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MasterTslave -> lied to my Master... (5/1/2010 7:22:16 AM)

Master wanted me to post this as a part of my punishment for not being 100% truthful to Him the other day.  Master told me to write 300 times a line that He wanted to get thru my head.  I wrote the line about 100 times then put the other numbered pages thru the shredder and told Him that it was done(he figured it out).  i have not lied to Him before this about anything (we've been together for almost 3 years).  i had work, lots of things i had to get done around the house and family coming over and simply didn't have time to get the lines written in time, so i lied to make Him happy. 
i was punished for my lie, but still had to tell everyone about it. 
Has anyone else lied to make your Master happy?



jbcurious -> RE: lied to my Master... (5/1/2010 7:43:04 AM)

I don't think there's ever an excuse to lie in a relationship...Don't you think a better approach would have been to explain to your Master about your difficulties and ask for an extension on the time to complete your task?

The fact that you're saying you lied to please your Master sounds like you're still not accepting the responsibility for having handled the situation poorly and are trying to make excuses.



sunshinemiss -> RE: lied to my Master... (5/1/2010 7:51:34 AM)

You've been together for almost three years, and you don't know how to say that you need more time or some direction about what to do first? Generally speaking, when things start going downhill like this, it means something is seriously wrong and it is bleeding out in strange places. Maybe it's time to take a good hard look at your relationship.

good luck,
sunshine



lally2 -> RE: lied to my Master... (5/1/2010 8:01:18 AM)

not wanting to sound pious, because i really am not at all - but i cant lie to the man im supposed to be open and honest with.  it would mess with the balance.  if i were to lie and get away with it i would feel that i had taken back a level of the control i had handed to him.  id have broken the trust he has in me and the trist between us would be cheapened.

i have even tried, not to lie exactly, but to do things i shouldnt or have been asked not to do in an attempt to momentarily seize that feeling of 'i want to please myself on this so i shall'.  just small little things that in the end felt completely wrong.  so i had to fess up.  so i cant even lie to that degree either.

so actually i dont really understand how you might even feel that lying was an acceptable option and then wrapping it up as 'pleasing youre Master'.  not only did you lie to him but you manipulated him too - that would so mess with my head to be honest, id have to fess up long before he ever found out.  i also dont see the point of doing lines if youre not supposed to give them to him afterwards to read.  the times ive done lines theyve been inspected to make sure i didnt do them in columns, that they were clearly written as a sentance each time.  the sad thing is that he clearly did trust you and now probably he wont.

it would have been better for you to have kept the 100 lines, explained that you were rushed to get things ready for family and could you do the other 200 by a certain time. 




DarkSteven -> RE: lied to my Master... (5/1/2010 8:11:37 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MasterTslave

Master wanted me to post this as a part of my punishment for not being 100% truthful to Him the other day.  Master told me to write 300 times a line that He wanted to get thru my head.  I wrote the line about 100 times then put the other numbered pages thru the shredder and told Him that it was done(he figured it out).


1. You lied. 
2. You shredded pagesmthat contained the work you were to do, and thought he'd be too stupid to figure it out.

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i have not lied to Him before this about anything (we've been together for almost 3 years).


3. Based on the fact that you show no remorse whatsoever for your "first lie", I doubt that.
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i had work, lots of things i had to get done around the house and family coming over and simply didn't have time to get the lines written in time,


4. It was your responsibility to explain to him that you did not have time, and see what he said. 
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so i lied to make Him happy. 


5. No.  You lied to try to make him think that you had obeyed him.  You did not make him happy in the least. 
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i was punished for my lie, but still had to tell everyone about it. 

Has anyone else lied to make your Master happy?


6. You seem to feel no guilt.  Nor do you seem to think that there is any obligation to a Master other than making him think that things are fine.

And you have not yet grasped the fact that he is FAR from happy.



Phoenixpower -> RE: lied to my Master... (5/1/2010 8:14:02 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: lally2

not wanting to sound pious, because i really am not at all - but i cant lie to the man im supposed to be open and honest with.  it would mess with the balance.  if i were to lie and get away with it i would feel that i had taken back a level of the control i had handed to him.  id have broken the trust he has in me and the trist between us would be cheapened.

i have even tried, not to lie exactly, but to do things i shouldnt or have been asked not to do in an attempt to momentarily seize that feeling of 'i want to please myself on this so i shall'.  just small little things that in the end felt completely wrong.  so i had to fess up.  so i cant even lie to that degree either.


I feel the same...at least towards people who I do care about (so it includes my ex but excludes my parents for example).

with my ex I took ages to tell him when i got my new cat and hoped he would not realise that she did actually cost a lot of money...at some point i sneaked in that topic but gosh...of course he figured out that this one did cost a fair amount of money as a birman cat...

at present i have a notebook he does not know about as he kept screwing it up to give me mine back due to not being able to find time to meet now since a year and i needed one for uni work (hate sitting on desktop for ages) but I know once we meet now after his election stress to pick it up he might know about this one...if not yet then at a later stage to fix it as well...so I know that feeling...

to the OP:

however...to make master happy??? thats not what I would call your example....after all you made yourself happy to avoid doing all of it, where is the part of making him happy??? I don't quite get that yet...

in regards to my ex I did lie a little bit in the past eg where I did a bigger december present for him and he wanted me to stay in a certain financial budget each week...which was not possible with what i was preparing for him...on that occassion I renamed some expenses as I had to get away with a lil bit more during that time then I was supposed to and yes, he was happy what I had prepared for him even when it meant I had to twist a little bit the truth at that point...it made him happy as he simply received that as a thank you for a heck of a lot he did for me at that time...and he understood that I had to do it that way...and in that respect it made him happy as it was a special and unexpected gift for him...however, if I would have lied to him about something like yours just to get my way he would still tell me off, just because he is my ex does not mean that we do not care about each other anymore on the same level then before...



xxblushesxx -> RE: lied to my Master... (5/1/2010 8:35:05 AM)

What exactly is your master trying to accomplish by having you post this here? Further punishment? If so, looks like you got it. I personally think he should do his own though.
I've made mistakes before, and even lied. I have my own reasons for the things I've done, and that's all I'll say about that.



barelynangel -> RE: lied to my Master... (5/1/2010 8:47:01 AM)

While i don't get this posting to tell everything what you did thing.

To me, the fact that you felt your writing those lines were TO MAKE HIM HAPPY and you were only humoring him by doing so, and that you "lied to make him happy" that you were humoring him in doing as he asks, tells me you really don't get anything especially regarding the dynamic you two say you have and that i think you are lying about why you did it in order to manipulate him. I doubt it was about the time it took at all or you were worried about other things that needed to get done -- i think you simply didn't want to do it which is why you didn't say anything to him but instead you wanted to do what you wanted to do which was not finish the task -- so you found a way to get out of doing it and then when you got caught, it was i i i was only trying to make you happy Master -- snif. I think after 3 years (which i doubt this is the first time you felt this way and did things with the mindset you were humoring him instead of getting what he actually wanted) he doesn't see this in you -- he isn't paying attention very well or he simply doesn't care.


And if he thinks your posting this is teaching you a lesson -- i don't think that is true either its just another concept of "writing lines" where you are humoring him - because i really don't think your lying had anything to do with pleasing him but with doing what you want and pretending its all about him.

I lied occassionally to my Master, i tried to manipulate him other times, but i never passed it off as i was doing so to please him -- i was at least honest about why i did lie at the time when i got caught and i was honest to myself about WHY i was lying in the first place. I would say slaves lie occassionally to their Masters but when they do, i would say its because they want to do what they want to do. This isn't advocating lying -- but to me, if you can't be honest at least to yourself about why you are lying and continue lying when you get caught doing something wrong about why you did it -- how do you actually know when you are being honest? Ahh riddles.

angel



DesFIP -> RE: lied to my Master... (5/1/2010 9:20:27 AM)

Wouldn't it have been easier to say he misjudged the amount of time it took and that work and home takes precedence so you would get to this when you could. Perhaps 50 a day?

Alternately you could have let him come home to no dinner, no laundry, no cleaning, nothing except you still copying the lines and allowed him to learn for himself how much time this took.



barelynangel -> RE: lied to my Master... (5/1/2010 9:28:09 AM)

It would have been easier probably to just have done the task instead of trying to figure out ways to get out of it.



UniqueRaven -> RE: lied to my Master... (5/1/2010 9:37:25 AM)

i went and read your blog - it sounds like you've been challenged for quite some time now.  Is your dynamic all about your mistakes and punishment?  Is that working for you?  i'm curious, because what i read sounds like you're simply experiencing a sense of repeated failure, over and over, which doesn't provide any mental reinforcement towards wanting to please and improve in service towards your Master.

A slave is responsible for her actions.  If she cannot carry out a task as directed by her Master, she needs to respectfully (and honestly) tell him why.

However i see much more going on in your dynamic right now other than you simply lied about writing out lines.  That's a symptom.......

Good luck to you.  [:)]



domiguy -> RE: lied to my Master... (5/1/2010 9:46:05 AM)

Write out 300 hundred times,...MasterT is a douchebag.



leadership527 -> RE: lied to my Master... (5/1/2010 11:11:32 AM)

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ORIGINAL: UniqueRaven
i went and read your blog...i see much more going on in your dynamic right now other than you simply lied about writing out lines.  That's a symptom.......

Yup, that. WAY WAY that.



heartcream -> RE: lied to my Master... (5/1/2010 11:14:57 AM)

Ahh the silliness...



windchymes -> RE: lied to my Master... (5/1/2010 11:33:59 AM)

After three years with someone, you don't know him well enough to know that he'd figure it out as soon as you told him?  You seriously don't know him very well, and you probably seriously underestimate the intelligence level of most of the rest of the human race, too.  And it ain't all that high to begin with, anyway. 

Reminds me of the little kid who has powdered sugar all over his face and denies eating the donuts.

And while I'm at it.....WHY do these "Masters" subject the rest of us to their own sub's punishment????????  WE DON'T CARE! 



SimplyMichael -> RE: lied to my Master... (5/1/2010 12:56:47 PM)

If you have to punish someone because the punishment didn't work, then perhaps you might want to rethink punishment as way of changing behavior.



divi -> RE: lied to my Master... (5/1/2010 1:08:42 PM)

Yes I did lie to my Master once. I told him that his haircut looked good and well it didnt. Glad he loves baseball hats . . .



kallisto -> RE: lied to my Master... (5/1/2010 2:26:26 PM)

I wouldn't have lied to him. I would have done my level best to complete the task. If I couldn't, then I would have explained why. If he felt punishment was needed at that time because I didn't complete the task, then that's what would have happened.



DesFIP -> RE: lied to my Master... (5/1/2010 2:33:57 PM)

Having read some of the blog, I wouldn't be with him. Has no understanding of her schedule, demands she does nonsense like this for him instead of earning her money or taking care of her kids. Is frequently in a bad mood without explaining why and takes it out on her.

As far as I can tell, they should go in for couple therapy and learn how to communicate and show caring to each other.



eyesopened -> RE: lied to my Master... (5/1/2010 2:43:41 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MasterTslave
Has anyone else lied to make your Master happy?


This makes no sense to me whatsoever.  Lying would never be something that would make my Master happy.  In fact, lying is intolerable in our Relationship.

I tell the truth.  I do what I am told.   It is not up to me to decide my Master's emotions for Him.



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