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desperate dommes - 4/27/2010 3:26:29 PM   
azjojoba


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Status: offline 		What's with all the middle-aged women on CM who wants a man that pays rent and all expenses. The young femdoms ones are more apt to ask for "tributes", which makes sense. They all have their price.

The ads typically require that the men have to be willing to do all the chores, dishes etc. Most of the dommes also say they want a guy that is young, buff, and has a big cock -- but they can't expect to cum more than once a month. Usually they are told there will be very little sex. Sometimes the term "domestic servant" is used. It usually sounds like what these women really want is to live with a gay that has lots of money and spare time.

Wouldn't these desperate dommes be better off looking for a room mate on craigslist?

It's hard for me to believe that these dommes ever find a man stupid enough to agree to these terms. More likely they will find obnoxious predators who are looking for thrills, or people like me that get a laugh by sending them a rude message.

Are there women here that get anything more than crude comments when they run ads like this? Tell us how it worked out.
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RE: desperate dommes - 4/27/2010 3:31:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		And who says these Dommes are desperate?

Projection much?


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RE: desperate dommes - 4/27/2010 3:33:27 PM   
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You have it reversed.

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RE: desperate dommes - 4/27/2010 3:34:54 PM   
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Status: offline 		Please don't make me giggle, BoiJen, I have a headache and a stomach ache and you make my life ever so slightly worse by being entertaining.

OP: what makes you assume they are desperate? My gut instinct would be that if they were desperate they would be taking whatever they could get-having high standards and being willing to wait for someone who meets them is the exact *opposite* of desperation, no?


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RE: desperate dommes - 4/27/2010 3:37:07 PM   
thishereboi


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Compare the number of threads started by sub men whining because no one will talk to them or respond to their emails to the number of threads started by fem dommes whining about the boys.

Then tell me who is desperate.


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RE: desperate dommes - 4/27/2010 3:38:47 PM   
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Status: offline 		I haven't actually seen a domme's advert that looks like that - ?!

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RE: desperate dommes - 4/27/2010 3:50:23 PM   
azjojoba


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ORIGINAL: BoiJen

And who says these Dommes are desperate?

Projection much?



Maybe they aren't desperate, hence the question.

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RE: desperate dommes - 4/27/2010 3:55:12 PM   
azjojoba


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

I haven't actually seen a domme's advert that looks like that - ?!


Perhaps your search parameters aren't set up right. Go to the help page for tutorials.

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RE: desperate dommes - 4/27/2010 4:02:47 PM   
PeonForHer


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Status: offline 		If I were to see one like that, anyway, I'd just think 'ah - fantasist', and move on without remembering it.

(Heh. I had my first, ever, rude cmail from a domme last week. But that's another story.)

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RE: desperate dommes - 4/27/2010 4:05:20 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		You really have something against the middle age domina. There don't seem to be any good one's that you have found. They all are fat or demanding or want to use you, but really, how often are you getting used? So what's your complaint? Ahhh.. you wish to be used in certain ways, but not others. Okay. You aren't getting used those ways either. Maybe an attitude change would do you well. Even those who would cater to a married man will expect something from him. What do you have to offer?

There are good dominant's out there and you tend to see the worst, always. You don't like the prudes who won't do you. You don't want the one's who expect something that a married man can't give and you don't want one who expects something real, like help with the bills and a complete relationship, vanilla and bdsm. Sounds like you are shit out of luck and constantly complaining. Get over yourself. Even your wife might like you better.

You have let us all know how much you dislike us here at CM. You repeat, bs, repeat, constantly. Why do you do that? Oh... you like messing with us because we won't do you and expect some standards for which you cannot provide. Then there is that aspect that you might like us humiliating and insulting you. Feel like a lil freebee today?

You seem to wish to use a dominant since you have little to offer. So what makes you any better than the dominant's you complain about here in this thread and this time?


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RE: desperate dommes - 4/27/2010 4:06:10 PM   
VaguelyCurious


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ORIGINAL: azjojoba

Perhaps your search parameters aren't set up right. Go to the help page for tutorials.

My only search parameter at the moment is location (UK) and it doesn't sound like a particularly familiar theme to me, either...


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RE: desperate dommes - 4/27/2010 4:14:16 PM   
BlackTigerDragon


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Status: offline 		If you can't handle cleaning a few dishes then perhaps it is YOU who is better off living with a gay.

There is a reason why they are called DOMINANTS and not maids.

DOMINANT. That is the person that is on top and gives orders.

I think what you are looking for is a gay sub.

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RE: desperate dommes - 4/27/2010 4:21:25 PM   
azjojoba


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quote:

ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

quote:

ORIGINAL: azjojoba

Perhaps your search parameters aren't set up right. Go to the help page for tutorials.

My only search parameter at the moment is location (UK) and it doesn't sound like a particularly familiar theme to me, either...



Maybe British women aren't as desperate as Americans.

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RE: desperate dommes - 4/27/2010 4:32:47 PM   
azjojoba


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ORIGINAL: Lockit

You really have something against the middle age domina. There don't seem to be any good one's that you have found.


I prefer middle aged women so I'm not sure why you said that. I just think the ones at CM often show unrealistic expectations when they look for men.

I have met some good ones, but not necessarily from CM.

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They all are fat or demanding or want to use you, but really, how often are you getting used? So what's your complaint? Ahhh.. you wish to be used in certain ways, but not others. Okay. You aren't getting used those ways either. Maybe an attitude change would do you well. Even those who would cater to a married man will expect something from him. What do you have to offer?


I'm not getting used nearly enough even though I offer my sparkling intellect and an average body for a man my age.

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There are good dominant's out there and you tend to see the worst, always. You don't like the prudes who won't do you. You don't want the one's who expect something that a married man can't give and you don't want one who expects something real, like help with the bills and a complete relationship, vanilla and bdsm. Sounds like you are shit out of luck and constantly complaining. Get over yourself. Even your wife might like you better.


I'm sure there are lots of good dommes out there -- I just haven't seen them on CM.

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You have let us all know how much you dislike us here at CM. You repeat, bs, repeat, constantly. Why do you do that? Oh... you like messing with us because we won't do you and expect some standards for which you cannot provide. Then there is that aspect that you might like us humiliating and insulting you. Feel like a lil freebee today?


I told Vaguely that mathematical women turn me on -- and that she looks hot also. Did you see how angry she got? So, what am I supposed to say?

At least BoiJen didn't get insulted when I said she was a pussycat.

Just two examples -- but I don't dislike CM women. Actually if given the opportunity I would like to play with most of them!

quote:


You seem to wish to use a dominant since you have little to offer. So what makes you any better than the dominant's you complain about here in this thread and this time?


I'm not a hypocrite, that's why I'm better.

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RE: desperate dommes - 4/27/2010 4:41:49 PM   
LadyPact


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I tend to think that half of the time the reason you never find what you seek isn't especially because you happen to be married and cheating.  At least fifty percent of the time, I think it's because of the piss poor attitude. 

I don't know anything about desperation on this subject.  I know that any two (or more) people who are going to play together need  to have some kind of understanding between them.  I'm of the opinion that it shouldn't be the Dominant's position to extend all of the time, effort, equipment, and knowledge (otherwise known as the do-er or giver) and the bottom just reap the benefits (also know as the do-ee or the taker).  Somewhere in there, it needs to be beneficial to the Dominant rather than she be the one who gives everything, and gets nothing in return.  That can come in the form of devotion, loyalty, service, money, or any other thing that amounts to more than just someone who is always looking to take.

Would it really be that hard to be willing to do the dishes or some other small nice thing that vanilla folks have no issue doing for each other within a relationship?  Do you think vanilla husbands out there don't help to pay bills or do some of the chores every now and again?  Do you think wives stay happy in their marriage when the husband is constantly sulking and negative?

Maybe you do.

And maybe, that's why your wife isn't giving you any at home in the first place.


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RE: desperate dommes - 4/27/2010 4:43:45 PM   
VaguelyCurious


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ORIGINAL: azjojoba

I told Vaguely that mathematical women turn me on -- and that she looks hot also. Did you see how angry she got? So, what am I supposed to say?

You're supposed to behave with a modicum of decorum and grace-it was like being shouted at by a builder.

Actually, scratch that-the builders on the site near my house don't behave like that. Even builders have stopped saying shit like

quote:

when I see a gorgeous woman in a short skirt, and she shows intellect, my hormones take over.


You want to flirt with me? Laugh with me first. Be someone I'd like to have a conversation with. Be capable of talking without whining. Display some of the intellect you keep saying you've got. Be attractive in yourself-which right now you are *not*.

Plenty of the men and women here are and do, and they will always be welcome to talk sexy with me.

But all I've ever seen you do is moan, complain, insult other posters' looks and weight and just generally be unpleasant. So how did you expect me to react?

edited to add: also, I wasn't angry. Creeped out? Very. Uncomfortable? Very. I almost took that picture down as a result of the comment you made.

But you've never seen anger from me, and I doubt you ever will.


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RE: desperate dommes - 4/27/2010 4:49:24 PM   
GraciousLady


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Status: offline 		Again....... Can't we go one day without a do-me sub coming here wanting us to do it?

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RE: desperate dommes - 4/27/2010 4:51:33 PM   
Smutmonger


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Status: offline 		Nope,it's a catch 22. Best thing is to ignore them-since anything else is taken as an reward.

And yet, you self professed "Dominants" INSIST to feeding these trolls? How is that about being in control?

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RE: desperate dommes - 4/27/2010 4:53:53 PM   
VaguelyCurious


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Smutmonger

And yet, you self professed "Dominants" INSIST to feeding these trolls? How is that about being in control?
I'm not going to lie-I'm an insomniac, it's 1am and it beats staring at the ceiling...


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RE: desperate dommes - 4/27/2010 4:56:13 PM   
thishereboi


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ORIGINAL: azjojoba

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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

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ORIGINAL: azjojoba

Perhaps your search parameters aren't set up right. Go to the help page for tutorials.

My only search parameter at the moment is location (UK) and it doesn't sound like a particularly familiar theme to me, either...



Maybe British women aren't as desperate as Americans.



If american women are so desperate, then why are you still looking? I guess they are not that desperate, aye.


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