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psyco in Dom deguise. +1 - 4/29/2010 7:02:06 AM

littleecho

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i normally dont fuss or complain, but this person really concerned me.

i received this well though out and organised newsletter full of information for a newbie sub. danger signs, suggested websites.

i thought it was nice.

i replied with a thank you.

he continued to talk, commending me on my commitment to my marriage, blah blah.

asked a few questions i answered.

(this is over a few days)

next thing i know, he offers me funds to escape!

i turned him down, saying, i dont want to leave, nor do i accept money.

then asks my real location, wants a picture of me and todays date to prove i am not a man.

then threatens to have collarme assist in helping the authorities find me for i am in danger!!!!

can we say vigalante? yeah i probably spelt that wrong.

i suppose this is just a rant more than anything, but seriously, his type concerns me.

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RE: psyco in Dom deguise. +1 - 4/29/2010 7:20:07 AM

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it would concern me, too. always follow your gut instinct. good for you for not allowing yourself to be brainwashed. submissive does not equal dumb doormat.

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RE: psyco in Dom deguise. +1 - 4/29/2010 8:41:12 AM

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Actually, I find this to be a relatively new approach, and consider it to be dangerous. Usually they either take a bit more time to suck someone in, or just go straight for the jugular. I ran across one recently who did the slower approach, but as soon as I called him on a few things, went to a domineering attitude (LOL like that would even come Close to working with me!) where I would "be sorry" I didn't take him up on his "generous" offer.

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RE: psyco in Dom deguise. +1 - 4/29/2010 9:42:31 AM

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I have always been very open with who and what I am but I have found it disturbing that when I ask a woman who wants to meet in person to let me know where and when she would like to meet it gets her (how can I put this ) panties in a wad and she get totally defensive . I have always thought a sub can never be to careful when meeting a new Dom . To many times I have had to listen to a friend cry about how she was hurt or he did not know what "please stop your hurting me" meant . Brunch lunch or dinner where it is open and you feel safe . Don't like what you see walk away . I guess it is just me .

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RE: psyco in Dom deguise. +1 - 4/29/2010 10:03:45 AM

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You are your own victim, STFU and go get some therapy... you can't sell this bullshit to me.
If he really bothered you, you would stop talking to him now.
If he really bothered you, you would have stopped talking to him long ago.
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He may be nuts but why would he think you needed rescue if you didn't give him that idea? I read your profile and your journal. You are lonely, you like pity and seek it with a myriad of published complaints and proclamations of your sadness. You complain a lot. You want to be a victim. You want attention and you seek more than just sex, you want a relationship. You have that typical “white knight” fantasy and seek some Dom to scoop you up and away from the doldrums of your married life. You beg for rescue with your profile and journal, why would we believe you didn't beg for rescue in your communications with the supposed vigilante stalker?

You are married and secretly seeking to either trade up and out of your current marriage or conduct a secret love affair. What caliber of guy do you think that is going to attract? Seems to me you got what you are looking for and should go give your new found hero a blow job instead of posting yet another complaint about your sorry ass married and cheating lifestyle.
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I repeat... get therapy.

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RE: psyco in Dom deguise. +1 - 4/29/2010 11:36:15 AM

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resident,

i am by far a victim, but[as my One often reminded me] a willing participant in my mess.

didn't say i am still communicating with him.

this is not my first time here. on collarme. so perhaps i can see how my jounal/profile may seem odd. i am not looking for someone to leave my husband for. just looking for a sounding board on issues, thoughts etc. note my entry on non sexuality?

some vanillas think if a man raises his voice to his wife, it is abuse.

i really just wanted to vent perhaps, and this really wasn't “off topic” since it does affect every submissive who is searching.

perhaps you can shed light on his methods and expound more in a helpful manner regardless of your thoughts of me?

my urge was to protect and warn. unsure if posting his name is against terms.

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RE: psyco in Dom deguise. +1 - 4/29/2010 11:45:39 AM

littleecho

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silent,

i agree with safety whole heartedly.

again, i did stop talking to him, its just my concern of his deceptive method of offering help of leaving.. which i did not request, and his threat of using collarme to find me and help me if i did not cooperate.

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RE: psyco in Dom deguise. +1 - 4/29/2010 2:09:11 PM

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Forward his email to support. By involving the site, they will probably want to block him.

It's a new approach but you were hardly in danger. He doesn't know who you are or where and if the cops did come by the house, all you would need to tell them that this was a false claim and they ought to investigate who called in this because he is wasting public funds. In fact, I would demand they gave me his info so I could sue him for causing me to lose time and money in getting a lawyer to straighten this all out.

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RE: psyco in Dom deguise. +1 - 4/29/2010 3:22:07 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: littleecho

then threatens to have collarme assist in helping the authorities find me for i am in danger!!!!

Like we have nothing better to do.

Block, hide, delete, move on. See my profile if you need more specific instructions on how to manage your online interactions here on Collarme.

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RE: psyco in Dom deguise. +1 - 4/29/2010 3:31:05 PM

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RE: psyco in Dom deguise. +1 - 4/29/2010 3:40:09 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: littleecho

resident,

i am by far a victim, but[as my One often reminded me] a willing participant in my mess.

didn't say i am still communicating with him.

this is not my first time here. on collarme. so perhaps i can see how my jounal/profile may seem odd. i am not looking for someone to leave my husband for. just looking for a sounding board on issues, thoughts etc. note my entry on non sexuality?

some vanillas think if a man raises his voice to his wife, it is abuse.

i really just wanted to vent perhaps, and this really wasn't “off topic” since it does affect every submissive who is searching.

perhaps you can shed light on his methods and expound more in a helpful manner regardless of your thoughts of me?

my urge was to protect and warn. unsure if posting his name is against terms.

Just STFU and leave that poor man, the mods, the submissives on CollarMe you deem need saving and this thread alone. Don't bullshit me or the readers . . . you cannot “warn” anyone and neither could the thousands upon thousands of other threads like yours that touted these same “warnings” as a guise for their attention seeking bitch-fests. This thread is as stereotypical as you and your profile are – hit search – there are million whining-ass subs just like you with threads just like this. I am sure they all want to flap their jaws and wallow in mutual pity with you. Write to them and bring a lot of cheese because there will certainly be an abundance of whine.

I hope that helps "shed light" on this for you.

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