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peppermint -> RE: humiliation tasks (4/8/2010 9:13:53 AM)

Before I answer any questions I need to know basic information.  Your profile says you are submissive.  This post makes you out to be Dominant.  Perhaps you are a switch then?  When I understand where you are coming from I will be able to offer better advice.  




afkarr -> RE: humiliation tasks (4/8/2010 10:26:41 AM)

First of all, you need to determine what your sub thinks is humiliating, and what is a hard limt. For example, from the list LP posted, I personally find pet names like slut and whore during play to be terms of affection, think collars and leashes can be hot, and butt plugs and ass play are just yummy. On the other hand, anything related to potty is a hard limit, along with puppy play, public anything play, and objectification.

Randomly utilizing a laundry list off things you think may be humiliating may result in results far different that you want- from your sub actually enjoying them to her having an emotional breakdown because you waded blindly into a minefield to her kicking you to the curb. Proceed with caution, knowing what you want to achieve, and what will work with her to get there.




Aylee -> RE: humiliation tasks (4/8/2010 11:43:50 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Kana

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ORIGINAL: Aylee

You could always make her use a profile picture like Kana's.  Ya know. . . where she is pretending to be Samson.  [8|]



Pretending...
Hmmppphhhhh!
Crosses arms, stomps feet, pouts.
Recognize!



Well, Kana, SHE would have to pretend that she was Samson, as we all know that you are the one true Samson of this decade! [:)]




Andalusite -> RE: humiliation tasks (4/9/2010 8:21:16 AM)

Tell her to post here with one of the "stupid FAQs" like, "My Master never talks to me any more. Am I still his slave until he tells me formally that I'm released?" or "Do I have to do everything any Dominant tells me to do?" The responses she'll get should be humiliating to satisfy her cravings.[;)]




BalletBob -> RE: humiliation tasks (4/15/2010 8:37:35 PM)

AH, just dress her up as a Ballerinaor School Girl with Mary Janes. MOST FEMALES these days, wouldn't be caught in any thing FEMININE ! Most of the time, they are in Jeans, and those ugly clunky MALE type sneakers.

Old fashioned and still in Mary Janes, sub BalletBob




DesFIP -> RE: humiliation tasks (4/16/2010 4:43:03 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Smutmonger

Desi is wound up-again.  [:D]


Smutty, it's Des and not Desi.

And pointing out common sense truths is not being 'wound-up'.




VaguelyCurious -> RE: humiliation tasks (4/16/2010 5:06:25 AM)

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Smutty, it's Des and not Desi.
I noticed that too, but I assumed it was a deliberate insult-now it's occurred to me that desi might not actually be an insult in American English (?)




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