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Hello Everyone - 4/13/2010 8:21:10 AM   
luvdoggirls


Posts: 7
Joined: 4/12/2010
Status: offline 		Well I found this the other day and opened up an account. By way of introduction I am an expierienced Master for about twenty years now. I am looking for a true submissive. I keep finding switches that think its okay to be sassy and smart and then wonder why it is they keep getting in trouble. I dont like to be a hard ass really. I mean whats the point in that all the time? If a person isnt really into service then why say you are? I dont know. Maybe they just enjoy the punishments. Well if you want to know more message me back. In general I just wanted to say howdy to all.
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RE: Hello Everyone - 4/13/2010 8:22:38 AM   
lusciouslips19


Posts: 9792
Joined: 9/8/2007
Status: offline 		Maybe its not them, maybe its you. If you cant control your woman then something is wrong.

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RE: Hello Everyone - 4/13/2010 8:27:19 AM   
choccywoc


Posts: 1919
Joined: 9/7/2009
Status: offline 		Welcome and howdy back.

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RE: Hello Everyone - 4/13/2010 8:28:40 AM   
luvdoggirls


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Joined: 4/12/2010
Status: offline 		Maybe so, but there has to be a level of true submission within the woman in question or it just becomes a tenous task that in reality isnt worth it. I dont get off on having to constantly be a hard ass to gain respect. I try to earn the respect I desrve with a combination of punishment and reward and true caring for their well being. If someone comes along and always wants to challenge me then it becomes too much of a constant struggle and not worth it

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RE: Hello Everyone - 4/13/2010 8:30:52 AM   
lusciouslips19


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Joined: 9/8/2007
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quote:

ORIGINAL: luvdoggirls

Maybe so, but there has to be a level of true submission within the woman in question or it just becomes a tenous task that in reality isnt worth it. I dont get off on having to constantly be a hard ass to gain respect. I try to earn the respect I desrve with a combination of punishment and reward and true caring for their well being. If someone comes along and always wants to challenge me then it becomes too much of a constant struggle and not worth it


There are very few natural submissives. Most are submissive to one or those whoare stronger and more in control than them. I dont relinquish control to the out of control or the foolish and I personally do not suffer fools gladly. I would say most submissives I know are of the same sentiment. Unless you want some mindless doormat.

< Message edited by lusciouslips19 -- 4/13/2010 8:31:49 AM >

_____________________________

Original Pimpette,
Keeper of Original Home Flag and Fire of Mr. Lance Hughes
Charter member of Lance's Fag Hags,
Member of the Subbie Mafia
Princess of typos and it's my prerogative

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RE: Hello Everyone - 4/13/2010 10:55:02 AM   
luvdoggirls


Posts: 7
Joined: 4/12/2010
Status: offline 		Never a mindless doormat,but also never a constant struggle. Yes, I can be strong, and yes I can be forceful,and at times I can even be considerate and compassionate. I dont see the need to constantly be at odds with anyone for any reason.Especially over the simpler little things that are to please me. If I am, and especially with someone who supposedly willfully acepts the role of a submissive slave, then I as a master do have the choice to end that agreement and seek another; which I am doing now. Nuff said on the subject

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RE: Hello Everyone - 4/13/2010 10:56:37 AM   
luvdoggirls


Posts: 7
Joined: 4/12/2010
Status: offline 		How unique and original did you come up with that yourself or did you have help?

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RE: Hello Everyone - 4/13/2010 11:09:40 AM   
CarrieO


Posts: 2432
Joined: 1/27/2008
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quote:

ORIGINAL: luvdoggirls

I keep finding switches that think its okay to be sassy and smart and then wonder why it is they keep getting in trouble.


Damn us switchy folks for being smart, sassy and too much work.
Good luck

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RE: Hello Everyone - 4/13/2010 11:13:28 AM   
lusciouslips19


Posts: 9792
Joined: 9/8/2007
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quote:

ORIGINAL: luvdoggirls

Never a mindless doormat,but also never a constant struggle. Yes, I can be strong, and yes I can be forceful,and at times I can even be considerate and compassionate. I dont see the need to constantly be at odds with anyone for any reason.Especially over the simpler little things that are to please me. If I am, and especially with someone who supposedly willfully acepts the role of a submissive slave, then I as a master do have the choice to end that agreement and seek another; which I am doing now. Nuff said on the subject


In order to ge a great slave, one must have a great Master. If you keep doing the same thing and getting the same result, the problem must lie within, not externally.

_____________________________

Original Pimpette,
Keeper of Original Home Flag and Fire of Mr. Lance Hughes
Charter member of Lance's Fag Hags,
Member of the Subbie Mafia
Princess of typos and it's my prerogative

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RE: Hello Everyone - 4/13/2010 11:17:39 AM   
Lockit


Posts: 11292
Joined: 5/7/2007
Status: offline 		After twenty years in the lifestyle, you would think you would have figured all this out. You just found this site and you keep finding switches that you disapprove of? Dude, there is something wrong with this picture and it starts with you. You are either moving far too fast or you had problems before you got here, besides the many reasons I won't get into that are effecting your ability to dominate. Your response to choccywoc alone denotes a SAM personality in you.

Welcome to the site, but don't be surprised at your constant firing.


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