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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/19/2010 11:26:53 PM

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ORIGINAL: BoiJen

I'm entertained now because the reality is that these guys would treat any woman in a professional position or who has rejected their advances in a negative manner. And the funny thing is that they think they're "submissive".

I treat professional women in the highest regard. I'm puzzled why you would think otherwise.

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/19/2010 11:30:22 PM

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ORIGINAL: SweetPois0n

I agree.....
they see Dommes as a means to satisfy a desire.... and begrudge having to do something to earn it... be it work or be useful or god forbid pay her.....
and that is why they think the more money they pay the more they should get..... not every man who gives a woman money or a gift does it to get something back....

You are very idealistic about men. I have never met a man that would give women money without expecting pussy in return, but I'm sure there are a few out there.

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/19/2010 11:35:50 PM

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ORIGINAL: MissJana

I just want to say Miss A welcome to the forums. I personally think you are charging a bit low. Most Dommes (pro that is, myself included) charge a flat hourly rate. I sometimes will give clients who are dependable regulars who I have seen for a long time a discount, but someone new, hell no. I tend to ignore the cheap ass whiners on the board or at least get a laugh out of their posts. LOL

After viewing your pictures I doubt you can command the big bucks. Aren't men smart enough to figure out that your first picture is just a come-on? Maybe the complaints here are true that men don't bother looking at profiles. sheesh!

Don't get me wrong, MissJana, I like mature women and I don't mind if they are heavy. The fact is most men aren't going to pay high dollars for any kind of woman unless she has a near perfect figure.

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/19/2010 11:38:17 PM

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That's because you're what I like to call "a target".

You would be the type of domme that could get top dollars. meow!

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/20/2010 1:26:11 AM

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I charge a set rate, by the hour only, regardless of what BDSM activities take place.

It also makes a difference, if you are an independant as I am, own chambers/dungeon/facility.

I used to hire premises before, and this also comes into the equation of overheads, of you have to pay a percentage to the house.

I have had the same tribute for 5 years, and have no need to increase or decrease it, luckily :).

Potential clients, prefer an unconfusing tribute structure, this is why I opt for a fixed hourly rate/tribute.

Best to evaluate, what you consider enough to earn, and get by on.

Goodluck.

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/20/2010 1:33:29 AM

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Is boi adorable, or what?

adorable... by a million miles.

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/20/2010 2:01:14 AM

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i do have money but i do have self respect. im not paying $75 to a Domme for an hour session . PERIOD
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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/20/2010 2:07:23 AM

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I am not everyone else here. What I know is that if she is a twue domme and the guys are true submissives, them submissives are going to hop when the domme says "Hop!"

I'm not convinced true submissives hire pro dommes.

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/20/2010 2:38:59 AM

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And a woman is like Gourmet food.

Treat even the most "average" woman like gourmet food, and you'll see your results change. She's a beautiful and rare creation that took years to make. There's no one in the world quite like her. She's an experience to be gazed upon, savored, appreciated... and then devoured.

People want to feel special, even if they're into humiliation. Make her feel special, and she'll treat you as though you are special. Because you will be.

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/20/2010 2:56:14 AM

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Then Don't Pay. are you done whining yet?

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/20/2010 3:06:52 AM

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And WHO made you the authority on what is attractive enough? You must not be aware that there are other men out there besides you. there are plenty who will pay for sessions, plenty who find more mature women to irresistably attractive, and a whole hell of a lot of men who like women with more weight on her. i dont know what type of picturesque Domme you have running around in your mind, but i doubt she is real. and on the of f chance that she is- she would not be bothered with you. why? she would wise up to the fact that she could make a ton o' money in the ProDomme arena, and she would charge well out of whatever your itty-bitty price range is. so keep your opinions which you are trying to pawn off as fact. nobody here has taken you or the deightful kevin serious ly for a long time now, so these responses are really just t fuck with you. I figured i should clue you in- you obviously weren't picking up on it.

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/20/2010 3:09:13 AM

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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

i do have money but i do have self respect. im not paying $75 to a Domme for an hour session . PERIOD
kevin

See, that's the thing, Kevin. Nobody is asking you to pay them anything. Nobody is touting for business here. Nobody on this forum is after your money.

Nobody is asking your opinion on what their rates ought to be, either. Nobody is asking what you find acceptable for a prodomme to charge.

So you just keep going to munches for the craic, and MissLoonybin (:P) will continue to charge what she wants, and the men who wish to sumit to her will continue to pay for the privelige.

You aren't one of those men. We know that. We aren't expecting you to be. But your opinion of her rates is not relevant.

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/20/2010 3:15:18 AM

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"miss loonybin" huh? are we calling names now dear? lol

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/20/2010 3:18:10 AM

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"miss loonybin" huh? are we calling names now dear? lol

I decided that you needed a cutesy nickname.

MissNuthouse? MissBedlam? I'm open to suggestions...

:P

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/20/2010 3:22:04 AM

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I hear a lot of moaning from about rates, from two guys who claim they would never pay. Make of that what you will.

Kevin, you say you have self respect but continue to make an ass of yourself, kind of ironic isnt it.
Azjojoba, your comment to MissJana was not only uncalled for but cowardly, since you dont have a photo showing what a catch you are. If you took more time to read these threads you would understand that what makes a woman sexy isnt so much her looks, as her attitude. You both come across as whiney kids who dont get bought any sweets.

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/20/2010 3:25:24 AM

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I'm open to suggestions...

:P

I could give you a few suggestions, but you would stop calling me Manners.

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/20/2010 3:31:24 AM

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aww....whats wrong with "Manners?" i like it.

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/20/2010 3:33:22 AM

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Bedlam sounds hilariously wonderful. lol

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/20/2010 3:41:10 AM

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aww....whats wrong with "Manners?" i like it.

He thinks, MissBedlam, that I'd stop calling him Manners if I realised what a sewer his mind really was...

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RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? - 4/20/2010 3:43:58 AM

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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

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aww....whats wrong with "Manners?" i like it.

He thinks, MissBedlam, that I'd stop calling him Manners if I realised what a sewer his mind really was...

See, I said you was intelligent.