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hucow - 4/16/2010 6:28:12 AM

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I would like to know how to find any mistress that are into Hucow training

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RE: hucow - 4/16/2010 6:56:02 AM

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Ok, I'll bite. WTF is "Hucow"?

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RE: hucow - 4/16/2010 7:03:37 AM

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http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=hucow

OP, have you done a search for "lactation"? There have been a few posted here...if that's what you're referring to.

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RE: hucow - 4/16/2010 7:04:14 AM

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The definition i found on the web: "A woman who chooses to be objectified for her large mammaries and ability to lactate constantly." in: http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=hucow

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RE: hucow - 4/16/2010 7:07:37 AM

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ORIGINAL: ReginaMirus

Ok, I'll bite. WTF is "Hucow"?

Biting is probably not a good idea. A hucow is short for "human cow."

Ah, I see others have beat me to it. It's clearly too early for me to be typing.

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RE: hucow - 4/16/2010 7:14:13 AM

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Yeah, suppose I could have googled it, but was just too damned lazy this morning.

Meh. Why buy the Hucow, when you can have the milk free?

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RE: hucow - 4/16/2010 7:30:56 AM

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Hi there and welcome to the forums!

So you have this interest in lactation. No worries, for every kink there is someone out there who matches it! Frankly, your best way is to get into your local community. L.A. has lots of activity and many many people in the lifestyle. There are "munches" where folk get together at a restaurant to meet and greet, clubs and parties. Face to face is going to be your best way to meet people.

Fetlife has local area groups where you can find out about munches, clubs, events and such. Get thee to a munch!

CM is also a reasonable place to find people. Be cautious, be smart, don't send money to anyone, etc.

Oh, and fill out your profile! :)

Hope that helps!

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RE: hucow - 4/16/2010 7:35:27 AM

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OP. Just because you have breasts does not make you an exception from the FAQ guidelines and the resulting ridicule for not reading them.

Please read the FAQ at the top of the "Ask a Mistress" forum thread list.

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RE: hucow - 4/16/2010 8:05:19 AM

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Common Kinks/Fantasies

Q: Are there any (how many) dominant women into [insert your favorite kink here]?

A: While there is no way to answer the question of how many dominant women enjoy a particular activity, we can assure you that if you like it, chances are there’s a dominant woman somewhere in the world who likes it too. However, it’s beyond our ability to guarantee you’ll find one here. What we can guarantee is that, if you post a thread asking how many dominant women like your choice in kinks, many of us will be quick to assume you’re looking for semi-pornographic material to fuel your masturbatory fantasies (i.e. “wank fodder”) and shoot you down in record time.

You're right, FAQ presupposes that an off beat kinkster will be treated like a leper, and should blame him/herself for such treatment. Although this might (is) be accurate (what happens here), it doesn't make the practice "right" or justified.

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RE: hucow - 4/16/2010 8:30:51 AM

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Oh man, here we go again with the "you are all so mean" argument...

If the OP had a profile that was all about Hucow in that "single threaded self focused" kink manner that we see from so many of the guys who come in here, my reaction would have been

too. But, this OP appears to be pretty totally new, her profile has one line about feeling submissive and she comes in here and asks about a kink that interests her -"how do I meet people who are into this kink?".

That is total newbie behavior, completely understandable, and totally worth a post of direction. So I gave it.

I have said a few times - this isn't Hello Kitty Island Adventure, it's a BDSM site - there are sadists here.

It's a hard room. Response was actually pretty mild.

And frankly, if you -can- be chased away, you -should- be chased away...\

OP, read the FAQ, understand that there is a whole world of kink out there and most people are looking for a broad spectrum relationship, not just a fuck buddy or a life support system for a single kink.

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RE: hucow - 4/16/2010 8:41:32 AM

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And frankly, if you -can- be chased away, you -should- be chased away...\

Seriously? Is that really the sort of hostile atmosphere you want to create, Otters?

If you really mean that statement then I don't think you are the person I thought you were.

Edited to add: and if everyone else feels like that too then I will be disappointed.

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RE: hucow - 4/16/2010 8:59:09 AM

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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

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And frankly, if you -can- be chased away, you -should- be chased away...\

Seriously? Is that really the sort of hostile atmosphere you want to create, Otters?

If you really mean that statement then I don't think you are the person I thought you were.

Edited to add: and if everyone else feels like that too then I will be disappointed.

My point was that if a few snarky comments from strangers on the internet is going to cause you to go away, then this is not where you need to be at this point in your life anyway. Not about creating a hostile environment, it's about realizing that if someone wants something bad enough nothing that goes on here is going to deter them. If it does, then they should be somewhere else, doing something else. Not for the faint of heart...

This place -is- rather challenging frankly - especially the Mistress' Forum. I think this is of necessity due to the large quantity of wankers and posers that come here. You have to be "real" and step up in order to get on with folk here.

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RE: hucow - 4/16/2010 9:15:41 AM

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OP, while I've heard of the kink under different names, I can say that I don't know of anyone personally that engages in it. I'm not saying it's not out there, I'm just not familiar with anybody who is doing it.

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quote:

Common Kinks/Fantasies

Q: Are there any (how many) dominant women into [insert your favorite kink here]?

A: While there is no way to answer the question of how many dominant women enjoy a particular activity, we can assure you that if you like it, chances are there’s a dominant woman somewhere in the world who likes it too. However, it’s beyond our ability to guarantee you’ll find one here. What we can guarantee is that, if you post a thread asking how many dominant women like your choice in kinks, many of us will be quick to assume you’re looking for semi-pornographic material to fuel your masturbatory fantasies (i.e. “wank fodder”) and shoot you down in record time.

You're right, FAQ presupposes that an off beat kinkster will be treated like a leper, and should blame him/herself for such treatment. Although this might (is) be accurate (what happens here), it doesn't make the practice "right" or justified.

Maybe I'm wrong here. Wasn't the very point of creating the FAQ thread to help avoid this very issue? We honestly can't answer how many people are into kink x, y, or z. It doesn't matter if said kinkster bringing the question is male or female or whether the kink is common or not.

Sometimes, I tend to think that the two most criticized answers ever written on these boards are "no" and "I don't know". Neither of them seem to be accepted or satisfactory.

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RE: hucow - 4/16/2010 10:32:24 AM

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Sometimes, I tend to think that the two most criticized answers ever written on these boards are "no" and "I don't know". Neither of them seem to be accepted or satisfactory.

I suspect it's because most posters asking that kind of question really want to hear, "Yes, there are 5,623,822 women out there who want nothing more than to indulge your kink, without troubling you for a single thing in return. Now that you've posted, your in-box will soon be flooded with e-mails from these women, who are desperate to meet you."

That having been said, I get the feeling that the OP really isn't being a wankerette, but just trying to find her way around. Of course, one of the best ways to find your way around is to read past threads.

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RE: hucow - 4/16/2010 11:00:01 AM

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You're right, FAQ presupposes that an off beat kinkster will be treated like a leper, and should blame him/herself for such treatment. Although this might (is) be accurate (what happens here), it doesn't make the practice "right" or justified.

It's more like the assumption that if a random stranger leads with their sexual fantasy without bothering to introduce themselves, make conversation, or get to know people, they aren't going to get a good reception. Social skills are important, even in a BDSM venue where kink is a normal assumption. Maybe especially in a BDSM venue.

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RE: hucow - 4/16/2010 4:47:00 PM

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OP, I gotta ask a stupid question... you're bi. So with all the hassles of finding a lactation buddy, why make it more difficult by ruling out straight Dom men and focusing only on lesbian Dommes? You're not helping the odds.

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RE: hucow - 8/20/2013 7:08:02 AM

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But, this OP appears to be pretty totally new,

Except for the fact that she joined CM 5 years ago, likes "all types" of bdsm, and open t try anything.

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RE: hucow - 8/20/2013 12:55:43 PM

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