LadyNTrainer
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ORIGINAL: rockz27
I thought women enjoy having pleasure this way and denying orgasm of the sub rather than getting all the job done for them and pleasing the sub. Its still humiliating i guess for a man to be worshipping a woman's ass. I don't see it as a pleasure. The only pleasure i think i wud get is the feeling that a woman is using me for her pleasure and at the same time humiliating me.
I'm not trying to be mean to you, rockz, but you're thinking wrong. And you're totally missing the point. What you want is a physically close, intimate activity that most women generally *do not want to do* with men whom they don't find personally attractive and interesting. What you need to do is learn how to be That Guy that dominant women find attractive and interesting, and fun to spend time with. Introducing yourself with, "Hi, do me, I have this kinky desire, come here and do me" is guaranteed to make you That Creepy Guy that no woman wants anywhere near her pink bits.
If you lead with your personality and social skills, seeking to really get to know and respect a dominant women, and leave your kinky fetish desires in the far background, then you have a good chance of getting a dominant's personal interest. If you lead with your fetish desires, you're going to get a chorus of, "Oh, yuck, that's nasty and crude and selfish," and you'll be treated with disgust as a random horny stranger who is trying to use women as things to meet his selfish sex demands. Even if this is not your personal intent, it will be the impression you convey.
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Hope those replying in here understand that i'm not seeking for sex, but pure fetish play and yeah this is what makes me feel humilated and a submissive. Don't get me wrong that i''m ordering a dom to do these things to me.
No, you're asking/begging, but trust me, this is not any more attractive or interesting to us. Random horny strangers do this all the time, and it's just nasty and boring. Even if we happen to be into the same stuff he is, we do not want to do it with That Creepy Guy, that weird stranger jerk who just wants to use our pussies and tits to make himself happy. We want to do it with guys who make us happy and who make us feel comfortable with being intimate with them. That takes social skills and time invested in making another person happy and comfortable with you. There are no good or reliable shortcuts to attracting a female dominant that involve only your kink and nothing else.
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I have a feeling i might find my dom in here :).. And those who are not interested, please don't reply and waste ur time.
Honestly, I have a feeling you won't, not unless you change your approach from "Hi, I have this kinky desire" to "Hi, I'm a cool person who wants to get to know you." Typing full words also helps in presenting yourself as intelligent and articulate.
< Message edited by LadyNTrainer -- 4/14/2010 1:49:24 PM >
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