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RE: Covering Up a BDSM Relationship Form Your Friends - 4/9/2010 8:19:01 PM

SignaFerte

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There are times when the lie serves a greater truth. If by telling the truth you risk your career and livelihood, by all means, lie like a rug. However if it's just bitchy friends, consider that the truth may allow you to live in more peace than previously.

Ultimately we all must decide on a personal level how valuable our lifestyle is to our own ethos. Congratulations, it's your turn to choose.

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RE: Covering Up a BDSM Relationship Form Your Friends - 4/9/2010 8:53:24 PM

ricken

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OK, I had a few drinks, a little unusaul for me so:
This guy is having an affair,one night he falls asleep with his mistress,wakes up late and they both panic, suddenly he gets an idea, got any baby powder? he ask her, she gets some and he puts it all over his hands, gets dressed lossens his tie,dumps alittle beer on his shirt and goes home. his wife asks where you been, he says "I been screwing my mistress" she looks at him and says "don'tgive me no shit, you been out with your no good friends drinking beer and shooting pool"
So...If your friends are so involved they need to know:
1) Tell them the truth
2) Tell then a half truth (I'm going to see a girlfreind)
3) Lie
4) tell them none of their buisness

OR, if they really need, I mean REALLY need to know, tell them you will them IF they let you live there rent free,that should shut them the fuck up

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RE: Covering Up a BDSM Relationship Form Your Friends - 4/10/2010 11:31:46 AM

Wizard18

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To get back to the original question as I get it.

I play Clark Kent every day all day at work. Even though I have run into women there that I have met online on sites like this that know me to be from such. Very hard to ignore and put off very open and frank invites such as I have received.

Bottom line is you have to protect what is most dear to you. That is a question you will have to ask yourself. You know to make a simplisic and about to be bashed all to hell statement.... the reason why some folks join the military is not just to make it through hard times.

You just need to ask yourself... is it worth it?

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RE: Covering Up a BDSM Relationship Form Your Friends - 4/10/2010 12:15:23 PM

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OP, you don't owe anyone an explanation about your love/sex life except those involved in it. Your friends/roommates do not qualify for any explanation, unless you're involved in a love or sex relationship with them as well. You're not, so they don't.

Do you quiz them about the nature of their relationships, and what they do when they're away?

If they're just making conversation, say something vague indicating that you love your time off and your privacy, and change the subject. If you're happy, it'll show. And that's really all a friend needs to know, about that.

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