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humiliation tasks - 4/7/2010 11:44:17 PM   
subslut376


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Status: offline 		 i just need peoples ideas and opinions on different humiliating methods and tasks that i can have my sub (girl) perform, either as punishment, or just for my own amusement. if anyone has any good ideas, they would be greatly appreciated. thanks in advance everyone

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RE: humiliation tasks - 4/7/2010 11:46:43 PM   
AlexandraLynch


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RE: humiliation tasks - 4/7/2010 11:55:51 PM   
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ORIGINAL: subslut376

i just need peoples ideas and opinions on different humiliating methods and tasks that i can have my sub (girl) perform, either as punishment, or just for my own amusement. if anyone has any good ideas, they would be greatly appreciated. thanks in advance everyone

No, you don't.  Anything that might be considered as humiliating to My submissive isn't especially going to get the same reaction when you put your sub in the same situation.  Why aren't you asking her what would be humiliating tasks for her?

In all seriousness, if you need your material provided to you by other tops because you lack the creativity, exactly why does your sub need the middle man (meaning you)?  I'm betting there are a good number of male Dominants on these boards that are more than willing to take over the job if you don't know how to do it yourself.


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RE: humiliation tasks - 4/8/2010 12:00:03 AM   
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Status: offline 		oh, so whenever anyone asks for suggestions that automatically takes away their creativeness? isn't that what these message boards are for? if you don't have anything relative to say, then don't bother writing on the subject. this goes for anyone who feels the need to try and put down people they don't know.

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RE: humiliation tasks - 4/8/2010 1:02:02 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		I did have something relative to say.  Communicate with your submissive because she is the only one who knows what will bring the key element to her feeling any sort of humiliation.  If you're lacking that, the only thing that other people's suggestions are going to do for you is give you a hit or miss situation.

Sure, you can look at the boards in such a way as other folks handing you the tools that you need to dominate someone.  The truth is, there really aren't universal answers.  It's your job as the Dominant or top to find out what works with her as an individual.  You have to show some initiative in this.

If you're completely lacking ideas, google is always your friend.  Had you done a simple search using the criteria "BDSM checklist humiliation" you would have gotten the following link http://www.domsubfriends.com/library/humiliation1.shtml .  Why don't you take that list and ask your submissive what she thinks of the various activities and which ones would inspire the feelings that you would like to see as a result?  Have her rate them for you from one to five in progressive order of what trips her humiliation buttons. 

None of this is all that difficult.


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RE: humiliation tasks - 4/8/2010 1:29:22 AM   
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ORIGINAL: subslut376

oh, so whenever anyone asks for suggestions that automatically takes away their creativeness? isn't that what these message boards are for?
There's an English advert for recycling with the catchphrase 'Recycle! The possibilities...are...endless!'

As far as I can tell (not really my bag) humiliation fits into that 'endless possibilities' category. So people are suspicious when you can't come up with even the basics yourself-it *does* say something about either a lack of creativity, or a laziness, or an unwillingness to engage with your sub. I don't know which of those options apply to you, but none of them are all that great.

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if you don't have anything relative to say, then don't bother writing on the subject. this goes for anyone who feels the need to try and put down people they don't know.
This is the internet-pretending you can control who posts on your thread is pissing at a windmill. Don't bother-you can no more stop critical posts on this thread than we can stop people from asking endlessly repeated and kinda stupid questions on this forum.


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RE: humiliation tasks - 4/8/2010 2:40:49 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: subslut376

 i just need peoples ideas and opinions on different humiliating methods and tasks that i can have my sub (girl) perform, either as punishment, or just for my own amusement. if anyone has any good ideas, they would be greatly appreciated. thanks in advance everyone



And yet you are a male submissive "new here and looking for a strong handed woman to take me in and turn me into the perfect little slut. i like to be humiliated and tortured when im bad, and am very submissive to the right woman, or women. if you want to know more just send me message, im always open to making new friends" or so you say in your profile.


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RE: humiliation tasks - 4/8/2010 2:49:07 AM   
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Status: offline 		I believe you are at a place we have all been at one time or another, asking advice or guidance is the course of least effort and resistance so most of us opt to pursue it at some point. But others sharing their opinions and experiences cannot replace innovative and creativities thinking. Patterned repetitive behaviors even if practiced by most, soon become boring

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RE: humiliation tasks - 4/8/2010 3:01:47 AM   
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subslut376.. I know that the responses sometimes seem snippy (and as a matter of fact there are indeed some people who post here that are so utterly lacking in social skills that they seem incapable of being anything but snarky - but trust me none of them have replied to your post so far!). The responses you've had are both supportive and mild by comparison to some of the flame-fests on these boards.

Take LadyPact's advice -
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
If you're completely lacking ideas, google is always your friend.  Had you done a simple search using the criteria "BDSM checklist humiliation" you would have gotten the following link http://www.domsubfriends.com/library/humiliation1.shtml .  Why don't you take that list and ask your submissive what she thinks of the various activities and which ones would inspire the feelings that you would like to see as a result?  Have her rate them for you from one to five in progressive order of what trips her humiliation buttons. 

None of this is all that difficult.



But I would say that "Making your sub wear unmatched clothing" should be  a hard limit on everyone's list.

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RE: humiliation tasks - 4/8/2010 3:43:08 AM   
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RE: humiliation tasks - 4/8/2010 4:19:29 AM   
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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss




That's a bit rich, sunshine, considering that you just did.

I'm not too keen on being told not to do something once by someone who just did it, let alone being told six times...


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RE: humiliation tasks - 4/8/2010 5:29:00 AM   
kanina


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Status: offline 		For exemple the same situation in different contest can be or not humilliating, if a sub lives in a small village going to the pharmacy to by condoms can be hummilliating  if she does the exactly same thing in, lets say New York would be different...

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RE: humiliation tasks - 4/8/2010 6:13:00 AM   
Kana


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Status: offline 		When I want to humiliate her I force her to read forums based on questions that have been discussed a trillion times before.

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RE: humiliation tasks - 4/8/2010 6:32:00 AM   
Aylee


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Status: offline 		You could always make her use a profile picture like Kana's.  Ya know. . . where she is pretending to be Samson. 


Actually making her copy the pose and clothing or lack there of about 90% of the profile pics that I see pop up when I log on would be pretty humiliating.  Or at least inspire her to learn photography. 

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RE: humiliation tasks - 4/8/2010 6:32:06 AM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		There are two ways to do humiliation:
1. Have her do things that SHE finds humiliating.
2. Have her do things that YOU would consider humiliating.

We don't know either one of you.

Since you yourself are submissive, the most likely explanation is that you're asking us for wanking material.


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RE: humiliation tasks - 4/8/2010 7:40:17 AM   
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RE: humiliation tasks - 4/8/2010 8:27:31 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		First, involving others nonconsensually in your kink is inappropriate. If you want her to embarass herself by visiting her grandmother in sleazy clothing, grow a pair and take her to visit yours instead. She shouldn't pay the price for your stupidity, you should.

Moreover, does she like humiliation? Does she find it erotic or does it make her distrust you and want to get away from you? Better you find out before she refuses to talk to you again.


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RE: humiliation tasks - 4/8/2010 8:29:17 AM   
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RE: humiliation tasks - 4/8/2010 8:48:10 AM   
Kana


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ORIGINAL: Aylee

You could always make her use a profile picture like Kana's.  Ya know. . . where she is pretending to be Samson. 



Pretending...
Hmmppphhhhh!
Crosses arms, stomps feet, pouts.
Recognize!


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RE: humiliation tasks - 4/8/2010 8:59:41 AM   
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Status: offline 		Kana - i have been reading through these forums for a few days now, and your posts seem to make me chuckle quite frequently. Thank you for that.

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