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MysticalPhoenix -> RE: What is the Deal with all the Pro's (4/6/2006 5:24:51 AM)
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ORIGINAL: PrinceSitri
Ignore her, she's an opinionated idiot.
Great pair of ta-tas, though. There is something to be said for someone whose appearance is part of their job-who would hire a personal trainer who wasn't in top shape, after all?
It's the same old topic, and the same old infighting, same old sound of an axe being ground. ProDomme=hooker/whore
Is it any wonder that a ProDomme or any other "sex trade worker" wishes to distance themslves from the streetwalker on the corner?
(NOTE: this refers to the trade in the US, I've heard that in more advanced civilizations, prostitution is legal as any other profession).
Not all, but a high percentage, of prostitutes are heavy alcohol and drug abusers (nothing new, that has been going on for centuries). Yes, there are escorts and high-class (educated and well-bred) hookers, whose customers are the wealthy, the very wealthy, and the obscenely rich (once known as courtesans to distance themselves from the average prostitute). Some work for the rare legal brothels. They are a small percentage of the trade. Prostitutes are usually, but not always, lacking in education, work skills, and choices. Many are runaways, and some are very, very young.
They are likely to be under the control of an abusive, but flamboyantly dressed male with a mouthful of grillz, driving a Caddy. He is what is called a "pimp". A real pimp, not some white suburban teenager who thinks his riced out Honda Accord makes him "big pimpin". Pimps carry guns and are not the least bit afraid to use them. His job is to keep his hookers turning tricks and bringing in the money. He considers her to be his property, and will fight off other pimps to maintain his property. And when she wears out, gets too old, too drugged out, or dies, he will replace her with another "ho".
In other words, a prostitute is performing sexual acts, not for money, but because her pimp will beat the crap out of her if she doesn't bring him enough money.
And that sounds pretty damned owned and submissive (role-wise, not in a nice kinky bdsm way).
On the other hand, dominant women who run their own businesses, decide on their fee schedules, choose their own clients, and set their own limits and boundaries, are being called prostitutes (or even worse hookers and whores) because they charge for something that people have stated should be given away free-apparently that was what the Sexual Revolution meant to some: sex was now to be given away free-before the Revolution you either had to marry to get it, or pay (cash or in kind) a prostitute, or be very, very lucky.
Is it any surprise that the ProDommes are not thrilled by this sort of talk? Is there any surprise that this topic keeps rising up from the dead like an unquiet revenant, and never gets anywhere?
Guys, if you have such strong issues with professional Dominants, why not find one in your area and have this discussion with them in person? Go tell them-to their face-that you think they are nothing but a hooker and they are ruining things for everyone else and they should be giving their professional services away free-to anyone who asks them too. Do bring along a dictionary and define all of the relevant terms so there will be no confusion.
And then come back to the forum and tell us what happened.
Phoenix
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