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Subs how old where you when You first reached sub~space? - 9/13/2004 9:25:08 PM   
knees2you


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Status: offline 		Subs how old where You when You
first reached Sub~space??
For me it was 41~~

Sincerely, eyesofAslave




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RE: Subs how old where you when You first reached sub~s... - 9/14/2004 6:30:19 AM   
subbiejenn


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ORIGINAL: knees2you

Subs how old where You when You
first reached Sub~space??
For me it was 41~~




i was about 32... was with my first real life Dom (my Mentor/Teacher) i found it amazing !!

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RE: Subs how old where you when You first reached sub~s... - 9/14/2004 12:20:18 PM   
sub4hire


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Subs how old where You when You
first reached Sub~space??


Depends on the definition of sub space Knee's. Everyone identifies it a bit different than the next. For me it is a feeling of security. No endorphines needed. If we look at my definition...I was 20

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RE: Subs how old where you when You first reached sub~s... - 9/16/2004 4:19:07 AM   
Suleiman


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Status: offline 		I think I was all of about 19 or 20 when I first experienced it. The first person to top me (also the first person to fuck me - that was a thorough end to my virginity!) was an older and very experienced Dom. I managed to hit what I later recognised as "sub space" by the end of the first night with him, and found myself actually begging to be kept tied up after it was time for us to go to bed.

~S

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RE: Subs how old where you when You first reached sub~s... - 10/1/2004 5:07:12 PM   
randsboy


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Status: offline 		i realized after being with my first lover at about age 40 (didn't come out till around 38) that he could not provide what i needed, that of being lorded over by a compasionate Master. This first introduced me to the internet, this became the beginning and i knew that i was to always be a slave from the moment i found CompoundX on the net at age 41. this is when i began my search in ernest. And found a Master in Idaho by 42. i was in the kingdom of the Mormons in Salt Lake City Utah (born and raised and beaten often)

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RE: Subs how old where you when You first reached sub~s... - 10/1/2004 5:12:38 PM   
LadyShoshin


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quote:

ORIGINAL: knees2you

Subs how old where You when You
first reached Sub~space??
For me it was 41~~

Sincerely, eyesofAslave

Since for me, sub space and where I go when I spirit journey are very similar and many times the same, I would have to say about 12. In actual BDSM scene, about 5 years ago.

I know this was addressed to subs, but I was a sub and can still slip into sub space at a party, I don't need to be in a scene, just the energy in the dungeon can do it.

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RE: Subs how old where you when You first reached sub~s... - 10/1/2004 5:30:21 PM   
magiqual


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how old where You when You first reached Sub~space


Depends how you define it. :) If you define it as a state of ecstatic surrender, that would be my first Pentecostal church service...around age 15.

If you mean, how old was I when I first discovered "submission" in a BDSM context...32, I think.

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RE: Subs how old where you when You first reached sub~s... - 10/2/2004 8:07:55 PM   
siamsa24


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Status: offline 		I was 21. I just reached sub-space this past week. I thought I had reached it before, but this was something totally different, it was amazing.

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RE: Subs how old where you when You first reached sub~s... - 10/2/2004 8:33:51 PM   
kiki blue


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From: Brisbane, Australia
Status: offline 		I've never reached subspace.




Maybe I'm not tall enough.

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RE: Subs how old where you when You first reached sub~s... - 10/2/2004 11:04:28 PM   
Suleiman


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RE: Subs how old where you when You first reached sub~s... - 10/10/2004 8:29:11 PM   
buffalosub


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Status: offline 		It was 2 years ago with my first Mistress.... at the lovely age of 18

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RE: Subs how old where you when You first reached sub~s... - 10/10/2004 9:24:51 PM   
cariad


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From: Calgary, Alberta
Status: offline 		this slaves first subspace experience was when she was really young, naive <spelling> and just getting into the lifestyle with her first R/L Master. it was the best experience she had ever had and it was then she knew He was to be her Master until He either released her or passed away (sadly He did pass away in her arms.)....she was a very young 17yrs old and didn't know back then what it was to be a slave, how she could feel excited yet scared at the same time over the sound of a whip, flogger, cat-o-nine tails, paddle, cane, His hand, His voice.....ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh how He made her shiver when He called her His havoc, and told her "you know what I want MY havoc." to this day when Master SirTigerman calls her His cariad, she shivers and feels weak in the knees, and worse yet when He says the "C" word she shivers really bad wondering how over 3000 miles this man can make her beg to "C" and yet feels excited by it.

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RE: Subs how old where you when You first reached sub~s... - 10/11/2004 4:56:19 AM   
velvettears


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Status: offline 		I haven't experienced it yet

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RE: Subs how old where you when You first reached sub~s... - 10/14/2004 9:58:19 PM   
myst


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Status: offline 		i havn't reached it yet.. i've gotten close i could feel it coming but Master stoped both times as he didn't wish me there yet.
:(

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RE: Subs how old where you when You first reached sub~s... - 10/15/2004 11:13:11 AM   
IservBlkKingPaPa


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Status: offline 		i was 38. i hadn't even known that it was sub space until i had spoken to my friend about it. Then when i brought the incident up to my Master, He just replied "uh huh". It was obvious to me that He had known that already. LOL. i was the last to know.


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RE: Subs how old where you when You first reached sub~s... - 10/15/2004 1:55:57 PM   
perverseangelic


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Status: offline 		If you mean an altered state of conciousness, never.

If you mean feeling that incredible sense of security that comes from knowing that someone wants to possess all of you, and that you, in turn, belong to that person utterly, well, then about 5 months ago when my partner of 2 years told me that he was ready to take me as his, all the time, and I was given the chance to turn myself over to him.

:)

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RE: Subs how old where you when You first reached sub~s... - 10/16/2004 9:40:42 PM   
ChrisGreen


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Status: offline 		Aged 10, in the first blossom of puberty, bent over Mum's lap for a paddling.

Regards

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RE: Subs how old where you when You first reached sub~s... - 10/18/2004 4:19:41 PM   
slavejam


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Status: offline 		My first knowledge of hitting "sub-space" was last week. I am new to the lifestyle and i have had that rush before but not in the sense of bdsm. it is a TOTALLY different feeling. and plan to go there MANY, MANY, MANY times..if my Master wishes ofcourse.

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RE: Subs how old where you when You first reached sub~s... - 10/20/2004 8:29:56 PM   
softysub


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Status: offline 		Hi:

My first time i went into subspace i was 34 and it was during my first real session with a Dom friend, i was scared cause i didnt know what was happening, but then i started to relax and slowly the Dom pulled me back.

It was great at the end, but i was completely exhausted.

softysub

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RE: Subs how old where you when You first reached sub~s... - 10/20/2004 9:49:27 PM   
herfacechair


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Status: offline 		For me, it was last year (33) when I had my first session with a professional Dom. It was during our first face sit breath control session when I completely gave up to her and put myself at her mercy. Talk about vacation from reality!

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