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Seeking submissive in Southern UK - 5/4/2010 4:05:48 AM   
Tavistock


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Not new to this place but new to this way of doing things. I am a mature male, experienced Dom just moved to the South of England with good access to Southampton/London and points west.. Very many years of delightful Dommish behaviour and a gentleman to boot.

My particular penchant is the introduction of the new and nervous into the world of D/s which has been so good to me. By personality and conduct I am of the mature school-master style, confident and competent and understanding fully that there is a real need for gentle introductions and for not pushing things. Given this genre, I am not seeking closeness; indeed, some distance and formality is an essential part of the relationship.

On your part, nervousness, anticipation and release are what you seek. Perhaps you are in a good vanilla relationship but lacking that extra thing that you crave. Perhaps you are not in a relationship and don't want one - but you do seek this.

I have been around a long time, relate to and dealt wih a number of play partners, each of which had different needs and ways of expressing them, so I understand this - and much more besides - and that includes the non-sexual nature of the contact on most occasions. I am proud to have assisted many submissives and plain masochists in my time. I don't think that a single one has departed with regrets. Incidentally I am not a 'gorilla-dom' None of the 'Kneel Bitch' approach and I understand that the appellation 'Sir' has to be earned and deserved, not demanded.

Also, no hideous tight black leather trousers or jackets either (on me, that is....I would look ridiculous). I don't do fancy stuff. Dinners and good D/s guaranteed. Here because I enjoy it, not looking for complications,involvement or LTR.

I would add, en passant, that I do frequently visit the Colonies and Plantations and indeed became quite well known in Seattle where I enjoyed many delightful relationships with ladies who liked the strict englishman genre. I expect to spend quite a lot of time in the NE corridor, Chicago and Indianapolis in the coming year though only on a monthly basis. However I am always delighted for a little cultural exchange.

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RE: Seeking submissive in Southern UK - 5/4/2010 4:46:29 AM   
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RE: Seeking submissive in Southern UK - 5/4/2010 5:25:49 AM   
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Thank you for that gracious and colourful greeting. I am much obliged.

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RE: Seeking submissive in Southern UK - 5/4/2010 5:51:43 AM   
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Welcome to CM. (can't find any colours!)

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RE: Seeking submissive in Southern UK - 5/4/2010 10:03:40 AM   
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Welcome. I believe I know you from another site. You are always the gentleman. Hope you meet lots of interesting people here.

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RE: Seeking submissive in Southern UK - 5/4/2010 10:18:32 AM   
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I try my best to be courteous and polite even when the submissive realises that the denouement is nigh and that a painful experience is to be expected. Very much in the tradition of the old fashioned English Schoolmaster who used the strict politeness and reserve almost in the most chilling and threatening way.

It is a combination which never fails to thrill, especially when combined with a high standard of dress, gravitas and even my decent aftershave.

Tavi.

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RE: Seeking submissive in Southern UK - 5/4/2010 4:20:30 PM   
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Dunno about southern UK, but I can authoritatively tell you that the unattached sub women sure aren't in Colorado...

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RE: Seeking submissive in Southern UK - 5/4/2010 4:25:19 PM   
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The submissives in Colorado all went in search of cookies.

Welcome to CM - hope you find what you are looking for.

Best,
sunshine

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RE: Seeking submissive in Southern UK - 5/4/2010 11:31:53 PM   
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Thank you for that valuable pointer. In truth, I have always found the UK to be quite a fruitful place and have never been wanting. I have also greatly enjoyed both New York and Seattle in my time. Seattle seems to be very promising, in fact.

I shall avoid Colorado: BTW where IS Colorado?

T

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RE: Seeking submissive in Southern UK - 5/4/2010 11:49:58 PM   
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Hiya Tavi! Welcome!!

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RE: Seeking submissive in Southern UK - 5/5/2010 12:41:28 AM   
Tavistock


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Thank you Greedy Top for the kind and hilarious greeting. Clearly there is a colourful group of people on this site who are not backward at coming forward, as it were.....

I read with fascination your profile and interests. Most eclectic.

T

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RE: Seeking submissive in Southern UK - 5/5/2010 4:58:19 AM   
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Hello Tavis,
Colorado is a beautiful state in the USA... absolutely stunning. Steven is known for stealing cookies. My comment was a *wink* his way. Ever hear the song Rocky Mountain High by John Denver....

You are right we are all goofballs - smart and interesting goofballs.

best,
sunshine

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RE: Seeking submissive in Southern UK - 5/5/2010 5:53:50 AM   
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I jest of course! John Denver has a place in my collection of CDs. The only singer to make a virtue of having enlarged adenoids. And I have actually landed at Denver occasionally when traversing the Northern United States. It seems to be half way between SFO and OHR and somebody stops there.

Perhaps I should also start to steal biscuits.

Tavistock

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RE: Seeking submissive in Southern UK - 5/5/2010 6:44:53 AM   
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Steven is very good at stealing biscuits/cookies and will probably take them from you but you can try. Keep that in mind if you wish to distract him at any point in the future.

Speaking of you being in the Denver airport, in my travels I've never been to the UK, but I did have a long layover in the Manchester airport. This layover happened to be the day after the London public transit bombings in 2005. I had a lovely day being quarantined in a tiny little area within the airport and being searched over and over...can't really blame anyone for being nervous though. Instead, I would have liked to shop for a soccer jersey for my son- oh well.

Welcome to CM, I hope to see you in the forums more often 

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RE: Seeking submissive in Southern UK - 5/5/2010 3:07:07 PM   
Tavistock


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I have read your profile M'am.....you EXHAUST me. For exercise, I smack bums....

Tavi

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RE: Seeking submissive in Southern UK - 5/5/2010 3:55:49 PM   
lizi


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Smacking bums could work for exercise! How about if a woman was on the treamill in front of you and you had to hit the moving target as it were...the possibilities are endless. You'd get a wonderful workout as well 

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RE: Seeking submissive in Southern UK - 5/5/2010 5:06:46 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: lizi

I had a lovely day being quarantined in a tiny little area within the airport and being searched over and over...can't really blame anyone for being nervous though.



I dunno about being nervous, I would have searched you over and over myself, but that's being opportunistic, not nervous. 


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RE: Seeking submissive in Southern UK - 5/5/2010 5:34:37 PM   
lizi


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Oh you gigantic tease...I swear. That would be been much more fun actually.

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RE: Seeking submissive in Southern UK - 5/6/2010 1:13:17 AM   
Tavistock


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As a practicing physician with a lot of cardiovascular involvement, I have excellent access to treadmills. I had merely not considered this particualr application...I shall think about it all day.


*empties an ice bucket over his head*

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RE: Seeking submissive in Southern UK - 5/6/2010 1:40:49 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

Hello Tavis,
best,
sunshine


/snipped and blah...
Trivia moment.... Tavis means Son of David in welsh.  More recently, in scottish it means Twin...

the.dark.
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