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RE: 2 Week Pass - 4/28/2010 7:29:56 AM

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So what would you tell your Master/Dom if he said this?

"Are you sure you are feeling ok?...Do you need to go to the hospital?"

denying us both the pleasure of His sadism would not only be a drag...this slave limiting/controlling His activities would go against the foundation of our relationship...so she would seriously be concerned about His health if He ever came up with such an idea.

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RE: 2 Week Pass - 4/28/2010 8:48:49 AM

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Thank you all for the responses. I am not saying Master ever did this is for my curisitory only. For those who said they would not take it, if your Master ordered you, you would disobay the order not to take your pass? It is pretty obvious he would have a reason for giving it to you.

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RE: 2 Week Pass - 4/28/2010 10:01:06 AM

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When I am in a relationship, I do not feel compelled to obey stupid orders. I feel compelled to ask what is going on. (I realize this makes me "not a twue swabe" by some people's standards. I, frankly, don't care.) So yes, I would disobey the direct order and ask what was triggering this weird game playing, because it's not part of ~my~ dynamic.

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RE: 2 Week Pass - 4/28/2010 12:18:05 PM

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Your hypothetical situation in the op stated that he would tell me that I could have a pass on things he did to me that I wasn't especially fond of. Because, as I stated, there isn't anything like that, I would not be disobeying the order to tell him what they were.

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RE: 2 Week Pass - 4/28/2010 12:43:38 PM

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ORIGINAL: littleone35

Thank you all for the responses. I am not saying Master ever did this is for my curisitory only. For those who said they would not take it, if your Master ordered you, you would disobay the order not to take your pass? It is pretty obvious he would have a reason for giving it to you.

Matt's littleone

He would never order me to do that. He has no desire to give me that type of power in our relationship and I have no desire to want it.
He knows the things I dislike. He doesn't need me to tell him.

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RE: 2 Week Pass - 4/28/2010 2:02:09 PM

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I wouldn't pass on anything. There are definitely things I hate that he does to me, but they tend to make me the most excited just for the fact that I have no control when he chooses those things. To pass would give me control and the whole two weeks would be a let down to me.
That probably made no sense.

It makes perfect sense to me, I don't want to control what he does to me. If he only did things i love or like, I don't think I would enjoy it much. I get a charge of accepting things he wants to do whether I like it or hate it.

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RE: 2 Week Pass - 4/28/2010 7:23:22 PM

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ORIGINAL: bondmaid123
When I am in a relationship, I do not feel compelled to obey stupid orders. I feel compelled to ask what is going on. (I realize this makes me "not a twue swabe" by some people's standards. I, frankly, don't care.) So yes, I would disobey the direct order and ask what was triggering this weird game playing, because it's not part of ~my~ dynamic.

To be fair, it is YOU who is characterizing this as weird game playing. At least in my mind, it is conceptually possible that I would give Carol an unusual command like this and it would be inappropriate to tell her why. In such a circumstance, I still expect absolute obedience. Carol would ask if she was confused. If I declined to tell her, then she would obey on the strength of trust and submission. She also knows that I never play games with her so honestly, it wouldn't be a whole lot of trust.

I'm not pointing this out to suggest you're not a true sub... *laughs* As you know, I'm not much of a true dom either. I'm only pointing out that there are other interpretations of this scenario.

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RE: 2 Week Pass - 4/28/2010 8:15:07 PM

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Jeff, I know. And I'm just responding for myself, not saying I have the Right Answer for anybody else participating in this convo. ;)

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RE: 2 Week Pass - 4/29/2010 12:00:38 AM

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ORIGINAL: bondmaid123
Jeff, I know. And I'm just responding for myself, not saying I have the Right Answer for anybody else participating in this convo. ;)

No no... I got that and I certainlydidn't mean to imply you were doing any one-true-wayism. I just though there were more possible realities that could result in this hypothetical command than "mind game". God knows that wasn't where my head was at when I read the OP.

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RE: 2 Week Pass - 4/29/2010 7:18:55 PM

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ORIGINAL: littleone35

Of course after the two weeks are up he may do it more.

Matt's littleone

That's the type I tend to attract. :/ So I probably wouldn't ask for anthing.

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RE: 2 Week Pass - 4/30/2010 2:03:04 AM

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I'm with you Kali,
that cane hurts like hell, I'm not a fan and cringe when it comes out......if I were allowed to run away from it I would.

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Oh I know for damn sure this would NOT happen in our home.....But in fantasy land, in a heart beat I would be telling him NO MORE CANE OF DOOM!!!!!

I hate that fucking evil cane......

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RE: 2 Week Pass - 4/30/2010 6:59:41 AM

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He knows the things I dislike. He doesn't need me to tell him.

No pet peeves you dislike?

Mine is socks left in weird places all over the house. I frankly hate doing laundry only to find that there are unmatched socks. Yesterday I did it and this morning I found yet another sock behind the couch.

But I don't believe I ever told him how much I hate this. I tend to ask him to be on the lookout for missing socks since 'apparently' the washer just ate another.

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RE: 2 Week Pass - 4/30/2010 9:00:38 AM

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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

I wouldn't pass on anything. There are definitely things I hate that he does to me, but they tend to make me the most excited just for the fact that I have no control when he chooses those things. To pass would give me control and the whole two weeks would be a let down to me.
That probably made no sense.

^^^What Aileen said^^^

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RE: 2 Week Pass - 5/1/2010 9:57:57 PM

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i'd be more likely to be asked what am i especially fond of rather than the opposite and i'd be hard pressed to answer the question--i'd probably suggest some particularly difficult and nasty chore, perhaps cleaning the turtle tank or rain gutters.
i. too, do not like painful breast torture. i have a bad, kind of . . . feral reaction to it which requires Them to wear a cup and a hockey mask if their going to let me loose anytime soon. i did pretty good recently by translating the desire to fight into spewing some whining instead.