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Musicmystery -> RE: not a true slave. (4/21/2010 7:17:01 AM)
NOW you're gettin' it! [:D]

leadership527 -> RE: not a true slave. (4/21/2010 7:39:07 AM)
Stay tuned for my lengthy and well thought out treatise on whether Carol is an alpha-doormat or a true submissive. One day I seriously need to write that up... with lots of technical jargon and pseudo-science thrown in for supporting arguments.

Musicmystery -> RE: not a true slave. (4/21/2010 7:54:14 AM)
Quote a lot of past studies. Academics suck that shit up.

sunshinemiss -> RE: not a true slave. (4/21/2010 8:01:24 AM)
Aren't you an academic Tim. Oh wait, so am I... Never mind.

Mercnbeth -> RE: not a true slave. (4/21/2010 8:06:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: chewtoy89 Why is it that most doms I have talk to says I can't be a true slave because I won't pack my stuff quit school and move to wherever they are after only talking to them one or two times. perhaps it is because they are speaking from their own perspective. there is more than one definition for the word slave. "true" has nothing to do with being historically accurate with regard to how the Romans or pre-civil war Americans or Vikings considered things...it has to do with being aligned to reality...as in not "false". "slave" doesn't just mean LEGALLY owned property...it can also mean "One who is abjectly subservient to a specified person or influence" so, since it would be a "false" statement to say that your reality includes being "abjectly subservient to THEM or THEIR INFLUENCE"...then, in their perspective, you are not a "true slave" to them. So what? Someone else will certainly consider you true and slave from their perspective...won't they?

Musicmystery -> RE: not a true slave. (4/21/2010 8:18:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss Aren't you an academic Tim. Oh wait, so am I... Never mind. So you know EXACTLY what I'm talking about. Good methodology theory poorly applied. That's the trouble with publish or perish. Much of it should have perished.

leadership527 -> RE: not a true slave. (4/21/2010 8:22:05 AM)
Oh FINE Beth... there ya go inserting common sense into this amusing thread. I thought it was Merc's job to point out the obvious. Edited to add: OP, all kidding aside, I struggled with this stuff also at one point. It was KnightofMysts who cleared it up for me. I am ME. All these labels are just that, labels. None of them are going to accurately capture the totality of me or my relationship with Carol. Is it more correct to Carol my slave or my submissive wife? They are both right -- neither is complete. You are what you are. How someone else perceives you is up to them but it doesn't change YOU.

Mercnbeth -> RE: not a true slave. (4/21/2010 8:24:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: leadership527 Oh FINE Beth... there ya go inserting common sense into this amusing thread. I thought it was Merc's job to point out the obvious. [:)]...must be that abject subservience to His influence...[;)]

erebus -> RE: not a true slave. (4/24/2010 8:47:55 PM)
Yeah, I get a kick out of idiots who say stuff like that. They can't get what they want so they blame everyone else for their failings. Just ignore them and find someone who is real. They (we) are out there...

dragon200070 -> RE: not a true slave. (4/25/2010 4:40:45 PM)
Hi, These guys are probably all predators. A real Dom (read "experienced") will be concerned with your goals and timing. The poseurs want a slave on board NOW and don't care about your goals - they're not into real live relationships. A real Dom will ask about your objectives, goals, and fantasies and will want detailed knowledge. He will have questions every time you talk. Be patient, don't fall for a fake. Good Luck, Jeff

slavefinder30 -> RE: not a true slave. (4/26/2010 6:17:58 PM)
Not to be rude, but your profile is so horribly put together and vauge that i am suprised ANY doms are trying to communicate with you.

VaguelyCurious -> RE: not a true slave. (4/27/2010 7:06:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slavefinder30 Not to be rude, but your profile is so horribly put together and vauge that i am suprised ANY doms are trying to communicate with you. Putting 'not to be rude' in front of an entirely unnecessary and uninvited insult does not stop it from being an insult. There were a few posts on this thread talking about grace. I assume you missed them.

ResidentSadist -> RE: not a true slave. (4/27/2010 9:55:47 AM)
Don't forget . . . the red cage is just perfect for you. A true submissive would just stick her ass up against the bars for use and then pass babies out the feeder tray slot every 9 months. . . . Cum'er baby, I'll chew on your toy if you chew on mine!

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