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Favorite CBT - 4/28/2010 4:39:50 PM

trueshadow

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I enjoy CBT a lot. I'm just wondering if Dommes enjoy it as well, what their favorite CBT is, if so, and any other comments they'd like to make about the wonderful practice.

And, is this common for the sub/slave to request this?

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RE: Favorite CBT - 4/28/2010 4:54:51 PM

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Can we not go one day without a do-me slave wanting us to do it!

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RE: Favorite CBT - 4/28/2010 5:02:45 PM

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Apparently not.

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RE: Favorite CBT - 4/28/2010 5:16:14 PM

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GL, MM - now, now. The OP hasn't given any indication that he's a 'do-me', has he?

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RE: Favorite CBT - 4/28/2010 5:39:10 PM

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Actually, trueshadow has proven to be a thoughtful poster who will bring things up in threads that I wish many other submissive types would. He has proven to me at least that he is far from the do-me type and can hold a great conversation on multiple topic's. In fact, he has my yahoo and not many people get that. lol Simply because I wish to talk to him about things, we don't always agree on, but still it's good conversation and nice to hear what he has to say about things.

I think this is the first time I have seen him post something like this.

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RE: Favorite CBT - 4/28/2010 10:11:08 PM

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Ditto that, Lockit. Trueshadow has never struck me as being of the do-me variety.

As far as my favourite CBT goes, for some unfathomable reason, I really like clothes pegs. There's something about snapping them on and off that I very much enjoy. I particularly like the latex-dipped ones you can buy.

Wax play is nice, and I also like using my whip on the thighs, getting very close to the testicles, making him wonder if I'm going to whip his dangly bits ("you betcha"). Erm, I think I need to go lie down now.

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RE: Favorite CBT - 4/29/2010 10:41:14 PM

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I like clothespins and whipping with little straps and such. And handjobs, combined with a parachute and weights.

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RE: Favorite CBT - 4/29/2010 11:42:52 PM

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I'm a fan of clothespins, but leave the latex out (burning rashes are no fun). And it's amazing how torturous it can be to just barely touch pretty much anywhere on the body - lighter than a feather with fingernails ... up, down, flicking and barely brushing across the skin ...

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RE: Favorite CBT - 4/30/2010 2:58:00 AM

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I also like the clothes pegs. I like to put them on and crop them off. I also enjoy the Violet Wand on his balls. Just a tap here and there, just to get him warmed up. I am also a fan of pinching his loose skin as hard as I can, and showing him what I am doing. It freaks him out a bit, to know that I am using that much presure and yet he feels very little. When I had good eyesight, I used to love to use tweezers..but I can't do that anymore. I also like to use rubber bands, string, and anything else that cuts off circulation for a bit. Not too much, but just enough that when it is taken off, he feels the blood rushing back..Hot wax on his balls is also wonderful. I love to hear him scream in pain..and then moan in pleasure. I get the biggest rush from that.

I also like to tease him with my mouth. Cock and ball torture can also include the pleasure as well, especially if he is teased unmercifully. Maybe a kiss and a slap..kiss and slap.. <s> Needless to say, I do what I want to do and I have fun doing it

OP, whatever the Domina wants to do..and it is within the range of what you have discussed prior, then all is good. To answer your question; Do Domina's enjoy CBT? THIS Domina enjoys the hell out of it

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RE: Favorite CBT - 4/30/2010 4:25:43 AM

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quote:

And it's amazing how torturous it can be to just barely touch pretty much anywhere on the body - lighter than a feather with fingernails ... up, down, flicking and barely brushing across the skin ...

Indeed.

I do what ever the moment inspires me to do. Slap, squeeze, flick, flog, pinch, prod... you name it!

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RE: Favorite CBT - 4/30/2010 6:23:47 AM

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I agree... Cognitive Behavioral Therapy is very powerful.

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RE: Favorite CBT - 4/30/2010 12:27:15 PM

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I agree... Cognitive Behavioral Therapy is very powerful.

So is Computer Based Training ;-)

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RE: Favorite CBT - 4/30/2010 8:25:08 PM

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

Actually, trueshadow has proven to be a thoughtful poster who will bring things up in threads that I wish many other submissive types would. He has proven to me at least that he is far from the do-me type and can hold a great conversation on multiple topic's. In fact, he has my yahoo and not many people get that. lol Simply because I wish to talk to him about things, we don't always agree on, but still it's good conversation and nice to hear what he has to say about things.

I think this is the first time I have seen him post something like this.

Thank you, Ms. Lockit!

I am not interested in 'do-me' stuff, whatever that is. I have been here for years, I have met a lot of nice people here, I am just interested in learning what it's like from the other side.

I know I like it; do Dommes like it? Or, perhaps, they often find it something that subs/slaves want, but it does nothing for them.

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RE: Favorite CBT - 4/30/2010 10:13:41 PM

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. . . [P]erhaps, they often find it something that subs/slaves want, but it does nothing for them.

Dominas don't, as a rule, do to subs things that do nothing for the domina.

I will, every now and again, engage in something I feel fairly neutral about that my sub really likes to make him happy as a reward for being exceptionally attentive, but it's unlikely I'd do something I didn't enjoy. So, you can be pretty sure that when we're doing that do-do we do do to you, we're doing it because we're having a good time.

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RE: Favorite CBT - 5/3/2010 6:36:45 AM

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Has any mistress tried to snap a rat trap on a poor unsuspecting subs cock? I have dreamed of this and would like to know what are the outcomes. I assume large bruising with possible skin breakage but nothing permanent. Is this true? Anyone with experience in receiving such a lovely punishment? Pick me pick me

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RE: Favorite CBT - 5/3/2010 8:52:28 AM

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I own a mouse trap or two

rat traps are a bit more severe and I don't want to permanently damage his jewels!

To the ops question... I enjoy doing CBT but I'm fairly specific in what I like. CBT bondage, piercing, sounds, weights and restriction. I made a cbt harness myself because I find a lot of the cbt custom made toys, either too fiddly or badly fitting. I also made a special weighted dish that hangs about 12 inches under the balls. You can either fill it with weights or put a lit candle in it and make him swing it like a pendulum so he doesn't get burnt.
Unlike some others here, I am not keen on pegs/pins because I don't think they make the cock and balls look good and they have to look good for me to enjoy it.

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RE: Favorite CBT - 5/3/2010 9:30:19 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lockit

Actually, trueshadow has proven to be a thoughtful poster who will bring things up in threads that I wish many other submissive types would. He has proven to me at least that he is far from the do-me type and can hold a great conversation on multiple topic's. In fact, he has my yahoo and not many people get that. lol Simply because I wish to talk to him about things, we don't always agree on, but still it's good conversation and nice to hear what he has to say about things.

I think this is the first time I have seen him post something like this.

Unfortunately, pretty much any time a man, especially a submissive man, asks specifics about BDSM, he will be labeled a do-me or wanker. A few billion bad apples have apparently spoiled the bunch.

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I also made a special weighted dish that hangs about 12 inches under the balls. You can either fill it with weights or put a lit candle in it and make him swing it like a pendulum so he doesn't get burnt.

That. Is. Awesome.

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RE: Favorite CBT - 5/3/2010 5:25:46 PM

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ORIGINAL: allthatjaz

I also made a special weighted dish that hangs about 12 inches under the balls. You can either fill it with weights or put a lit candle in it and make him swing it like a pendulum so he doesn't get burnt.

Love it.

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RE: Favorite CBT - 5/3/2010 6:34:20 PM

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ORIGINAL: allthatjaz
I also made a special weighted dish that hangs about 12 inches under the balls. You can either fill it with weights or put a lit candle in it and make him swing it like a pendulum so he doesn't get burnt.

Sweet Jesus.

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RE: Favorite CBT - 5/3/2010 7:25:18 PM

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ORIGINAL: allthatjaz

Unlike some others here, I am not keen on pegs/pins because I don't think they make the cock and balls look good and they have to look good for me to enjoy it.

To each their own - I think it looks ... maybe not pretty, but definitely interesting to have the clothespins on them.

I feel about the same way about most of the available chastity belts, though ... if I'm going to have to deal with something that limits my access to my property, then it had damn well better be attractive LOL

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