Dustyn
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"1. You are not, never were, and by the terms of your agreement with her at the beginning of your relationship with her, will never collar her in any way, shape or form. "
- Check the relevant discussion about this topic. I said, and I quote: "I will most likely not collar you, but it is not out of the question."
"2. I've heard of some pretty stupid thing to do as a Dom, but what I've seen and heard over the past few days has seriously pilfered the birthday pastry."
Please, enlighten me, All Knowing One. How, as a dominant, have I made a faux pas. As a friend, yes, I have said some stupid things.
3. To anyone who knows anything about you, you're posts here on the Ask a Switch forums are the most blatant attempt at getting attention since the Tobacco companies spent three times the ammount they donated to charity in advertising that they did so.
- Here's the real kicker. You have never once talked to me, young man. You are basing your opinion of me solely on the account of one person, and that one person is exceptionally biased. She knows where I live and can give you that information, or my phone number, and I will be more than happy to fill you on my side of this situation. She is NOT the abused little angel you seem to think she is.
4. Your actions over the past few weeks have been abhorrent to the point of easily being labelled odeous.
- My actions have been abhorrent? Which actions? The ones where I am fending off her physical attacks of my person simply because she is feeling aggressive for no good reason and since I am there, I am the target? Perhaps her assumption that since I have no formal college schooling, I know less than nothing about anything? I give as good as I get.
5. I've never met you in person, and I already fell about two steps away from abject hatred of you. By the way, damn.
- You are hating a concept, not a person.
6. So she label herself a feminist, a switch, whatever. So you think it pushes the relationship or any other towards segregation, so what. Here's a hint, genius, that is her choice. If this were a sub, I may have a different opinion (and no, I am not in the mood to discuss it), but on this, the opinion is thus: just because it doesn't agree with this black fantasy of yours does not mean that you can simply order and will it away. In fact, I take back my earlier statement. You can't even do that with a sub.
- Neither you nor she has any idea as to what my intentions are/were/might have been. Since she never thought to ask WHY I do or say the things I did, simply decided that I was being an ass, I guess it doesn't really matter.
7. Destroying your piece of a matched pair of jewelry and delivering it to your intended's house while offering no explanation is not only low, it's manipulative, rude to heights I lack the words to comprehensively describe, and truly, truly pathetic.
- Ever think that perhaps it was a statement that I could no longer consider her my submissive based on 6-7 months of constantly reaching out and simply offering help and having my hand nearly taken off at the shoulder?
8. (NOTE: My apologies to anyone who is offended by the following semi-sexit statements...deal) IF ANY WOMAN DEIGNS TO LAY WITH YOU, I DON'T CARE IF YOUR FREAKIN' FABIO, YOU SHOW SOME FUCKING RESPECT FOR HER WISHES FOR THE BASIS OF THE RELATIONSHIP. DO YOU NOT LOOK AT YOURSELF IN THE MIRROR? THE MALE FORM ISN'T EXACTLY BEAUTIFUL, AGAIN, EVEN IF YOUR FABIO. JESUS MAN, GET A GRIP ON REALITY. IF THIS REQUIRES THAT YOU CHECK YOURSELF IN TO SUNNYVALE INSTITUTE SOMEWHERE, THEN (FUCK!) DO IT.
- Blah, blah blah, freaking blah. For starters, how in the world does physical appearance have anything to do with actions towards anyone? They are two very exclusive terms and never meet in the middle, with a select few crossroads. All I truly ever asked for was consideration for me, nothing more and nothing less. Is that an unreasonable request to ask of someone that you are sleeping with?
9. You say that every relationship you have eventually ends in desertion and isolation. Hmm, interesting. Well, consider this: the only consistent component of your failed relationships is you.
- And the fact that I seem to find the psychotic ones in the universe. Almost paralyzed by one that couldn't handle being dumped. Another committed suicide because she thought I didn't love her the way she loved me.
I have never once in my life claimed to be perfect. Truth of the matter is that I have no desire to be perfect, since it sounds fairly boring. She, however, is the one that shut down all comminication with me, not vice versa. She stopped talking about what was bothering her, even to the point of not talking about what I would do that bothered her. I cannot, and I stress, CANNOT fix something that I do not know is a problem. Can you even imagine what it is like to know someone is pissed at you, and you have no idea what it is about, let alone how to try and remedy the situation?
One is as deep in the muck as the other is in the mire here, VandalHeart.
Do not judge me until you have at least talked with me for at least an hour. I am more than willing to start everything over as just friends, but she will be the only one to make the first gesture. As to you and I, I have no overt complaints with you, other than your leaping to verdict without hearing the defense's case, but int he scope of the universe, that is fairly minor. If you want to talk, I am more than willing to talk.
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