wrong' by golly he's gonna keep looking until he finds it.

Who needs that crap?

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RE: Am I a man?????? - 4/6/2010 4:46:47 AM   
BKSir


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quote:

ORIGINAL: switch2please

Pssssst - just kidding. There are no dangly bits here...but claiming I DO have them is a good way to limit spam ;)


May I just say, with a face and body like that, if you did have dangly bits, it wouldn't limit the harassment from me...  In fact, I'd probably pester you incessantly. ;)

Also, good on you, SexySea, for telling him to get stuffed.

I have a cam, but I don't openly give out the info.  It took me 2 years to give it to someone I talk with in a nearly daily basis.  This someone is also knowingly under consideration by me (Yes, I take it slowly), and he knows it, and what to expect.  But, at the same time, I still ask if he minds if I peek in on his camera.  If he says he'd rather not as he's dirty and sweaty or whatever, or even if he just doesn't want me to right then, that's fine. 

Conversely, for the longest time, I thought he might actually be a girl... LOL.  He looks more passable as a female than the overwhelming majority of females I've seen.

Oh, and PS:  Jeff... You're not a flat chested woman with a huge clit, you're a friggin' anteater and we all know it.  You poor, delusional maniac.


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RE: Am I a man?????? - 4/6/2010 5:34:30 AM   
reynardfox


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RE: Am I a man?????? - 4/6/2010 6:03:13 AM   
tbstewa


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Status: offline 		I wouldn't be too quick to cam with someone. I have a picture in my profile and I feel that webcam should be something shown when both parties are comfortable showing what they look like. I also understand that it most likely would have been shown had you not been as you would see it as presentable. In my opinion though if you aren't comfortable and he is continuing to push the issue drop it. I requested webcam with a girl whom I was considering after 6 months of getting to know her. She asked if it could wait until after she got out of the shower and I told her that I was okay with it. It happened when she came back. Another thought though is that the trust that would come may possibly lead to that at one point because if a man cared slightly about a woman he would care whether she's a beauty queen or a dumpster queen in terms of looks..

Final determination comes down to if it's outside of your comfort zone then he is going to make you uncomfortable at all times.,

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RE: Am I a man?????? - 4/6/2010 9:29:47 AM   
pegbundy


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Status: offline 		Ok, here goes - my first reply to a forum post. I've read the OP, and each reply carefully. I, personally, take issue with someone I don't know demanding anything of me simply because I am a sub. How does this man having created a profile and capitalized his name give him any right to demand anything of you?

I've only been on this site for a few days, and I've received a multitude of messages demanding this or that. The block button is my friend. I do hope that the OP will become more comfortable with trusting your gut reaction to such obvious bullshit and use the block button freely in such situations as well. The simple fact of being a submissive does not automatically give others the right to be rude to you. This right must be earned and given to them.

Just my humble opinion on the matter. Thanks for listening.

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RE: Am I a man?????? - 4/6/2010 10:39:41 AM   
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RE: Am I a man?????? - 4/7/2010 10:23:35 AM   
pegbundy


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Status: offline 		Thank you for the warm welcome, dreamerdreaming. And four little applauding guys? Really, it's too much!

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RE: Am I a man?????? - 4/7/2010 10:27:28 AM   
Jeffff


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Status: offline 		Peg?.......Just once I'd like to hear you say, " Al, I am talking the kids and I am outta here!"

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RE: Am I a man?????? - 4/7/2010 10:32:06 AM   
Musicmystery


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RE: Am I a man?????? - 4/7/2010 10:34:41 AM   
VampiresLair


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Status: offline 		I remember when some guy did this to me, he assumed I must have been a guy who stole photos from the net because I wouldnt send him others or cam with him to prove who I was. The fact that he was a dom and so was I and I wasnt interested in proving anything to him since I was completely uninterested IN him didnt seem to matter.

So, I told him Id send him one more. It happened to be of my 6'4 350 lb baby brother who bears an amazing enough similarity to me that if he were in drag he could pass for me, from the shoulders up. The stream of profanity was amazing!

DV


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RE: Am I a man?????? - 4/7/2010 10:35:55 AM   
domiguy


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quote:

ORIGINAL: pegbundy

Ok, here goes - my first reply to a forum post. I've read the OP, and each reply carefully. I, personally, take issue with someone I don't know demanding anything of me simply because I am a sub. How does this man having created a profile and capitalized his name give him any right to demand anything of you?

Just my humble opinion on the matter. Thanks for listening.


I chose not to capitalize my name. Now show me your cunt!

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RE: Am I a man?????? - 4/7/2010 10:41:24 AM   
pegbundy


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Status: offline 		I'll get right on that domiguy. Really, I will. lol

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RE: Am I a man?????? - 4/7/2010 10:46:20 AM   
Musicmystery


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Status: offline 		What a piece of work is a man, how noble in reason, how
infinite in faculties, in form and moving how express and
admirable, in action how like an angel, in apprehension how like
a god! the beauty of the world, the paragon of animals—and yet,
to me, what is this quintessence of dust? Man delights not me—
nor woman neither, though by your smiling you seem to say so.

--Hamlet

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RE: Am I a man?????? - 4/7/2010 11:37:40 AM   
tazzygirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: pegbundy

Ok, here goes - my first reply to a forum post. I've read the OP, and each reply carefully. I, personally, take issue with someone I don't know demanding anything of me simply because I am a sub. How does this man having created a profile and capitalized his name give him any right to demand anything of you?

I've only been on this site for a few days, and I've received a multitude of messages demanding this or that. The block button is my friend. I do hope that the OP will become more comfortable with trusting your gut reaction to such obvious bullshit and use the block button freely in such situations as well. The simple fact of being a submissive does not automatically give others the right to be rude to you. This right must be earned and given to them.

Just my humble opinion on the matter. Thanks for listening.


hi peg and welcome.

dont take offence. they can only demand what you are willing to give. pity them instead of thinking you can be so easily fooled.

we teach others how we want to be treated. stay on your path. sounds like a good one so far.

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