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AquaticSub -> RE: Flirting BDSM style (4/6/2010 6:47:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littlewonder quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub quote: ORIGINAL: littlewonder I don't change the way I flirt...flirting is flirting for me...a whisp of the hair, a sway in my walk, a look in my eyes or the way I will turn away but yet try to catch his glimpse...I don't know..I probably suck at flirting though. I definately don't change how I flirt in the slightest and wasn't trying to suggest that anyone does. More trying to figure out what kinds of flirting are tied to power dynamics and BDSM and what people find appealing and unappealing about those types. I guess that's what's confusing to me then. I only ever flirted with men who are a dominant personality whether they had ever heard of bdsm or not, who I wanted to get to know better for possibly dating. Now that I'm taken I have almost no use for flirting except with Master. Most men barely even catch my eye anymore. I haven't been lucky enough to only flirt with dominant men. I have discovered, through potential courtships, that I've had intital interest in men only to discover we wouldn't work because they aren't dominant. The question is more to examine the dom/sub aspect of flirting and how people will consider one thing to be flirting and others not in the slightest. [:)]

Icarys -> RE: Flirting BDSM style (4/6/2010 6:49:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse I suck at flirting. Who woulda thunk it. :>

catize -> RE: Flirting BDSM style (4/6/2010 6:52:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen1968 quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub For you dear... Both. ;-) [sm=banana.gif] See, that's flirting! I recognize it! I just can't get comfy with how its done!

Icarys -> RE: Flirting BDSM style (4/6/2010 6:59:13 PM)
I guess I don't do a lot of flirting till I get to know a person better. Although I've flirted with a couple of people on this board..I'm just not much for what I call casual flirting.

AquaticSub -> RE: Flirting BDSM style (4/6/2010 7:00:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: catize quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen1968 quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub For you dear... Both. ;-) [sm=banana.gif] See, that's flirting! I recognize it! I just can't get comfy with how its done! I could help you with that... [:D]

alhamdullilah -> RE: Flirting BDSM style (4/6/2010 7:54:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Smutmonger sure. Do you like LEATHER? Ummm... Sure but- leather coffee??

catize -> RE: Flirting BDSM style (4/6/2010 8:25:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub quote: ORIGINAL: catize quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen1968 quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub For you dear... Both. ;-) [sm=banana.gif] See, that's flirting! I recognize it! I just can't get comfy with how its done! I could help you with that... [:D] ~~gets warm and smiles~ and then says something witty like.........uhhhhhhhh [sm=couch.gif]

AquaticSub -> RE: Flirting BDSM style (4/6/2010 9:03:31 PM)
Sweety, that was a perfect opening for a "will you help with me my homework" comment. [;)]

VaguelyCurious -> RE: Flirting BDSM style (4/7/2010 5:26:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: catize quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub quote: ORIGINAL: catize See, that's flirting! I recognize it! I just can't get comfy with how its done! I could help you with that... [:D] ~~gets warm and smiles~ and then says something witty like.........uhhhhhhhh [sm=couch.gif] See, I've got this one sussed-I'm not much of a flirt in the 'insert flirtatious witty line here' stye of flirting, but I smile at everyone, and touch people's forearms a lot, and I wink, and I say 'Oh, really?' whenever someone says something that could be innapropriately misconstrued. These things have earned me a reputation as a flirt without having to be smooth enough to actually flirt. As far as I can tell, that's all you really need. [:D][:D][:D][:D]

LaTigresse -> RE: Flirting BDSM style (4/7/2010 7:22:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Icarys quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse I suck at flirting. Who woulda thunk it. :> Ass! Not to be confused with flirting...[:D]

jbcurious -> RE: Flirting BDSM style (4/7/2010 7:49:57 AM)
I was recently chatting with a CM friend and mentioned how much I admire you and enjoy reading your posts... and that if I were bi, I would me knocking on your door... he replied that if giraffs had knuckles they would be knocking on your door... ... yes, that's another style of flirting, giving a sincere compliment.

lusciouslips19 -> RE: Flirting BDSM style (4/7/2010 7:52:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse quote: ORIGINAL: Icarys quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse I suck at flirting. Who woulda thunk it. :> Ass! Not to be confused with flirting...[:D] Shouldnt it have said "I flirt at sucking"????

domiguy -> RE: Flirting BDSM style (4/7/2010 8:02:52 AM)
Flirting? Flirting is just conversation with extra personal interest. It is making someone feel comfortable, getting them to smile, relax and laugh. It's letting someone know that there is an interest that goes beyond the norm. It's about giving someone your attention at the right pace and to not make the flirtee feel like their personal space has been invaded. Once the connection has been made then it is fairly safe to surmise that all of their personal spaces will not only be invaded but abused......Yay!!! The biggest part of flirting or starting off in a conversation with someone that you have interest in is to be able to discern when someone is just being polite and someone has an actual interest. Lots of folks seem to have an inability to decipher between the two.

sunshinemiss -> RE: Flirting BDSM style (4/7/2010 10:18:38 AM)
Funny... flirting is just conversation to me. As the years have gone by, I've noticed that my flirty style has altered into something deeper and more sincere. I am able to really focus on someone I'm in convesation with or who has my attention. Like there is no one else in the world. That can be quite seductive even though it isn't usually my intent. It does make me see how beautiful people are - people I wouldn't have noticed previously. They seem to glow when they have your full attention. If there were an Olympic sport for flirting, I could win it. yes indeed. However, I don't flirt with people I'm attracted to. I don't like the risk of rejection. So if I ignore someone or am really tough and completely non-sensual with them, I really like them.

Jeffff -> RE: Flirting BDSM style (4/7/2010 10:25:56 AM)
(bats his eyes at missy)..................Suck my cock you whore!

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Flirting BDSM style (4/7/2010 10:26:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff (bats his eyes at missy)..................Suck my cock you whore! The direct approach makes me all swoony!![8D]

sunshinemiss -> RE: Flirting BDSM style (4/7/2010 3:29:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff (bats his eyes at missy)..................Suck my cock you whore! How does one respond to such a tempting and precious offer?

divi -> RE: Flirting BDSM style (4/7/2010 3:30:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff (bats his eyes at missy)..................Suck my cock you whore! Jeff you need better lines .. sheesh

LaTigresse -> RE: Flirting BDSM style (4/7/2010 3:32:01 PM)
And yet, he wonders....

divi -> RE: Flirting BDSM style (4/7/2010 3:33:03 PM)
I wonder if he just cuts and pastes them and changes the names lol

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