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why do u just want the cam and not the man in the pictu... - 4/9/2010 2:40:54 PM

need2becontolled

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I am a young sub/ slave and i am looking for a deeper than sexual and kink relationship in life! i did a few camera shows to show my willingness to serve for a few users of this site and all i got in return was good slave and then nothing! i ask all of you out there why is it so hard to find a sensual deep and caring dom/ domme and sub relationship! i want someone who i would enjoy serving and who would treat me as if they cared tho i am below them and all i have found is users and cunts! so someone help me! encourage me! or tell me why i am so wrong for wanting them to want the man in the picture and not just the acts in the video!!
sincerely,
a struggling young sub!!!

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RE: why do u just want the cam and not the man in the p... - 4/9/2010 2:43:50 PM

Madame4a

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turn off your camera and your computer and get out and meet people... so you can look into their eyes.. not into a lens or computer screen...

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RE: why do u just want the cam and not the man in the p... - 4/9/2010 2:47:35 PM

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Hint: No matter how douche-y some people might get....calling any Domme or woman who claims to be a Domme a "cunt" around here isn't gonna help you.

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RE: why do u just want the cam and not the man in the p... - 4/9/2010 2:48:26 PM

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Don't be such a cunt

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RE: why do u just want the cam and not the man in the p... - 4/9/2010 2:48:57 PM

Madame4a

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good point...

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ORIGINAL: BoiJen

Hint: No matter how douche-y some people might get....calling any Domme or woman who claims to be a Domme a "cunt" around here isn't gonna help you.

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RE: why do u just want the cam and not the man in the p... - 4/9/2010 3:05:12 PM

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You only get as good as you give.

If you are performing on cam for someone you don't know how can you expect them to have respect for you? Are you sure they are women you are performing for? Personally, I never watch men on camera, unless I have met them in person and am developing a relationship with them. Even then, it's very rare that I ask them to do anything of a sexual nature on that camera, I prefer to save that for face-to-face time.

If you want someone to want you, the person, not the cam-stud, then be a person. That simple.

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RE: why do u just want the cam and not the man in the p... - 4/9/2010 3:26:16 PM

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You are in Buffalo. There is an active and vibrant kink community there. They will have munches in the area, possibly several, and clubs in the larger cities around you too. Seek them out - get face to face with real people.

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RE: why do u just want the cam and not the man in the p... - 4/9/2010 3:30:12 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Domin8tingUrDrmz

You only get as good as you give.

If you are performing on cam for someone you don't know how can you expect them to have respect for you? Are you sure they are women you are performing for? Personally, I never watch men on camera, unless I have met them in person and am developing a relationship with them. Even then, it's very rare that I ask them to do anything of a sexual nature on that camera, I prefer to save that for face-to-face time.

If you want someone to want you, the person, not the cam-stud, then be a person. That simple.

That right there.

Most cases of 'cam show' directors turn out to be males. Unless you actually verified the other person's gender (either by them on cam as well, phone call, etc) you were most likely duped by a man. Some do it for kinky fun and others do it for pranks. At least you didn't end up on youtube............. hopefully.

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RE: why do u just want the cam and not the man in the p... - 4/9/2010 7:02:34 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: need2becontolled
I am a young sub/ slave and i am looking for a deeper than sexual and kink relationship in life! i did a few camera shows to show my willingness to serve for a few users of this site and all i got in return was good slave and then nothing!

Sometimes all someone wants is a shallow hour's worth of amusement. Sometimes they may be looking for more, but you turn out to be not what they're looking for. Screen people more carefully before you give away more of yourself than you can be comfortable giving as a "free sample".

And if you call women "cunts" because they tried you once and didn't want you again, it more or less retroactively justifies their lack of interest. Sorry, but that's the truth. I wouldn't have anything to do with a "submissive" who displayed that kind of anger and hostility. I understand that you're feeling used, but you offered and they accepted without promising any more. That's not a good enough justification to use woman-hating language that's going to offend women who didn't even do that much to you.

< Message edited by LadyNTrainer -- 4/9/2010 7:05:21 PM >

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RE: why do u just want the cam and not the man in the p... - 4/9/2010 7:37:43 PM

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Actually, I understand frustration. I just don't understand getting so upset about being rejected for trying the same tired, old tactics repeatedly enough to start calling strangers names. It's laziness and entitlement and that's just unattractive.

Something tells me the OP isn't going to like this thread he started.

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RE: why do u just want the cam and not the man in the p... - 4/9/2010 8:52:36 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: BoiJen

Hint: No matter how douche-y some people might get....calling any Domme or woman who claims to be a Domme a "cunt" around here isn't gonna help you.

boi

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RE: why do u just want the cam and not the man in the p... - 4/9/2010 10:56:49 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: need2becontolled

I am a young sub/ slave and i am looking for a deeper than sexual and kink relationship in life! i did a few camera shows to show my willingness to serve for a few users of this site and all i got in return was good slave and then nothing! i ask all of you out there why is it so hard to find a sensual deep and caring dom/ domme and sub relationship! i want someone who i would enjoy serving and who would treat me as if they cared tho i am below them and all i have found is users and cunts! so someone help me! encourage me! or tell me why i am so wrong for wanting them to want the man in the picture and not just the acts in the video!!
sincerely,
a struggling young sub!!!

My dear young man, if you act like common trash you will be treated like common trash. Stop doing "shows" and develop relationships first. I would not want a sub who acts as you do. And, this name calling is totaly out of line. You are dead wrong here. Your behaviour got back exactly what it deserved. Your profile says you have been here for only 7 days. 7 days and you are already in trouble. I suggest you stop everything and just learn by reading and chatting on these message boards.

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RE: why do u just want the cam and not the man in the p... - 4/10/2010 3:10:42 PM

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Fast reply:

These are probably not women, that you're camming for. They may be underage boys, or grown men.

Most women could get a live striptease from a guy, if we wanted to. So we have no need for cam.

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RE: why do u just want the cam and not the man in the p... - 4/10/2010 3:33:08 PM

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If we look at the OP's username, need2becontrolled, it says a lot. i'm thinking he definitely does need that, along with an attitude adjustment and his mouth washed out w/ soap based on what he said in the OP. lol

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RE: why do u just want the cam and not the man in the p... - 4/10/2010 3:35:35 PM

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Actually, it's 'need2becontolled'. The OP needs a little more attention to detail, too.

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RE: why do u just want the cam and not the man in the p... - 4/10/2010 4:20:17 PM

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quote:

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Actually, it's 'need2becontolled'. The OP needs a little more attention to detail, too.

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RE: why do u just want the cam and not the man in the p... - 4/10/2010 4:31:49 PM

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I'm trying to frame a joke about my arrrrse looking big in contoll pants, but I can't make it fit together well. :-(

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RE: why do u just want the cam and not the man in the p... - 4/10/2010 5:07:11 PM

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That second post was almost a good pun. But that didn't really work, either.

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RE: why do u just want the cam and not the man in the p... - 4/10/2010 5:24:50 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

That second post was almost a good pun. But that didn't really work, either.

Don't feel like *helping*, or being *constructive* or anything, lovely one-just criticise, that's fine...

(kidding)

:P

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RE: why do u just want the cam and not the man in the p... - 4/10/2010 6:06:14 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Actually, it's 'need2becontolled'. The OP needs a little more attention to detail, too.

OMG!! You're right!! lmao

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