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UniqueRaven -> RE: This is way to difficult (4/7/2010 7:35:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious quote: ORIGINAL: UniqueRaven Jefffff, if you get the kinds with the ankle straps and practice with those first, it helps. The ankle straps hold the shoe on your foot so you can focus on balance. It's a shame to let those gams go to waste. i'm sure you look fabulous swinging a flogger in heels and thigh highs. Share your gift with the community! UniqueRaven, I've always loved your attitude (and your avatar-so sue me, I'm shallow...), but this post was the point at which I officially fell in love with you. [:D][:D][:D][:D][:D] You=Amazingness. The Cute One has spoken. Gosh, i'm blushing now, thank you. And i don't even have to wear high heels! Yay me! Hee hee! [:D]

Kana -> RE: This is way to difficult (4/7/2010 7:36:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Icarys quote: ORIGINAL: Kana The most difficult thing... Grins Why, self control of course. Can't master another before ya master yourself, but then, that's JMHO. I agree here but I'll disagree a touch here. I'd suspect it's a continuous learning thing for all of us. I for one don't think I'll ever reach perfection. As you can see..I can be a bit of a prick..I'm working on that a little..not too much though..It's handy at times. Grins Agreed

divi -> RE: This is way to difficult (4/7/2010 7:37:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Icarys That was actually clever...[:D] I'm proud of you. Yes it was :)

Rochsub2009 -> RE: This is way to difficult (4/7/2010 7:47:05 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Missokyst The thing I find most tedious, time consuming and that requires patience and skill is decorative bondage. [sm=agree.gif] This is what i would have said. Suspension play requires quite a bit of practice too. Accidentally hanging someone can really ruin a scene. [;)]

peppermint -> RE: This is way to difficult (4/7/2010 8:16:34 AM)
I have to agree with Smutmonger here. From the types of questions I see in the forum the most difficult skill is the skill of communication. It seems that a great number of posts ask us to explain why a partner won't do, wants to do, can't do something or other, as if we are mind readers. Some even say they have talked to their partner about the problem with little results. So communication must be difficult for many.

LadyPact -> RE: This is way to difficult (4/7/2010 8:35:07 AM)
Most difficult topping skill? I'd probably have to say decorative bondage as well. My idea of bondage is practical, not pretty. I honestly don't care if all of the knots are perfectly symmetrical or they are in an exactly line down the body. I can appreciate the beauty of rope work done by those who are that meticulous, but I just don't have the patience. My idea of rope is get the person bound so the main event can begin.

domiguy -> RE: This is way to difficult (4/7/2010 9:43:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact Most difficult topping skill? I'd probably have to say decorative bondage as well. My idea of bondage is practical, not pretty. I honestly don't care if all of the knots are perfectly symmetrical or they are in an exactly line down the body. I can appreciate the beauty of rope work done by those who are that meticulous, but I just don't have the patience. My idea of rope is get the person bound so the main event can begin. Food is about presentation. If you are spending a vast amount of time on learning decorative bondage when you could be learning about cooking and preparing food your priorities are really fucked up. Who exactly benefits from decorative bondage? Much like Lady Pact, I am all about the practicality not the presentation.

takemeforyourown -> RE: This is way to difficult (4/7/2010 9:55:38 AM)
So far, I've found it difficult to keep from yelling 'owwwww' loud enough that the neighbors call the police.

SimplyMichael -> RE: This is way to difficult (4/7/2010 9:56:09 AM)
Based on my extensive time in the bdsm scene, I would have to say not being an idiot would be the hardest skill to learn. A less sarcastic answer might be learning to top a person as an individual rather than thinking of them as universal targets.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: This is way to difficult (4/7/2010 9:57:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy I have to say the thing that I have found to be the most time consuming was manatee play. Just laying in a hot tub, doing pretty much nothing. Didn't you spend lots of time eating salad at the same time? THAT'S what else manatees do. That, and get in the way of boat propellers.

sunshinemiss -> RE: This is way to difficult (4/7/2010 10:01:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael Based on my extensive time in the bdsm scene, I would have to say not being an idiot would be the hardest skill to learn. A less sarcastic answer might be learning to top a person as an individual rather than thinking of them as universal targets. Michael - You remind me of the Life of Brian. Brian to crowd: "You are all individuals." Crowd to Brian: "We are all individuals." sigh

domiguy -> RE: This is way to difficult (4/7/2010 10:03:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy I have to say the thing that I have found to be the most time consuming was manatee play. Just laying in a hot tub, doing pretty much nothing. Didn't you spend lots of time eating salad at the same time? THAT'S what else manatees do. That, and get in the way of boat propellers. http://www.collarchat.com/m_3130695/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#3130695 "This is one of my favorite things to do. Manatee role playing is hot!!! It gets especially exciting when the water in the hot tub turns a bright crimson. This is achieved by ripping a blade deep across her back as if she had been struck by the prop of a boat. Sweet manatee memories."

sunshinemiss -> RE: This is way to difficult (4/7/2010 10:08:51 AM)
You're an odd duck.

Rochsub2009 -> RE: This is way to difficult (4/7/2010 10:34:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael A less sarcastic answer might be learning to top a person as an individual rather than thinking of them as universal targets. And that is such an important skill. i hate it when i am in a session with a new Domme, and She seems to be going through a script that She has rehearsed 1,000 times before. Or expecting me to respond the same way her last sub did. [:'(] Every session should be new and different. If you treat each sub the same, you won't maximize the enjoyment of your time together (either yours, or the sub's).

afkarr -> RE: This is way to difficult (4/7/2010 12:28:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: UniqueRaven Wow, this degenerated quickly. [8\|] As a slave, not counting relationship skills, the most difficult thing for me was figuring out how to constantly be in high heel shoes. i do a lot of pilates and yoga, and my feet prefer to be flat..... Barefoot D/s is beautiful......nothing quite like 2 soles touching......

Aileen1968 -> RE: This is way to difficult (4/7/2010 2:40:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy I have to say the thing that I have found to be the most time consuming was manatee play. Just laying in a hot tub, doing pretty much nothing. Didn't you spend lots of time eating salad at the same time? THAT'S what else manatees do. That, and get in the way of boat propellers. http://www.collarchat.com/m_3130695/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#3130695 "This is one of my favorite things to do. Manatee role playing is hot!!! It gets especially exciting when the water in the hot tub turns a bright crimson. This is achieved by ripping a blade deep across her back as if she had been struck by the prop of a boat. Sweet manatee memories." Manatees are stealth creatures of the sea. Damn it. Ask Shore. He's a manatee expert.

Jeffff -> RE: This is way to difficult (4/7/2010 2:47:54 PM)
He is SO dreamy! Is there anything Shore can't do? :)

divi -> RE: This is way to difficult (4/7/2010 2:49:03 PM)
He does sound dreamy! Aileen does Shore have a brother ???

Aileen1968 -> RE: This is way to difficult (4/7/2010 2:49:52 PM)
He is dreamy. He has a brother. And he can lay pipe too!

Jeffff -> RE: This is way to difficult (4/7/2010 2:50:45 PM)
If I was gay, I would be banging DG. Does he have a sister?

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