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bestheadyet -> RE: who should pay for relocation? (4/22/2010 4:11:44 AM)
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ORIGINAL: NorthNewbie
HAH! Managed to sneak onto cm on the work computer. Still can't sneak the other sites through the firewall, apparently. Hrmph. Ah well, on-topic:
It'd depend on the couple in question. A couple of quick hypothetical scenarios:
If I were to relocate to a Domme and I had the cash... of course I'd pay for it. If I have the financial oomph needed, then it's my responsibility. If she were to relocate, and didn't have the financial stability for it, I'd still pay for it as that's what someone in a relationship does. You help the other with what they need/can't provide for themselves. If I was broke, and couldn't rustle up the money for relocation, and she offered... I'd take it, knowing that it's an offer given in order for us to get together and able to provide for eachother.
The person that's relocating should pay what they can, I feel. But only what they can. Just uprooting yourself in order to move to your significant other is a major step, and should be appreciated enough by the other one, that helping in any way conceivable shouldn't even be an issue.In the end, it's all about who can afford what, and how the couple feels financial matters should be resolved. There's no way to create a universally applicable answer to this.
Now, if you'll excuse me, I have to try and figure out how to get a few other sites like this past the slavering Cerberus that guards my firm's intranet. Damn ISP ruining my home connection.
with every key stroke work will know where you visit on the net.......jus sayin' cuz unemployment stinks. been there dude
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