What does this sound like? Could I be a submissive or is it something else?

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Carlaofrainbow -> What does this sound like? Could I be a submissive or is it something else? (4/22/2010 12:37:54 PM)
Okay, here's the thing.. I am a lesbian and for quite sometime have had fantasies of being someones submissive and all the erotica I read is bdsm and has to do with fetishes and I have self spanked myself a few times and I get wet when I do that. Also, I have clothespins and love torturing my nipples and also like the idea of being gagged and even went so far as to buy a pacifier to get wet with my pussy juices and suck on and I felt so content after..I was also a little weirded out because I liked it and felt kinda embarassed that I did.. I have been having these feelings for quite sometime and I feel as though I have been submissive my whole life and can see how natural it was.. I always wanted to please and hardly ever acted up, never really got punished and was a good girl and I find myself getting confused because part of me wouldn't want to give up control and then the other part of me would like nothing more.. I guess what I'm saying is I wonder what this sounds like and if there are any things you could tell me, that would be great!!

Aylee -> RE: What does this sound like? Could I be a submissive or is it something else? (4/22/2010 3:52:37 PM)
It sounds like self-exploration. Have fun.

domiguy -> RE: What does this sound like? Could I be a submissive or is it something else? (4/22/2010 3:55:48 PM)
It sounds like Creutzfeld-Jakob disease. Have fun.

DarkSteven -> RE: What does this sound like? Could I be a submissive or is it something else? (4/22/2010 4:39:47 PM)
Since you're a lesbian, explore with women. Ask one you REALLY trust if she'd explore with you.

Aylee -> RE: What does this sound like? Could I be a submissive or is it something else? (4/22/2010 5:09:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy It sounds like Creutzfeld-Jakob disease. Have fun. It is Creutzfeldt–Jakob disease. And no, it does not sound like mad-cow disease. sheesh

Andalusite -> RE: What does this sound like? Could I be a submissive or is it something else? (4/22/2010 7:06:21 PM)
You might be submissive, you might be masochistic, or you might be either/both depending on your partner. If you're more focused on the control aspects, then you're probably submissive, if you're more focused on the activities, you're more likely a bottom at this point. That's subject to change over time, and depends on the chemistry with your partner.

afkarr -> RE: What does this sound like? Could I be a submissive or is it something else? (4/22/2010 7:50:30 PM)
You'll never know what you are until you try it out; I once had vague fantasies of some tall, dark, and handsome stranger sweeping off my feet and carrying me away to be his one true love toy forever. Probably good for me he didn't show up before I realized what I really like is some kinky freak I know pretty well to tie me up, breakout the blindfold, and use me for an afternoon ( while I pretend he's a tall, dark, handsome stranger ravishing me). I could really get into the ravishing part, but the in between times my uncontrollable type A side pops out and simply does not like to be told what to do, lol.

Drifa -> RE: What does this sound like? Could I be a submissive or is it something else? (4/23/2010 6:24:50 AM)
There are lesbians who are interested in BDSM and D/s. Try a Google search for "lesbian BDSM Florida" and look for munches in your area. Visit a munch or two and talk to people, learn about the scene, and see if its for you. I have found that a lot of the lesbian community is adamantly against BDSM because they see it as disempowering women or encouraging abuse. But there are kinky lesbians out there.

TheLovingDom -> RE: What does this sound like? Could I be a submissive or is it something else? (4/25/2010 3:14:42 PM)
Well you just need to figure out what works for you there is no right or wrong way just need to find your happy place for example there are tops/bottoms doms/subs masters/slaves sadists/masochists not to mention switches as well as those who have no interest in the kinky sexual side of things that want nothing more than to please there dom/me

AllLockedUp -> RE: What does this sound like? Could I be a submissive or is it something else? (4/25/2010 6:55:49 PM)
I agree with the majority, gotta try it to know if its for you. You may not enjoy it as much with a partner.

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