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shoud a Dom/me do that to their slaves ?? - 4/22/2010 9:03:17 AM

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Should the Master or the Mistress suck and lick their slaves gentials and pleasure them or not ?? or it is up to the Master and the Mistress ??? or a Master and Mistress gets only pleasure and never go to the lower level of the slave and suck their gentials . ??

I am talking about all relationships .. gay, lesbian and straight either males or females ..

Please if someone have personal experiences with their slaves . let me know about it ..

thanks in Advance ..

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RE: shoud a Dom/me do that to their slaves ?? - 4/22/2010 9:04:21 AM

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second set of question marks where I come from.

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RE: shoud a Dom/me do that to their slaves ?? - 4/22/2010 9:10:26 AM

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People should do what they want, as long as its consensual. Duh.

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RE: shoud a Dom/me do that to their slaves ?? - 4/22/2010 9:36:10 AM

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ah, back to the "one twue" way of things with this question, Op.

The answer is... whatever makes em happy. there is no right or wrong answer.

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RE: shoud a Dom/me do that to their slaves ?? - 4/22/2010 9:45:12 AM

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If you have as much experience as you claim in your profile why are you asking such a newbie question?

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RE: shoud a Dom/me do that to their slaves ?? - 4/22/2010 9:51:11 AM

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To be extremely blunt about this... more blunt even than I normally am, who says a D-type (like myself for example) is unable to find pleasure from a dick in his/her mouth? I personally like such a thing once in a while.

It's also fun for making the pet squirm, reasserting where the control is and that I can do what I wish to his body, whichever part I wish, for however long I wish.

That, and frankly, they're fun to play with.

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RE: shoud a Dom/me do that to their slaves ?? - 4/22/2010 10:24:31 AM

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In a healthy Master/slave dynamic...we do what pleases us. If it pleases me to be on my knees giving a blow job or tossing his salad I will. If it pleases me that the slave does that then that is what will happen. There is no rule book that says dominant must do A, B or C , we do what we believe is suitable/appropriate in our own dynamic and according to the what we negotiated before taking on a slave or submissive.

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To be extremely blunt about this... more blunt even than I normally am, who says a D-type (like myself for example) is unable to find pleasure from a dick in his/her mouth? I personally like such a thing once in a while.

It's also fun for making the pet squirm, reasserting where the control is and that I can do what I wish to his body, whichever part I wish, for however long I wish.

That, and frankly, they're fun to play with.

Exactly.

< Message edited by Wolf2Bear -- 4/22/2010 10:26:05 AM >

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RE: shoud a Dom/me do that to their slaves ?? - 4/22/2010 12:35:38 PM

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Page 65, section 4, paragraph 2 states that a Dominant is permitted to give pleasure to a slave/submissive on the 4th Friday of every month between the hours of 6 pm and 7 pm only. Any other pleasuring will be considered a reason for the contract to be revoked and the Dominant then becomes the submissive while the submissive then becomes the Dominant.

So your answer is yes and no and it depends.

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RE: shoud a Dom/me do that to their slaves ?? - 4/22/2010 1:08:17 PM

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Thanks guys for your replies .. really appreciated so much ..

As an answer for the question from topping frm bottom ... I am asking this question because i like to know what other people do and learn from them too,
Asking questions have never been a sign of ignorance ... everyone is learning each day even if they have a 100 years of experience .. so it is not shame or wrong to ask questions at all .. on the other hand, i respect all the question that anyone asks cause may be i would learn something new from that question or correct an information that i had before ..

Thanks ..

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RE: shoud a Dom/me do that to their slaves ?? - 4/22/2010 1:13:34 PM

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Wondering if you're really PA behind that mask ...

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RE: shoud a Dom/me do that to their slaves ?? - 4/22/2010 1:36:33 PM

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The golden rule to remember is that there are no rules, none at all.
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RE: shoud a Dom/me do that to their slaves ?? - 4/22/2010 2:00:45 PM

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i think anything the people involved want to do is okay. But, if a Dom/me wants to do oral on His/Her s-type, why on earth say no? Just my opinion, but i think that'd be nuts!

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RE: shoud a Dom/me do that to their slaves ?? - 4/22/2010 2:37:57 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: BESTBDSM

.. so it is not shame or wrong to ask questions at all

See, I'd agree with this statement if the word 'questions' had the word 'intelligent' in front of it.

Sadly, this is not the case.

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RE: shoud a Dom/me do that to their slaves ?? - 4/22/2010 2:38:14 PM

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Your the Dominant. Do as you please.

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RE: shoud a Dom/me do that to their slaves ?? - 4/22/2010 4:03:36 PM

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Thanks again for your replies ..

@ Divi .. Can you please tell me what do u mean by " PA " cause it stands for a dozen of words that i know .. and i was hoping that you tell me what did you mean ? so i won't misunderstand it ..

Thanks ..

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RE: shoud a Dom/me do that to their slaves ?? - 4/22/2010 7:07:08 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: BESTBDSM

Should the Master or the Mistress suck and lick their slaves gentials and pleasure them or not ?? or it is up to the Master and the Mistress ??? or a Master and Mistress gets only pleasure and never go to the lower level of the slave and suck their gentials . ??

I am talking about all relationships .. gay, lesbian and straight either males or females ..

Please if someone have personal experiences with their slaves . let me know about it ..

thanks in Advance ..

Oh my....my Man loves to give me oral pleasure all the time. I love it. He always says "show me a man that doesn't lick his girl's pussy and I'll show you a girl I can take away from her man." ;)

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RE: shoud a Dom/me do that to their slaves ?? - 4/22/2010 8:04:17 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aynne88

He always says "show me a man that doesn't lick his girl's pussy and I'll show you a girl I can take away from her man." ;)

Please send your Man my congratulations on his most superb motto.

:p

I think that may have just become my new mantra in life (the bit about pussy, not the bit about his excellent taste in mottoes).

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RE: shoud a Dom/me do that to their slaves ?? - 4/22/2010 8:24:53 PM

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I am not a Mistress or a Dominant Male, but I wanted to sound off a bit too.

And I love love LOVE for my man to "go downtown". However:

Daddy does this, when he chooses to, and only when he chooses to. I can ask all I want, but that doesn't mean that will result in what I have been asking for. The anticipation is delicious. He keeps me waiting and wanting, and this is delicious too.

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RE: shoud a Dom/me do that to their slaves ?? - 4/22/2010 8:27:59 PM

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Rather than answer your questions, I have a coupe question's for you. Why wouldn't they? Does a sexual act make someone less dominant? Is a certain sexual act below/demeaning a dominant somehow?

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RE: shoud a Dom/me do that to their slaves ?? - 4/22/2010 9:00:43 PM

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No, and you have made your point .. Thanks ..

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