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babygirlsasha -> seeking advice for new daddies (4/24/2010 7:48:21 PM)
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Hello! I'm fairly new to fetlife and am seeking some advice/opinion on the Daddy dynamic. My partner and I have been together for many years, and we have recently begun to experiment with BDSM. We both find this to be fun and exciting, and it has helped us grow as a couple and as individuals. As first this was mostly just bedroom play for us, but I soon realized that I wanted this dynamic to be a more structured and continuous part of our relationship. I've found that the Daddy dynamic seems to offer exactly what I want - the perfect mix of coddling and control, of discipline and nurturance...
I've discussed wanting more of a 24/7 relationship with my partner and he responded enthusiastically, however it has been difficult to integrate this into the very established patterns of our longstanding partnership. Also, while we have discussed why I find the Daddy dynamic appealing and I know that he gets the general idea, it's difficult for me to explain exactly how I want that to become a part of our relationship in tangible terms.
Does anyone out there have any advice for people who are new to this dynamic? I'd love to hear your thoughts on cultivating a D/s dynamic in a preexisting relationship. Advice/resources on learning about the Daddy dynamic and being a good Daddy would also be much appreciated. Thank you!!
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