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swaybackgirl -> teeth ? (4/25/2010 4:41:26 PM)
Wondering Do you feel you could serve someone, who had a really bad case of rotten teeth and mouth ? I met a potiental partner the other day, we had a good chemistry online and on the phone, the photo he sent was decent. We met and as soon as He opened his mouth and smiled I knew the date was over for me. Would you still serve knowing you would not be able to have that intimate connection them ? Thank You, sbg

Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: teeth ? (4/25/2010 4:44:13 PM)
I would honestly be disgusted and turned off every time I looked at someone if they had poor teeth that were severe. I wouldn't be in a relationship with any one that disgusted me. That may make me shallow, but I can live with that.

ResidentSadist -> RE: teeth ? (4/25/2010 5:13:03 PM)
Teeth are a symbol of virility . . . need I say more?

WinsomeDefiance -> RE: teeth ? (4/25/2010 5:22:35 PM)
Dental problems can be fixed/corrected.... seeing ONLY the teeth, seems a bit short-sighted to me.

maybemaybenot -> RE: teeth ? (4/25/2010 5:30:32 PM)
I absolutely could not. Like TFB, I may be shallow, but teeth are a huge factor for me. Don't care if they are dentures or real teeth, but they better be kept in nice condition. It is a huge turn off to me to see anyone smile and there be a big gaping hole where a tooth should be or some nasty brown or black teeth. The first two things I notice about a man I am considering, is their eyes, then the teeth. Soft full lips with beatiful teeth is irresistable to me. I met a man while on vacation in Mexico once. We were in a shop checking out the wares and just started chatting. The encounter lasted no more than 20 minutes. I can still see that mans mouth, lips and teeth. Sooo sensual. He had the best mouth/lips/ teeth of anyone I have ever met. ~~ swoons~~ mbmbn mbmbn

Lockit -> RE: teeth ? (4/25/2010 5:45:28 PM)
There are a lot of reasons that someone can have dental problems. From disease to financial reasons. Dental care is not cheap and people have a tendency to let their dental health come after so many other things that seem more important at the time. Raising families, crisis or a health issue that springs up at you; all can play a part into poor dental health. I was told that I would lose my teeth by age twenty five. I felt proud to keep my teeth well into my forties without losing them and without them looking or actually being bad. I had one cavity and went to the only dentist I could afford. He refused to work on me, being afraid of the rare illness I have and me dying in his chair. I had lost my business with 911 and I only had a small income from a private source after that. I finally had to beg the dentist to help me, but a long time had passed before he would agree. I also had to promise to sign a document that stated I wouldn't sue him if I died in his chair. Okay, cool... here we go! I can smile again! He decides on a plan and we start. Bam! My son was brain injured. I had to forget myself, once again. Now I moved and haven't found any doctor or dentist I can afford to see, basically because I cannot afford any. Family that would have helped have been effected by the economy. Now... my teeth are a total mess. I keep them clean and use a whole lot of mouth wash to assure I keep myself infection free and I hide. Life stops almost. I'm a proud woman and I simply will not put myself out there looking like this. I've talked to men who are fine with the son being with me, my health and all that is going on until I get to the teeth. lol I bring it up pretty quickly so they can run without any real heartaches or meetings like you went through. I don't think it is fair not to mention that. The thing is... teeth can be bought. Most other things can't be changed, like nothing in common, stupidity or a poor attitude/whatever. As distasteful as poor teeth are and the thought of kissing someone with a mouth like that, with maybe the fear that they simply neglected them or were a drug user, one can overcome a dental issue for a good fit in a relationship. If I were not the only one paying the bills around here, I could afford my new teeth and quickly! lol But with teeth like this and all else... I'm going to need some pretty good luck there! lol

FelineFae -> RE: teeth ? (4/25/2010 5:50:36 PM)
When a medical condition, related to childhood malnutrition caused me to lose my teeth, i was in tears thinking that i'd never be seen as attractive again. Call me shallow, but it was a big deal for someone only 23 to need false teeth. But my Master still thinks i am beautiful. Teeth can be very pretty if you've got the right genes or enough money. But all things can fade.

marie2 -> RE: teeth ? (4/25/2010 5:55:34 PM)
I wouldn't be able to be involved with someone who had poor hygiene. The teeth don't have to be perfect or pretty, but rotten? NFW.

Aylee -> RE: teeth ? (4/25/2010 6:02:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: swaybackgirl Wondering Do you feel you could serve someone, who had a really bad case of rotten teeth and mouth ? I met a potiental partner the other day, we had a good chemistry online and on the phone, the photo he sent was decent. We met and as soon as He opened his mouth and smiled I knew the date was over for me. Would you still serve knowing you would not be able to have that intimate connection them ? Thank You, sbg Nope. I have a really strong teeth to tattoo ratio rule in relationships.

DarkSteven -> RE: teeth ? (4/25/2010 6:21:03 PM)
Depends. I know a slave who has very bad teeth due to injuries. If the bad teeth were due to poor hygiene and self-motivation, I'd question the effort I'd have to put in to get her on track.

lizi -> RE: teeth ? (4/25/2010 6:52:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: swaybackgirl Wondering Do you feel you could serve someone, who had a really bad case of rotten teeth and mouth ? I met a potiental partner the other day, we had a good chemistry online and on the phone, the photo he sent was decent. We met and as soon as He opened his mouth and smiled I knew the date was over for me. Would you still serve knowing you would not be able to have that intimate connection them ? Thank You, sbg True story... I met someone online, we connected in a big way and I was very hopeful about him. We decided to meet for the first time at an outdoor jazz festival. I parked, saw him close by, got out and ran to meet him eagerly. He opened up with a big smile and exposed black, rotten teeth that were eroded as well. I literally rocked back on my heels and got weak in the knees - not in a good way. Everything we had established went out the door immediately, I just was not in any way shape or form attracted to the man anymore. I didn't walk away, I just was kind of in a daze, we went in and sat down to listen, I kept sneaking peeks to the side at his teeth and would think to myself that they looked like states...Florida, California, Illinois, Maine. I just couldn't stay anymore and went to the bathroom, called my son, and instructed him to call me in 15 min with an emergency. I cared enough not to hurt his feelings so handled it that way. It's the only time I ever ran out on a date. I just could not picture ever getting close to that mouth. We stayed friends and with time I broached the subject of the teeth and told him he really should take care of it, he agreed that it was something he should do and he would save his money to get them worked on. I haven't talked to him in some time now but he was an amazing man who deserved love in the biggest way and unfortunately unless he got his teeth taken care of I don't know if he ever found that love. I could never get physically close to a man with bad teeth. Just can't do it. Couldn't just serve him either without the physical component because my personal view on what I want is to be with someone I get close to physically and mentally both.

Termyn8or -> RE: teeth ? (4/25/2010 7:11:05 PM)
FR Not an issue with me, my teeth are one of the few things on me that are in decent shape for my age. In fact I can skip a toothbrushing without risking halitosis. You can smile without showing teeth, I know people who do it. But the bad breath admittedly can be too much to handle. Extremely bad breath is a sign of poor health or impending poor health mainly due to diet, which is under the person's control. (somewhat anyway, another subject) Which is it ? The looks of the teeth or the breath ? You can have either perfect teeth or dentures that you clean daily as well as wash down you mouth and still have halitosis because your lungs are dissipating a poison in your body, that's how a breathalyzer works. You can also have broken teeth, possibly with a couple of twenty year old cavities which are not growing because the teeth are not rotting, thus no halitosis in any severe degree. So which are we talking about here ? T

DarlingSavage -> RE: teeth ? (4/25/2010 11:20:21 PM)
I used to know a guy who was missing his 2 front teeth, he had some extras to put in there, but I used to wonder what it would feel like to sit on that. Other than that, the rest of his teeth were fine and he didn't have a rotten mouth. I didn't get to find out what that felt like, though. I did date a guy on a first meet, and he sent a decent picture, but when I met him and he opened his mouth, I knew the date was over for me, too.

pahunkboy -> RE: teeth ? (4/26/2010 9:56:35 AM)
I always consider teeth when picking out a horse.

Termyn8or -> RE: teeth ? (4/26/2010 10:12:47 AM)
FR Bad teeth are also a health risk. Severely rotten teeth constantly poison the blood. Also they usually can't be put to proper use and are usually painful. This is not good. If you got really bad teeth and are on practically a liquid diet already, get rid of them, they are hurting more than helping. T

pahunkboy -> RE: teeth ? (4/26/2010 10:45:23 AM)
With a good horse- who needs a boyfriend?

thishereboi -> RE: teeth ? (4/26/2010 11:47:08 AM)
Long time ago, I met a girl who had really bad teeth. It wasn't because of poor hygene, but some disease that caused her teeth to rot from the inside out. But she was really nice and kinda cute in a goofy sorta way and I fell for her. Bad teeth and all. About 1year into the relationship, she borrowed the money from another friend to get a full set of dentures and I found out the benefits of gums, but that's another thread.

divi -> RE: teeth ? (4/26/2010 12:35:05 PM)
hell no

WolfeTone -> RE: teeth ? (4/26/2010 12:39:21 PM)
I don't exactly make the healthiest choices, so I wouldn't hold it over someone else's head to do so either. But actual, rotten teeth? Heavens no, that's just beyond the pale to let it get so bad.

Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: teeth ? (4/26/2010 5:19:02 PM)
Hell I am paying out of pocket for teeth cleaning Wednesday cause I have a possible abscess and it's making my tooth hurt. I'd rather pay out of pocket now, then have insurance make me wait two months before they'll see me, and have the abscess and tooth worse. Fortunately this time for me it's only going to be 99 dollars for x rays, exam and the cleaning. The place I was going to go to originally wanted 200 dollars.

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