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help with chastity belt and 1/2 hood - 4/16/2010 6:27:25 AM

txslavegirl

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Master is going to place this one in a chastity belt 24/7 as a way of reminding that just owned property. He is about 500 miles away and W/we are together once every two months.

can any subs or slaves who have the experience of wearing a chastity belt for an ongoing period of time share please share the pluses, minuses, and pitfalls. where can a maker of the belt be found, how is it fitted, the ones that say bodily function is doable, is it really? how does one relieve one with the metal ones with frontal opening and hinged bar? how does one maintain cleanliness? what types are best? what issues are there in wearing 24/7? what does this one need to be aware of in this undertaking? help, please (note this one has lost 50 pounds and needs to lose 30 more, should acquisition of belt wait?)

next, a half hood will be purchased, cover eyes and down bridge of nose. can these have some sort of lock? live in east TX is there a place in Dallas that can make one and what information is needed to make a wise addition?

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RE: help with chastity belt and 1/2 hood - 4/16/2010 6:38:18 AM

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chaffing.... *eep

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RE: help with chastity belt and 1/2 hood - 4/16/2010 6:44:16 AM

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has you worn before and share about chaffing, please

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RE: help with chastity belt and 1/2 hood - 4/16/2010 6:48:46 AM

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This seems like fantasy fodder to me.

i would just say make sure you have a spare key to take it off if something goes wrong. If he's concerned about you opening it without permission he can seal the key in an envelope and sign his signature across the seal, so that if you tear open the envelope to remove the key he'll know.

i have never seen a female wear a chastity belt without removing it for that long a period of time - even the pros talk about how they need to remove it periodically, and it takes a long time to build up to wearing for extended periods.

It just screams "skin infection" to me.

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RE: help with chastity belt and 1/2 hood - 4/16/2010 6:50:42 AM

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The problem with fem chastity belts is that unlike the male version, the fem version fits round the back too. The people that make them obviously believe that women shit dainty rabbit droppings!
Think about what your going to do when you have very little access to wipe your arse

Sounds crude but seriously have you seen the hole they provide?

Another thing is hygiene. How are you expected to wash properly? Is he going to have the key? if so what happens if you get rushed to hospital?

The female chastity belt was originally gifted to a female so that she could protect her own chastity. She owned the key and probably kept it safely in her jewelry box. She needed to be able to remove it so that she could clean herself.

I know it sounds hot, exciting, whatever but think about this carefully before he walks away with the key.
My partner once sewed me up (yeah we are crazy like that) and I wanted to see how long I could go with sutures in. Although they were comfortable I quickly realized that I couldn't wash properly and after three days I was sure that I didn't smell right! I was able to unpick the sutures and I can't tell you what a relief that was.

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RE: help with chastity belt and 1/2 hood - 4/16/2010 7:16:05 AM

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Even in middle ages, if i'm wrong please correct me, the women only wear it when they travelled because of the rapes... not for a very long time... the princess with the belt its fantasy...

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RE: help with chastity belt and 1/2 hood - 4/16/2010 10:25:30 AM

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Has he even thought about menstruation? No access to put a tampon in. Blood leaking around the belt and getting everywhere because you won't be able to get a pad against your body.

Fantasy, not doable. If he wants to put you in it while you go to dinner or a club, great. Anything much beyond that won't work.

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RE: help with chastity belt and 1/2 hood - 4/16/2010 11:42:26 AM

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I have a belt. Not only is it utterly useless at preventing stimulation (both by accessing the fun bits around the side of the belt and by just providing strong enough stimulation above it), it is nothing I would ever consider wearing long term. Mine's leather and fairly small as chastity belts go, but I'd still look like I was wearing a diaper under clothes and clink like a cowboy with spurs and all if I went out in public with it.

Nevermind bathroom duties. No matter how cleverly placed the holes...I can't imagine using the restroom with mine. Take a normal pair of panties and cut out a few little holes: no matter how well you try and clean it....it's still going to be nasty after the first time...nevermind after a month.

Unfortunately, female chastity is not nearly as easily achievable as male chastity. I've never really heard of a fem chastity belt that works. It's a wonderful fantasy, but not gonna happen.

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RE: help with chastity belt and 1/2 hood - 4/18/2010 10:37:30 AM

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quote:

This seems like fantasy fodder to me.

Your subsequent answers were good and informative. Why ruin it with this completely unfounded allegation? The OP and his followup question contained absolutely nothing that even hints of wank fodder.

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RE: help with chastity belt and 1/2 hood - 4/18/2010 11:03:27 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: hardbodysub

quote:

This seems like fantasy fodder to me.

Your subsequent answers were good and informative. Why ruin it with this completely unfounded allegation? The OP and his followup question contained absolutely nothing that even hints of wank fodder.

Because to me, it is. Wearing a chastity belt 24/7 for two months, is again - to ME - an unfulfillable fantasy. i can see many unhealthy things happening as a result, as mentioned by the other posters.

i did't say "wank" fodder, i said "fantasy" fodder.

Oh, and the OP is a girl......

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RE: help with chastity belt and 1/2 hood - 4/18/2010 1:29:49 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: UniqueRaven

quote:

ORIGINAL: hardbodysub

quote:

This seems like fantasy fodder to me.

Your subsequent answers were good and informative. Why ruin it with this completely unfounded allegation? The OP and his followup question contained absolutely nothing that even hints of wank fodder.

Because to me, it is. Wearing a chastity belt 24/7 for two months, is again - to ME - an unfulfillable fantasy. i can see many unhealthy things happening as a result, as mentioned by the other posters.

i did't say "wank" fodder, i said "fantasy" fodder. Oh, and the OP is a girl......

I hope it is just a fantasy and she does not try this. However, I think she should wear it when they are together except when he uses her. And, she should take it off and bathe well to be acceptable to him just before he uses her.

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RE: help with chastity belt and 1/2 hood - 4/18/2010 4:18:23 PM

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First of all, I've never worn a chastity belt myself, but I've seriously considered getting one, and did extensive research on them.
The reason I ended up not getting one had to do with me breaking up the relationship, not with negative things about chastity belts.

It is possible to wear a chastity belt longer term.
However, with your Master being so far away from you, and you seeing him infrequently, I would advice a belt that only has a front shield and leaves your rear exist unhindered by the belt.

Secondly, hygiene and such is difficult, though not impossible while wearing a belt.
It would be advisable to find somebody in your area that your Master trusts who can drop by every now and then to make sure you can take care of such things. Even if you have to find somebody new specifically for that purpose.

Third, you WILL have to drop the weight you want to be at before ordering a belt. Belts are made to size and are not adjustable to weight changes.
If your weight changes, your belt will not fit anymore.

Forth, because belts are made to size, custom, live fittings, are far preferable to online ordering. To do this, you will obviously have to travel to wherever the belt maker you decide to order from is located.

Sixth, if you want a working female chastity belt, you WILL have to have a wardrobe that will accommodate you to wearing a belt in public.
There aren't many clothes that will not show the belt underneath them.
Most pans are out.
Skirts work better, but only loose fitting ruffled fabric skirts.
Keep this in mind before ordering a belt.

And finally, do your homework and present your finding to your Master before ordering a belt. Read, read, read. Look for other people who have experience with this, read their stories, and ask questions. There are very many good sites on long-term female chastity, do not order a belt before you are absolutely sure which you want, which is going to be practical and which is going to be safe.

Now, links to buy and start your research on belts:

http://www.chastity-uk.co.uk/female_gallery.htm

http://www.williamjoneschastity.com/FEMALEBELTS.html

http://www.lockedinsteel.com/?Cat=47&CatName=FemaleChastityBelts

http://www.tollyboy.com/

http://www.fetishtoysrus.com/fetishpg1.html?gclid=CNSLp9iskaECFWV75Qod4BOXPg

https://www.neosteel.com/neosteelshop/index.cfm

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RE: help with chastity belt and 1/2 hood - 4/18/2010 4:43:00 PM

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As a paramedic, I find myself somewhat concerned by this concept. While there are few instances where I'd need access to the groin region in order to do my job, they do exist. Should you go through with getting a chastity belt, make sure there's an 'emergency' release of some kind. A key in a sealed envelope can work, if you keep it with you when you leave the house. Another alternative would be that parts of the belt/harness (however the hell that'd work, I find myself struggling to imagine it in fact) could be cut by some vigorous application of cloth scissors. We don't often bring bolt-cutters with us, nor any other tools able to cut through any metal impediments between us and the patient's bodyparts that need attention.

This in fact, goes for male chastity belts as well. I see several of the ones available on Extreme Restraints coming with plastic locks/strips for securing them, individually numbered to avoid 'cheating' on the sub's part. Those are what I'd recommend for ALL such chastity or otherwise 'permanent' restraints. You never know when you might need medical attention, and you may not have time to get a hold of a key or other tool for removing them.

Both serving your Dom/Domme well and fulfilling chastity/other fantasies are all well and good, and I encourage all such things. But please... think of the possible consequences first. Your health must always, I repeat always, come first. That goes both for chafing, skin infections and so on, but most importantly for emergency medical situations where time is of the essence.

Good luck from the friendly neighborhood paramedic.

- North

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RE: help with chastity belt and 1/2 hood - 4/18/2010 4:55:51 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: NorthNewbie

As a paramedic, I find myself somewhat concerned by this concept. While there are few instances where I'd need access to the groin region in order to do my job, they do exist. Should you go through with getting a chastity belt, make sure there's an 'emergency' release of some kind. A key in a sealed envelope can work, if you keep it with you when you leave the house. Another alternative would be that parts of the belt/harness (however the hell that'd work, I find myself struggling to imagine it in fact) could be cut by some vigorous application of cloth scissors. We don't often bring bolt-cutters with us, nor any other tools able to cut through any metal impediments between us and the patient's bodyparts that need attention.

This in fact, goes for male chastity belts as well. I see several of the ones available on Extreme Restraints coming with plastic locks/strips for securing them, individually numbered to avoid 'cheating' on the sub's part. Those are what I'd recommend for ALL such chastity or otherwise 'permanent' restraints. You never know when you might need medical attention, and you may not have time to get a hold of a key or other tool for removing them.

Both serving your Dom/Domme well and fulfilling chastity/other fantasies are all well and good, and I encourage all such things. But please... think of the possible consequences first. Your health must always, I repeat always, come first. That goes both for chafing, skin infections and so on, but most importantly for emergency medical situations where time is of the essence.

Good luck from the friendly neighborhood paramedic.

- North

you bring up an important point that is not usualy thought of. I have a bit of a medical background in my past and as I was reading your post I was imagining how I might have handled chastity devices in my work a day life. My field was not emergency as your is but I would still have had managment isues.

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RE: help with chastity belt and 1/2 hood - 4/18/2010 9:23:47 PM

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I agree that it is important that the person in chastity hold a key to their device for in emergencies.
But like said before on this thread, that's easily solved by giving a key encased in a way that the Master would know if it was used.

Also, there is a way around this by using plastic locks instead of steel ones.
These locks are numbered or marked in such a way that they are each unique. If the lock is removed and another one installed, the Master would always know, but in the case of an emergency, they are easily cut with any kitchen scissor.
The Master could provide the sub with a number of such locks so she can change them when she needs to clean herself, with him following the whole thing on webcam so he can keep track of which lock she is wearing, and which lock she is supposed to be wearing.

Also, for the OP it might be interesting to invest in a time controlled safe.
This safe can be set for a certain amount of time and cannot be opened before that time arises by any means.
This way the Master could have the sub wear the chastity belt for a certain amount of time and then provide her automatically with the key so she can take care of hygiene. Then she locks up the key again for a set amount of time.

As I said before, I would highly recommend that the hygiene is taken care of often, so I would advice to allow for the safe to open at least every couple of days.
The Master could again follow the whole process of cleaning and re-locking the key on a webcam feed if he would like to, so that he can verify that she would lock the key back in the safe after she got done.
Neosteel sells such a safe, but I'm sure you could get it at other places as well, should you want to.

But I again stress: even with such a system in place it's important that the sub has a key for in emergencies.

< Message edited by ishyB -- 4/18/2010 9:28:40 PM >

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RE: help with chastity belt and 1/2 hood - 4/19/2010 3:55:04 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: NorthNewbie

As a paramedic, I find myself somewhat concerned by this concept. While there are few instances where I'd need access to the groin region in order to do my job, they do exist. Should you go through with getting a chastity belt, make sure there's an 'emergency' release of some kind. A key in a sealed envelope can work, if you keep it with you when you leave the house. Another alternative would be that parts of the belt/harness (however the hell that'd work, I find myself struggling to imagine it in fact) could be cut by some vigorous application of cloth scissors. We don't often bring bolt-cutters with us, nor any other tools able to cut through any metal impediments between us and the patient's bodyparts that need attention.

This in fact, goes for male chastity belts as well. I see several of the ones available on Extreme Restraints coming with plastic locks/strips for securing them, individually numbered to avoid 'cheating' on the sub's part. Those are what I'd recommend for ALL such chastity or otherwise 'permanent' restraints. You never know when you might need medical attention, and you may not have time to get a hold of a key or other tool for removing them.

Both serving your Dom/Domme well and fulfilling chastity/other fantasies are all well and good, and I encourage all such things. But please... think of the possible consequences first. Your health must always, I repeat always, come first. That goes both for chafing, skin infections and so on, but most importantly for emergency medical situations where time is of the essence.

Good luck from the friendly neighborhood paramedic.

- North

Once i went online looking for a steel collar, just that, to put on, that would not came out, but because i had some sort of epilepsy that actually happend at night in my sleep, and i imagining now going to the ER with a chastity belt on...

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RE: help with chastity belt and 1/2 hood - 4/19/2010 7:31:50 AM

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Good advice from ishyB, thanks for your contribution!

Txslavegirl, you should consider a piercing or three to experience the feelings of ownership without the hassle of wearing a belt for weeks. I do have quite a few years of experience with metal chastity devices on both myself and on girlfriends and have found that full belts are not practical for long term wear unless, perhaps, you are being kept in the house and attended to on a regular basis. For long distance, a chastity lock that uses piercings is much more tolerable for everyday wear. Google for 'clit shields' to get some ideas. This choice of style helps to avoid problems with concealment and changes in body weight, plus the act of getting pierced for this can be a significant event in your relationship.

For long distance safety, you might put your safety key in a key box like Realtors use on the front door of houses, available at hardware stores. These lock with a resettable combination and can be locked to an object. I carry my key box in the car so it is always with me, just in case! I have been in a rollover wreck with it on but did not have to reveal what I was wearing. I really believe that a small pierced style chastity is less likely to cause injury in a traumatic situation then a full belt. If you need out, a phone call for the combo will set you free. A trusted second person could have the combo as a back-up and can even assist with resetting the combination if a long distance release is ever necessary. Add a "get help!" entry into your cell phone list that a rescuer would notice if you are unable to communicate.

Don't be afraid to follow your dreams! You can make it real and be safe if you take your time and think it through, experiment in steps, and are honest about your expectations.

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