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Have you ever slapped a male in a vanilla public situat... - 4/6/2006 9:53:58 AM

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If so, how did he respond? How was the experience for You?

One of my favorite memories is getting my face suddenly in a small lingerie store in Soho. My Mistress then dressed me down verbally, making me stand there, head bowed, for a few minutes while she hissed and bitched me out under her breath. Everyone in the new store knew what had happened.

I was mortified and trembling when it happened. For hours afterward I felt like I was floating, seperate from my body, my head in an empty but deeply submissive space.

Today it is one of my fondest memories.

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RE: Have you ever slapped a male in a vanilla public si... - 4/6/2006 10:23:49 AM

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Yum.

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RE: Have you ever slapped a male in a vanilla public si... - 4/6/2006 10:35:55 AM

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I've slapped Fox on campus walking him to his classes or mine before.

No reason and I certainly did not say another negative to him.

I did it because I wanted to.

Now because we still live in a very sexist society (in my opinion) I can get away with slapping a man. If he had slapped me I have no doubt that campus security would have been called and several nearby people would have made some comment or stepped up to him.

As it was, people just looked then looked away.

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RE: Have you ever slapped a male in a vanilla public si... - 4/6/2006 11:12:06 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: subapplicant

If so, how did he respond? How was the experience for You?

One of my favorite memories is getting my face suddenly in a small lingerie store in Soho. My Mistress then dressed me down verbally, making me stand there, head bowed, for a few minutes while she hissed and bitched me out under her breath. Everyone in the new store knew what had happened.

I was mortified and trembling when it happened. For hours afterward I felt like I was floating, seperate from my body, my head in an empty but deeply submissive space.

Today it is one of my fondest memories.

I do fantasize about something like that. I can imagine my eyes flaring red for a moment, then remembering myself and the dynamic I would quickly flush to complete and utter embarrassment. What a POWERFUL indication of place for both you and her. I can imagine floating in subspace for a long time after that.

I’ll admit, I’m jealous. But I'm genuinely happy for you. Lucky dog. J

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Dear Jasmyn: - 4/6/2006 11:39:16 AM

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double yum.

There is something incredibly powerful about a face slap. First, the physical sensation takes close to the brain - there is an almost immediate effect. Plus, it triggers the "fight or flight" reponse - but the submissive is torn. Fighting, or resisting, is out of the question. Fleeing is always possible, but for a submissive, the reality is that it is not. A Dominant Woman's presence pins you to the floor, and you are unable to move.

The body is overwhelmed by the fight/flight reponse chemicals - but can experience neither release. The chemicals flood the mind, overriding the "thinking" part of the brain. Instead there is a delicious feeling o shame, and...

an overwhelming desire to submit.

Thank You, Jasmyn.

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RE: Have you ever slapped a male in a vanilla public si... - 4/6/2006 11:54:09 AM

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Have you ever slapped a male in a public vanilla situation

Yes. Not because he was My slave or submissive, but because he deserved it. I consider that to be a most immediate and personal act of punishment for inappropriate behavior, and I have rarely done it. Which is why, on a personal level, I am not much into face slapping. I will use other ways to show My dominance (that you just might find as much or more heady!). So if a boy is heavily into this as a form of play, I am probably not the Lady for him.

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"heavily" into it... - 4/6/2006 12:00:10 PM

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I wouldn't say that i am "heavily" into it.

But it was a wonderful memory.

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RE: "heavily" into it... - 4/6/2006 12:03:56 PM

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RE: "heavily" into it... - 4/6/2006 12:12:26 PM

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I've been slapped a few times when "playing", alone behind closed doors.

I was slapped a second time in public, by my Mistress in a crowded bar. Immediately me get down on the ground and lick her boots. So incredibly delicious. It was a mixed fetish/vanilla situation...

But the one i described before was pure vanilla. That makes it the most memorable...

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RE: Have you ever slapped a male in a vanilla public si... - 4/6/2006 12:51:18 PM

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No and I never will.
I think it embarrassing for other people and undignified for myself.

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RE: Have you ever slapped a male in a vanilla public si... - 4/6/2006 1:06:30 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: TeeGO

I do fantasize about something like that. I can imagine my eyes flaring red for a moment, then remembering myself and the dynamic I would quickly flush to complete and utter embarrassment. What a POWERFUL indication of place for both you and her. I can imagine floating in subspace for a long time after that.

I have to say I love seeing that struggle and then yielding in a subs eyes and face slapping is one way I've seen it.

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RE: Have you ever slapped a male in a vanilla public si... - 4/6/2006 1:23:06 PM

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I like that idea of "struggle". That is a great description of what goes on. The submissive struggles with a swirl of emotion in a limited time-frame. The basic instinct to protect yourself, a heady rush of fear, delight at the dominant control, horror at the knowledge of being publicly humiliated.

All of this swirl occurs in an instant, and overwhelms the submissive's nervous system. The only real option is to - submit. To take it. But the experience of that overload lingers. It colors and deepens the experience.

It only takes a few seconds. And lasts for hours.

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RE: Have you ever slapped a male in a vanilla public si... - 4/6/2006 1:25:59 PM

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I have slapped during play scenes and yes its alot of fun, I have not done it in a vanilla setting as I figure someone will probably call the police and then I have to explain what the hell is going on. I'd rather just avoid that.
I have punched men in real life phyical confrontations and in fact have a scar on my right hand knuckle where a front tooth sunk into my hand, occupational hazard unfortnately.

~Lashra

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RE: Have you ever slapped a male in a vanilla public si... - 4/6/2006 1:37:21 PM

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I have a feeling that you may be wrong. If a man slaps a woman, I hope that the response if for an onlooker to step in and make sure she is safe.

But a woman slapping a man raises less of an issue. Plus, if anyone did step in, a good submissive could defuse the situation quicly and easily.

Perhaps there is a different response due to the genders involved. Or maybe I just see a woman slapping a man as normal, but not vice versa!

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RE: Have you ever slapped a male in a vanilla public si... - 4/6/2006 1:54:22 PM

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Yes I have, when I took one of my worshippers for a shopping (for a public humiliation session. )
It was absolutely fabulous, people were staring and we had that great chemistry between us, only we knew what was going on and it was an awesome session.

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RE: Have you ever slapped a male in a vanilla public si... - 4/6/2006 2:01:04 PM

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That sounds so wonderful, as my own experience can attest.

Plus - i adore knowing that i am the object of staring vanilla eyes. I don't think you are truly a slave until you are seen as one through a third party's eyes.

And - there is the added thrill that some interested guy - or strong Woman! - notices the interaction.

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RE: Have you ever slapped a male in a vanilla public si... - 4/6/2006 8:11:08 PM

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Oh yes, a few times. When I was a little younger, in undergrad and living in a very urban area, I would regularly do semi-public things... such as having a boy lick my boots in the parking lot of a large 24/7 store. It was pretty common for the local goth kids to do odd things like that, so it won't have been a big deal for someone if they saw it. It was quite something to the boy on his knees, though! No one was around to see, but the risk of it was there, I suppose. I still enjoy creating public situations for humiliation where the vanillas aren't exposed to fetish in any way they would recognize or dislike, but the boy is humiliated deeply. And yes, I still slap now and then.
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RE: Have you ever slapped a male in a vanilla public si... - 4/6/2006 8:25:32 PM

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Yes, I have slapped a man's face in public. In a restaurant, it was just what he needed to put him back into his submissive place. The look on his face was one of embarassment but at the same time he appeared to be ever so grateful. To see the effect that my slap had on him was amazing, powerful, and exciting for me. Mmmmmmmmmmm...yes, it was nice.

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RE: Have you ever slapped a male in a vanilla public si... - 4/6/2006 10:59:00 PM

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With submissives I have owned, I have only slapped them in private, at a scene event, or in front of people into the lifestyle.

The only other male I have ever slapped across the face was My boss in a retail carpet store where I worked on the weekends when I was 17 years old. He came up behind Me and give Me a hug while I was sitting down, telling Me I was like a "daughter" to him, then his hand "accidentally" brushed Me where it shouldn't. I think there were customers and employees in the store when this happened, but it was a large store, so I don't know if anyone heard it or not, and didn't care at the time. I slapped him across the face and told him not to EVER touch Me again, then walked outside to calm down for a while.

I came back in fully expecting to be fired, but instead he was smiling and said, "I love a woman with fire in her eyes." I wonder if that slap sent him off into something like sub space, since he didn't get angry with Me like I thought he would. After that, he left Me alone.

Shortly afterwards, the regional manager came by and asked Me if this man had bothered Me, as he had bothered the Woman who worked there during the week as well. I told him he had. Not too long after that, the regional manager fired him, though for a totally unrelated issue.

I was young and naive at the time and could certainly have handled the situaton better. Hauling off and slapping someone is highly unprofessional in a work enviroment and something I would NEVER do now. I did get quite a rush out of doing it, like an adrenaline surge, but remember shaking in My boots afterwards, positive I would be fired.

Today, I do very much enjoy consensual face-slapping, especially when a sub gets "cheeky" with Me. However, I don't do it in public vanilla situations. It is either in private or in front of people into the scene.

Lady Topaz

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RE: Have you ever slapped a male in a vanilla public si... - 4/7/2006 4:13:38 AM

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Do bar fights count? No...darn...

I'm not a face-slapper, I prefer a good smack upside the back of the head in public. I have also delivered swats to the backside and done that Mom thing where you grab someone's ear and drag them along while scolding them.

If it looks like horseplay, no one ever knows you are being kinky.

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