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chewtoy89 -> not a true slave. (4/20/2010 12:01:00 AM)

Why is it that most doms I have talk to says I can't be a true slave because I won't pack my stuff quit school and move to wherever they are after only talking to them one or two times.




Musicmystery -> RE: not a true slave. (4/20/2010 12:02:22 AM)

For starters, you have poor judgment.

Also, you tend to whine.




sublizzie -> RE: not a true slave. (4/20/2010 12:06:14 AM)

Because that's what all the other weal, twue subbies did for them. Every last one of them!!




GreedyTop -> RE: not a true slave. (4/20/2010 12:10:09 AM)

based on the faulty syntax/tense useage, I cant imagine why they'd want you to leave school.....




aldompdx -> RE: not a true slave. (4/20/2010 12:58:20 AM)

Because they are merely narcissists who fail to grasp that mastery is first of themself. Only then can one command another's surrender by free choice from self will, by virtue of having earned another's honor and respect.




crazyml -> RE: not a true slave. (4/20/2010 1:01:27 AM)

I am gutted.

Musicmystery, sublizzie and GreedyTop have already nailed this one pretty much.

chewtoy89 - You may get more responses that will probably seem a little "snippy", but what the hey, I'm waiting for a call so I'll give you a really gentle one..

It's probably because the doms "you have talk to" [sic] are either mind-bogglingly stupid (how on earth can they conclude that you're right for them after one or two chats), they think you're mindbogglingly stupid, or they're just fantasists. In reality, you're going to have to have a lot of wasted conversations with people. You might weed some out by filling out your profile a little more (and if you do this, for the love of all things pure and good, please check the grammar).






reynardfox -> RE: not a true slave. (4/20/2010 2:22:01 AM)

Because they are nutters, if you are at achool, you shouldn't be talking to them and if you are under age, maybe they should be seeking professional advice before they wind up behind bars for talking to you. Hate to sound over cautious but you used the word school and that just covers the screen with red flags for me.




zephyroftheNorth -> RE: not a true slave. (4/20/2010 2:26:56 AM)

"School" also covers college, university and all kinds of trade schools. It's also possible she went back to school, she isn't the best writer I've ever seen anything is possible. [8|]




peppermint -> RE: not a true slave. (4/20/2010 2:46:06 AM)

What makes you believe the people you have chatted with are Dominants?  




VaguelyCurious -> RE: not a true slave. (4/20/2010 2:52:27 AM)

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ORIGINAL: reynardfox

Because they are nutters, if you are at achool, you shouldn't be talking to them and if you are under age, maybe they should be seeking professional advice before they wind up behind bars for talking to you. Hate to sound over cautious but you used the word school and that just covers the screen with red flags for me.
She's American, remember? In American English I do not think that word means what you think it means.

Besides, even if she were in the UK, if she were in year 13 she'd be perfectly entitled to have a profile. Try to untwist your knickers, yeah?

OP: When someone says you aren't a true slave, decide whether or not you wish to be *their* slave. If the answer is no, feel free to ignore them-the reasons why they think you aren't 'true/real/whatever' become irrelevant.




Focus50 -> RE: not a true slave. (4/20/2010 3:34:04 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: chewtoy89

Why is it that most doms I have talk to says I can't be a true slave because I won't pack my stuff quit school and move to wherever they are after only talking to them one or two times.

Your problem is that you listen to pissed-off, manipulative horndogs.

When it comes to strangers, incl those donning fanciful titles designed to impress, even peoples young enough to be in school have instincts and gut-feelings about what makes good sense etc. Try listening to those in future.

Focus.




DesFIP -> RE: not a true slave. (4/20/2010 4:26:09 AM)

What Focus said. They are upset because they can't get any easy sex so they attack the people who turn them down.

One suggestion is to not chat with strangers. The guys heaviest into "suck my dick now" are going to insist on chat. The ones willing to get to know you will be fine emailing for a couple of weeks before meeting for coffee.




tazzygirl -> RE: not a true slave. (4/20/2010 4:31:33 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: chewtoy89

Why is it that most doms I have talk to says I can't be a true slave because I won't pack my stuff quit school and move to wherever they are after only talking to them one or two times.


i doubt there are any "true" slaves on this site.




leadership527 -> RE: not a true slave. (4/20/2010 5:18:27 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl
i doubt there are any "true" slaves on this site.
Of course not tazzygirl. TRUE slaves are too busy packing and moving to be posting on the internet.




DarkSteven -> RE: not a true slave. (4/20/2010 5:46:40 AM)

A true Master cares about his slave.  Her goals, her achievements, her issues.  A horndog just wants to get laid.

I'm not sure whether you are a true slave or not, but they are not true Masters.  A true Master would never say, "You're not a true slave" like a third grade insult.  He would say, "We have a problem, and we're going to work on it."




UniqueRaven -> RE: not a true slave. (4/20/2010 5:56:33 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: leadership527

quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl
i doubt there are any "true" slaves on this site.
Of course not tazzygirl. TRUE slaves are too busy packing and moving to be posting on the internet.


Darn it.  Once again i'm doing this slave thing all wrong. [;)]




leadership527 -> RE: not a true slave. (4/20/2010 5:59:50 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: UniqueRaven
Darn it.  Once again i'm doing this slave thing all wrong. [;)]
*laughs* That's ok. I struggle with the true master thing all the time. Just last night I scratched carol's back which I'm pretty sure counts as serving her and disqualifies me as a true master.

Maybe we need a new forum here... "ask a fake"




GraciousLady -> RE: not a true slave. (4/20/2010 6:48:41 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: aldompdx

Because they are merely narcissists who fail to grasp that mastery is first of themself. Only then can one command another's surrender by free choice from self will, by virtue of having earned another's honor and respect.


Beautifully and perfectly stated.




Wolf2Bear -> RE: not a true slave. (4/20/2010 8:46:42 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: chewtoy89

Why is it that most doms I have talk to says I can't be a true slave because I won't pack my stuff quit school and move to wherever they are after only talking to them one or two times.


i doubt there are any "true" slaves on this site.


Exactly...I mean hell, I'm not a true submissive.




afkarr -> RE: not a true slave. (4/20/2010 8:47:43 AM)

A fair number of real twue "masters" in this world aren't masters at all, or doms, or even tops. They're just here because they think underwearless sluts are easy.




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