Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

RE: Clothing?


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Mistress >> RE: Clothing? Page: <<   < prev  1 [2]
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
RE: Clothing? - 4/21/2010 10:19:07 PM   
Marini


Posts: 3629
Joined: 2/14/2010
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming

quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

That's true, Pyro. And we know how much women hate dressing up too, don't we?


Actually, I don't like dressing up. I'm a jeans and T-shirt kind of girl. An athlete, and a tomboy.


Nyah!


Oh, I WILL dress up for a night on the town, when you are taking me somewhere for fine dining and maybe a play.
I might consider dressing up for the RIGHT submissive man, who is making me very, very, happy.
Hell to the yes, for the RIGHT SUBMISSIVE I might start wearing all kinds of shit.
The right submissive can inspire me, motivate me, and buy me all kinds of fun outfits to wear.   

< Message edited by Marini -- 4/21/2010 10:24:45 PM >

_____________________________

As always, To EACH their Own.
"And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. "
Nelson Mandela
Life-long Democrat, not happy at all with Democratic Party.
NOT a Republican/Moderate and free agent

(in reply to dreamerdreaming)
Profile   Post #: 21
RE: Clothing? - 4/21/2010 11:53:17 PM   
SweetDommes


Posts: 3313
Joined: 10/5/2004
Status: offline 		If and when we have the money to buy the fun clothes to fit me properly, I'll wear them because I like them. At this point, though, it's what I'm comfy in ... which is generally nothing at home LOL

_____________________________

Miss Karen and Miss Holly

Earth is the insane asylum for the universe.

Friends are God's apology for relatives

(in reply to dreamerdreaming)
Profile   Post #: 22
RE: Clothing? - 4/22/2010 3:01:54 AM   
VaguelyCurious


Posts: 5264
Joined: 12/2/2009
From: United Kingdom
Status: offline 		FR

For the first play party I ever went to, I wore a floor length red lycra faux-kimono-thingy, a corset, and proper fuck-me heels.I felt very sexy, and received a lot of compliments (good going as the dress was £5 from a charity shop! :D).

I didn't feel any more dominant than I do when I'm in jeans and trainers, though...

If it's not obvious that I mean business when I mean business, no matter what I'm wearing, then something has gone very wrong.


_____________________________

Sthetic on FetLife.




(in reply to SweetDommes)
Profile   Post #: 23
RE: Clothing? - 4/22/2010 4:17:39 AM   
Angelsprey


Posts: 25
Joined: 1/5/2010
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer


quote:

ORIGINAL: Angelsprey

I think the submissive is going through all this effort so I should be the fantasy woman they desire.


Angelsprey, you are the rarest of diamonds amongst dommes!


Thanks

(in reply to PeonForHer)
Profile   Post #: 24
RE: Clothing? - 4/22/2010 12:32:05 PM   
beej


Posts: 145
Joined: 1/24/2010
Status: offline 		i love to dress up when i go out, to dinner, for a party... anything social is a good reason to have a sense of occasion. in sexual situations, i find dressing up impractical. i can't move as fast in high heels or hit as hard with gloves on, frankly. straps and garters and pretty tied things have to be straightened and monitored, and i have often trussed up so well that when i wanted a spontaneous fuck, all those clothes had to come off in a jiffy. but because that stuff is so expensive, i get particular on how its handled, and then an encounter turns into, "be nice to my gear or you're gonna get it!" which sounds like a fun opportunity for punishment but not really, lol. as a general rule, i don't mind dressing according to the mood of an encounter, but i don't like to dress up according to a man's specifications because then that's all they notice, in my experience.

(in reply to Angelsprey)
Profile   Post #: 25
RE: Clothing? - 4/22/2010 2:45:08 PM   
pyroaquatic


Posts: 1535
Joined: 12/4/2006
From: Pyroaquatica
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: SweetDommes

If and when we have the money to buy the fun clothes to fit me properly, I'll wear them because I like them. At this point, though, it's what I'm comfy in ... which is generally nothing at home LOL


I prefer nudity as well. Less laundry.

The lady can do as she pleases. Naked, Clothed... I can't decide what I like better.

If I had to be dressed for something I would pick a simple suit.....with a derby (i've work some fairly weird articles.)

I guess everyone has a different style and it all takes effort. How much effort... that is for the Lady to decide.

Male Peacocks have the brightest of displays, Peon.




_____________________________

You are what your deep, driving desire is.
As your desire is, so is your will.
As your will is, so is your deed.
As your deed is, so is your destiny.
-Brihadaranyaka Upanishad IV.4.5

(in reply to SweetDommes)
Profile   Post #: 26
RE: Clothing? - 4/22/2010 2:49:59 PM   
PeonForHer


Posts: 19612
Joined: 9/27/2008
Status: offline 		FR

How intriguing!

I always used to think that women like to dress up because they love clothes to a weird extent, because they love the effect their appearance has, and because they are vain.

However, I now understand that this isn't the case at all!

_____________________________

http://www.domme-chronicles.com


(in reply to beej)
Profile   Post #: 27
RE: Clothing? - 4/22/2010 3:08:34 PM   
pyroaquatic


Posts: 1535
Joined: 12/4/2006
From: Pyroaquatica
Status: offline 		A Toga would be perfect.

What are a Man's specifications?
What are a Woman's specification?

I work hard expecting nothing. I receive miracles and phenomenon.

On another note



_____________________________

You are what your deep, driving desire is.
As your desire is, so is your will.
As your will is, so is your deed.
As your deed is, so is your destiny.
-Brihadaranyaka Upanishad IV.4.5

(in reply to beej)
Profile   Post #: 28
RE: Clothing? - 4/22/2010 3:32:38 PM   
PeonForHer


Posts: 19612
Joined: 9/27/2008
Status: offline 		It's ridiculous really, Pyro.

I've so often been in the situation where I *know* that a woman has dressed up to impress me. After some experience and many migraines, I've come to realise that it's not good to acknowledge to said woman that her latest outfit has been a turn-on. Oh no. That would make me "superficial". (Whereas women dressing up to have a specific effect on a man is never superficial, is it? Of course not.) The trick is to maintain that there is 'something about you that is different, but I can't quite put my finger on it, but, by thunder, I'm turned on by you tonight' [etc]. You put it that way, the woman in question is able to assure herself that she has 'power over you'. She doesn't actually give a flying rat's anus that you're 'superficial' - so long as whatever is 'superficial' about you, she can control.

It's all good fun at bottom. I love it, really.


_____________________________

http://www.domme-chronicles.com


(in reply to pyroaquatic)
Profile   Post #: 29
RE: Clothing? - 4/22/2010 3:38:00 PM   
lusciouslips19


Posts: 9792
Joined: 9/8/2007
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

It's ridiculous really, Pyro.

I've so often been in the situation where I *know* that a woman has dressed up to impress me. After some experience and many migraines, I've come to realise that it's not good to acknowledge to said woman that her latest outfit has been a turn-on. Oh no. That would make me "superficial". (Whereas women dressing up to have a specific effect on a man is never superficial, is it? Of course not.) The trick is to maintain that there is 'something about you that is different, but I can't quite put my finger on it, but, by thunder, I'm turned on by you tonight' [etc]. You put it that way, the woman in question is able to assure herself that she has 'power over you'. She doesn't actually give a flying rat's anus that you're 'superficial' - so long as whatever is 'superficial' about you, she can control.

It's all good fun at bottom. I love it, really.



I see. Topping from the bottom, Master Mindfuck

_____________________________

Original Pimpette,
Keeper of Original Home Flag and Fire of Mr. Lance Hughes
Charter member of Lance's Fag Hags,
Member of the Subbie Mafia
Princess of typos and it's my prerogative

(in reply to PeonForHer)
Profile   Post #: 30
RE: Clothing? - 4/22/2010 3:45:22 PM   
VaguelyCurious


Posts: 5264
Joined: 12/2/2009
From: United Kingdom
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

The trick is to maintain that there is 'something about you that is different, but I can't quite put my finger on it, but, by thunder, I'm turned on by you tonight' [etc].

This from the man who compliments my outfit every time he sees me...


_____________________________

Sthetic on FetLife.




(in reply to PeonForHer)
Profile   Post #: 31
RE: Clothing? - 4/22/2010 3:53:37 PM   
PeonForHer


Posts: 19612
Joined: 9/27/2008
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19


quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

It's ridiculous really, Pyro.

I've so often been in the situation where I *know* that a woman has dressed up to impress me. After some experience and many migraines, I've come to realise that it's not good to acknowledge to said woman that her latest outfit has been a turn-on. Oh no. That would make me "superficial". (Whereas women dressing up to have a specific effect on a man is never superficial, is it? Of course not.) The trick is to maintain that there is 'something about you that is different, but I can't quite put my finger on it, but, by thunder, I'm turned on by you tonight' [etc]. You put it that way, the woman in question is able to assure herself that she has 'power over you'. She doesn't actually give a flying rat's anus that you're 'superficial' - so long as whatever is 'superficial' about you, she can control.

It's all good fun at bottom. I love it, really.



I see. Topping from the bottom, Master Mindfuck


Nope. It comes from looking at a woman's face and thinking 'Ah, she thinks she's controlling me' - and loving that thought. But, maybe, that *is* topping from the bottom. I don't know - at some point, it all gets too subtle for me.

_____________________________

http://www.domme-chronicles.com


(in reply to lusciouslips19)
Profile   Post #: 32
RE: Clothing? - 4/22/2010 4:11:04 PM   
PeonForHer


Posts: 19612
Joined: 9/27/2008
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

The trick is to maintain that there is 'something about you that is different, but I can't quite put my finger on it, but, by thunder, I'm turned on by you tonight' [etc].

This from the man who compliments my outfit every time he sees me...


Not every time, I have to say, hon. I wasn't that impressed when you turned up at my door in only a thong and wellington boots.


_____________________________

http://www.domme-chronicles.com


(in reply to VaguelyCurious)
Profile   Post #: 33
RE: Clothing? - 4/22/2010 6:26:14 PM   
Andalusite


Posts: 2492
Joined: 1/25/2009
Status: offline 		Compliments are generally good, but being crude about it, even if she wants to get you aroused, generally isn't well-received.

(in reply to PeonForHer)
Profile   Post #: 34
RE: Clothing? - 4/24/2010 8:07:18 AM   
JhonDean


Posts: 84
Joined: 3/26/2010
Status: offline 		I think grooming and stylish color coordinated apparel are extremely important, not just in fetish attire but in everyday life. I think how we dress and carry ourselves; the politeness’s and courteousness making up our demeanor are all a statement about the inner most person.

(in reply to ReginaMirus)
Profile   Post #: 35
RE: Clothing? - 4/24/2010 10:35:09 AM   
OttersSwim


Posts: 2860
Joined: 9/1/2008
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: pyroaquatic

Male Peacocks have the brightest of displays, Peon.


I am a total peacock.  I admit it.  What I wear is very important to me.  What She wears is of passing interest, but I try to not put any expectations on it at all.  I admit that I do enjoy that she does like to dress up a bit and we get to enjoy some of that energy together in a bit of the way that two women might.  But her being or not being in a corset is of no consequence to my libido.  It is her energy and actions that arouse me, her scent, her movement, and especially her eyes.   She exudes those things that say "dominant" whether she is in sweats or a fishnet body stocking.  She is -yummy- and I am totally drawn in.  <3




_____________________________

I am on a journey of authenticity and self.

(in reply to pyroaquatic)
Profile   Post #: 36
Page:   <<   < prev  1 [2]
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Mistress >> RE: Clothing? Page: <<   < prev  1 [2]
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.078