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fastlane -> I was wondering? (4/6/2006 5:12:04 PM)
What is the main attraction of BDSM...? For me it is the fact I'm kinky, what about you all?

TemptingNviceSub -> RE: I was wondering? (4/6/2006 8:32:04 PM)
OMG..your kinky?..ach! say it isnt soo...[:o].... And in all seriousness,ummmmmmmm....ummmm....I guess the main attraction to me is....(drum roll)...the bondage discipline sado-masochism part!...Tempting

Tikkiee -> RE: I was wondering? (4/6/2006 8:37:20 PM)
For me and me alone; I like pain. I like being beaten, whiped, flogged, caned. Nothing else, that's the whole attraction for me.

SimplyV -> RE: I was wondering? (4/6/2006 8:42:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: fastlane What is the main attraction of BDSM...? For me it is the fact I'm kinky, what about you all? Kinky? hmm.. say it isn't so.. What I like most.. is well.. 1. Power 2. Everything else kinky (well that I'm into) [:D]

amayos -> RE: I was wondering? (4/6/2006 8:46:07 PM)
Power, pleasure, primality and animalism. Beyond the cuffs, latex, fur and feathers, such structure is a gateway to merging with the atlantean portions of a more visceral and hardwired human psyche. It's magnificently mammalian and reptilian at once. At least, that's how I feel it to be.

BitaTruble -> RE: I was wondering? (4/6/2006 8:57:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: fastlane What is the main attraction of BDSM...? Power, pain.. being consumed by the maw of the beast, bleeding, screaming, visceral interaction that allows freedom and flight, sweat and tears, laughter and fun. That and the green stamps. :) Celeste

Arpig -> RE: I was wondering? (4/6/2006 8:58:03 PM)
like everest...it is

Vendaval -> RE: I was wondering? (4/6/2006 8:58:50 PM)
For Me, it is shedding all the layers of concealing clothing and social shrouds. Going down deep into the subconscious, touching the inner core, the primal fire, the animal self. Pure, raw power worked into movement and structure, sexual tension and release, mind journeys and spirit flight. I am playing by the rules of free association tonight. Roar, -Vendaval-

NeedToUseYou -> RE: I was wondering? (4/6/2006 9:15:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: fastlane What is the main attraction of BDSM...? For me it is the fact I'm kinky, what about you all? Well, I thought about this a bit. And 100 percent was attracted to the no-nonsense kink. But really, that can be any relationship, it's just more present in BDSM than others. What keeps me interested is the, in concept idea of breaking both parties down into the raw components of who they are. At least in the BDSM community I can say Dom looking for Sub LTR. People know what that means in general terms. I've tried to force unknowingly Dom/Sub style relationships in vanilla world(Didn't know that was what it was called), but it doesn't work at least I never got it to. I guess I'm attracted because this is the obvious place to find a counterpart who feels the same way about a relationship dynamic and has already come to terms with it and their chosen or born role(whichever view you take) in a relationship. Kink to me is a small part really, as far as importance goes. I can't think of anything that doesn't do it for me to some degree besides like shit eating, animals(extreme by BDSM standards even). Do, I want kink, yes, but it doesn't appear as much so as others do. But ultimately to me it's really about finding someone who gets what I am, and I get what she is, and being comfortable and content with it, and world be damned. Stripped bare people(mental and physical) being people the way they want to be, not the way it's "supposed" to be. Ah, what can I say I'm a romantic[:D] Now where's that whip.

scratchingpost -> RE: I was wondering? (4/6/2006 9:44:18 PM)
the power, the pleasure, the pain, the release of the emotions, the feelings, the intensity, the care, the trust, the bonding, the kink....all of it and so much more...

EvilGeoff -> RE: I was wondering? (4/6/2006 9:48:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: fastlane What is the main attraction of BDSM...? For me it is the fact I'm kinky, what about you all? That I am no longer alone. In the BDSM community I have a family that I am bonded to (and care for) far more strongly than to any of my blood relatives, with the possible exception of my children. YIK, - Geoff

Sub03 -> RE: I was wondering? (4/6/2006 10:04:38 PM)
The loss of control....being controlled by a strong Dom. The bond between Master and slave. Knowing i am pleasing my Master. The whips, floggers and bondage......and sooooooo much more.

Lordandmaster -> RE: I was wondering? (4/6/2006 10:06:40 PM)
I can't honestly say that it has an ATTRACTION for me. I was born for it, pure and simple.

GoddessDustyGold -> RE: I was wondering? (4/6/2006 10:18:59 PM)
The power and authority that is happily in a D/s or M/s relationship, that allows Me to be Me.

slavejali -> RE: I was wondering? (4/6/2006 10:24:28 PM)
Took awhile before I could repond to this post as I had to think about it. Is it the Surrender aspects? (D/s M/s) Not entirely. Ive been surrendered to Masters that had nothing to do with bdsm. Ive surrendered to the ocean while watching it, Ive surrendered myself to a sunset, a flower and the smell of freshly baked bread. I can surrender anytime to anything. There is something however, something subtle and lovely about surrendering within an intimate M/s relationship to me. Its conscious, its powerful, its "interactive".....it makes me smile inside. Is it the play aspects? Hell yes, how fun! [:)]

ownedgirlie -> RE: I was wondering? (4/7/2006 12:07:30 AM)
The intoxicating draw to his power. The need to feed his pleasure. Absolute surrender and exposed vulnerability. Being consumed by another being. The journey into self. Blisfful joy. Our spiritual connection, at levels never before experienced.

ExistentialSteel -> RE: I was wondering? (4/7/2006 2:42:39 AM)
The very real power and control that I have over someone that I’m attracted to. To have her so helpless that she will do anything I want. To have her so helpless that I can beat and use her at my will. The enslavement is as true as any in history has ever been.

Jasmyn -> RE: I was wondering? (4/7/2006 2:57:02 AM)
Control.

treazure -> RE: I was wondering? (4/7/2006 3:53:31 AM)
It allows me to be me. Simple I know!! treazure

Cloudz -> RE: I was wondering? (4/7/2006 4:17:32 AM)
TPE...without question.

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