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bebebdsm -> strange feeling.. (5/4/2010 7:38:41 PM)
Hi there! Well, I'm complitely new to it. I've always enjoed of being phisycle abused and felt as a slave to some dominant men. Right now, I've found my Master (we got married, have a family) . I'm experiencing this strange feeling every time after the painful play: I just get stuck in my emotions, do not want to be touched , can't move, can't get out of the condition, it's like an emotional paralisys , that doesn't even let me make moves. Sometimes I hear some music at such moment. It lasts for about 20 minutes. My brain still works. All I think about it that I cann't and do not want to move or do anything, feel embarassing that I'm stuck in one position....Does anyone experienced it before? I like the feeling. It is like I got somewhere, from where I do not want to get out.

forsaken555 -> RE: strange feeling.. (5/4/2010 7:44:20 PM)
Painful play? Do you enjoy yourself in those play? I usually cuddle up with my master and feel quite peaceful even after a painful play, but I dunno, sometimes because I got my own ideas of what this is about and it's all my own definition, bdsm is associated with pleasure and stress relief for me, but I guess some are into this for endurance and real torture, I'm not sure, and if it's not enjoyable, might cause you to go into a zone as an after effect?

bebebdsm -> RE: strange feeling.. (5/4/2010 7:55:25 PM)
I enjoy of it. I always want more.. What is the zone? how people feel in it?

Kana -> RE: strange feeling.. (5/4/2010 8:19:33 PM)
Subspace I have played with girls with similar reactions post hard play. They just locked up and needed some space ex post facto.

DarkSteven -> RE: strange feeling.. (5/4/2010 10:22:50 PM)
Serious play can put you into a detached state called subspace. The subs I have known, all needed comforting and caring when they came out of it. I have heard of some who need space, and evidently you're one of those.

WyldHrt -> RE: strange feeling.. (5/4/2010 10:33:11 PM)
Welcome to subspace [:D] Hard play can lead to an endorphin rush, which everyone will process a bit differently. Your way seems to be needing 'alone' time, where you don't want/ have to move or do anything, and there's nothing wrong with that at all. ETA- Whoops! Forgot my manners there. Welcome to the boards! [:)]

jbcurious -> RE: strange feeling.. (5/4/2010 10:47:40 PM)
I have 2 forms of "detachment" the first, subspace, which I love and for me creates an extremely heightened level of physical sensation and total loss of control and extreme vulnerability... afterwards I'm quite emotional and need my "good girl" and being held. The other detachment is usually brought on by pain that isn't "working" in this case I detach mentaly to get through it and also detach from the person... In this case I don't want to be touched or spoken to and it pretty much ends whatever the relationship was.

subsfaith -> RE: strange feeling.. (5/5/2010 10:47:09 AM)
I sometimes have that reaction, I curl up into a ball, and just enjoy the moment... it can be quite peaceful. Other times I cry. Other times I get up with no effects at all. You just can't tell what it is going to be. I wouldn't worry about it... just accept that is what happens to you and make it your moment. Let's face it with a hubby and children, how often do you get to sit perfectly still and just drift with your mind.

FetishRose -> RE: strange feeling.. (5/5/2010 2:46:52 PM)
I'm a detacher, right after heavy play. I need to be left alone for a few moments to start moving again, and then I just usually stretch a little. It's an incredibly emotional few minutes for me. Fortunately, my Sir knows I need this, so he will wander downstairs to grab a drink, use the restroom, whatever he needs to do, then will come back in about 10 minutes when I'm more amenable to cuddles and kisses. And then...I usually go to sleep[:D] Welcome to the boards!

laurell3 -> RE: strange feeling.. (5/5/2010 2:49:56 PM)
I experience heavy subspace also. I can move, I just really really don't want to. Unlike you, I tend to have an overwhelming urge to touch and be touched, although if left alone I will just sleep or float. Don't worry, it's just biology, enjoy the high and let him know how you are feeling.

bebebdsm -> RE: strange feeling.. (5/5/2010 3:30:32 PM)
guys! I really appreciate every one's response. So, I'm kinda normal. :-)It's ok to feel some kinda isalation ,like in another world, a happy world,..that I cannot get out of..for about 20 minutes. I liked that FetishRose's Sir just leaves her alone for a while, till she goesback to the real world. I always feel kind of ambarassed that I cannot move and just really "curled up into a ball". My brain works fine. I can analyze everything. But my feelings, emotional, muscles ...just can not work :-) Thanks everyone for sharing your experience with me ;-)

DesFIP -> RE: strange feeling.. (5/5/2010 3:38:27 PM)
Definitely subspace and if you start to feel really down a day or two later, that's sub drop (the evil twin). I'm the other way around, I don't want to move, but I want to be cuddled, have him give me some water and pull the blanket up because it's too far to reach the bottom of the bed. And then I want an hour's sleep.

bebebdsm -> RE: strange feeling.. (5/5/2010 6:14:54 PM)
well, now I know that this is how it works. Yes, he was saying that it's a subspace. But I just wanted to hear others' oppinion. :-) Thank you very much

DMFParadox -> RE: strange feeling.. (5/11/2010 2:04:16 AM)
Yes, there are wildly different reactions. Most of my girls generally got very, very horny afterwards. And quiet together time wasn't uncommon. It was also common for them to want to earn things. Asking me what would make me happy, doing chores, cleaning - I'm trying to speak only of situations where I didn't specifically ask them to do these things, so that may have been a desire to do something nice or a desire to be alone, or a mix of the two.

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