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i think this question would probably be better answered on the Gorean board because i for one do not know anything about Gorean training. However i could see why the Master who is training you would disapprove of this relationship. you are training under Him and by you talking to another Dominant that is an outside influence, which means that your attentiveness is being divided, elsewhere. As with any Dominant who may be training you whether it's a Gorean Master or not it is important that you follow the lead of One, the One to whom you belong or that is training you. More than likely you will have to make a decision to choose one or the other. Good luck to you!

peace and respect,
ns

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Does girl have a name.. or can say I, or me? Or you carrying a mouse in your pocket that makes you talk about yourself in a 3rd party manner?

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ORIGINAL: slavejali

Thats my understanding too. If your training in Gorean you shouldnt be talking to outside influences, at least for a period of agreed time.

Master and I arent Gorean, but I have spoken to Goreon orientated people and they have been more than willing to share about their lifestyle etc with me. That shouldnt be a problem for you either, unless you are specifically being trained in Gorean at this time, which from your post, you arent.

As far as someone saying you are silly for not continuing your Gorean Training, people say stuff, thats life.

So, your looking for a Master....what kind? Gorean or?

If its Gorean, you gotta be prepared to possibly give up communications with your normal, everyday, run of the mill old type Master. I know that fact and I have never been trained Gorean, so it should be something you already know too.

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what would you do in this type of situation? why or why not? how can girl continue with her training and yet still speak with this Dom who is not Gorean?

any help girl can get would be appreciated.

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It sounds like you are asking ... how can I have my cake and eat it, too. If I'm incorrect in how I've read the post, please forgive me. If, however, that is what you are asking, I would ask what your motivations are for wanting to speak to this dominant? Is he a back-up in case you can't find a Gorean Master? Are you willing to forego continued Gorean training to be with him? Are you going to have to settle because Gorean is in your heart? Do you just want to be friends and have someone with whom you can communicate? Your motivations are going to be the key to your answers and it sounds to me like you have some questions to ask yourself and some decisions to make. No one can do that for you.

Good luck,

Celeste

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ORIGINAL: cariad
.....guess she was just confused and looking for that "kick in the arse," so to speak.

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Thank You for Your post and yes girl does have questions she must ask herself and she Thanks You again for pointing that out to her.....guess she was just confused and looking for that "kick in the arse," so to speak.

Thank You Celeste