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MrCaneSevere -> Dom/Sub thoughts (4/26/2010 1:43:55 AM)
Im an ex-soldier and i have dominant thoughts but when i have my hair cut i feel very submissive ? Is it possible to feel both passions and how could i express these thoughts on a profile ?

dreamerdreaming -> RE: Dom/Sub thoughts (4/26/2010 2:12:42 AM)
Well, have you ever thought that you might be a switch? There's no law that says you hafta feel only one way. Check out the switch forum! [:)] Also, its perfectly fine if you're just a dom with some lingering submissive feelings. You can just be honest about it, in your profile. It might be fun to explore those thoughts and feelings in more detail, in your journal. Enjoy being YOU! [:D]

Lockit -> RE: Dom/Sub thoughts (4/26/2010 2:14:10 AM)
Maybe you had a mom like me. My son was really messing with me while I was cooking and cutting veggies. The house was exploding with family and the kid wouldn't stop. So I held that knife up and said, son, I am going to give you a word of advice. Never piss off a woman with a knife in her hand. Everyone laughed as they were supposed to. A woman buzzin around your head with sharp objects could make one feel a bit submissive.[;)] Yes, you can feel both submissive and dominant and you can put that in your profile very simply by stating you are interested in exploring both submission and domination.

leadership527 -> RE: Dom/Sub thoughts (4/26/2010 10:51:40 AM)
Humans are complex. You serve yourself and your partner best when you can see your own self clearly. I don't personally know of anyone who is 100% dominant or 100% submissive. Being some mix of the two does not make you any less "real"... it makes you human. In terms of expressing this on your profile, I think you made a great start in your post. Why not simply elaborate on it? In what circumstances do you have these dominant thoughts? When do you feel submissive? Bring your true self to your profile and you will attract others who find that person desirable which is, in the end, the goal, right?

LPslittleclip -> RE: Dom/Sub thoughts (4/26/2010 9:35:12 PM)
i can understand some of how you feel as i am a soldier and as a nurse i have to be protective of my patients and defend them. at home with my Mistress i am her slave happy to do what ever She wants. now i am not a switch i have explored it a bit and found that it is not me but you can have both dominant and submissive feelings and be perfectly normal. explore when and where or what it is that brings about the submissive parts and the dominant ones as well find the happy place for you and enjoy

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