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Fun and genourous sub ;) wanting a mistress - 5/9/2010 11:09:40 AM

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Hello everyone my name is Robert but feel free to call me any variation of the name.I'm really funny and easy to get along with.I'm about 5'9,weigh about 130,skinny,and I'm mixed.I'm a virgin and have never been in a relationship before.I'm looking for a mistress because I have always thought about being with a dominant older woman.I would love catering and cuddling with her making her feel special.I love hanging out,talking, watching movies,cooking,cleaning,drawing,playing video games, learning,and trying new thing..I hope you find me to your liking and it's nice to meet all of you ;).

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RE: Fun and genourous sub ;) wanting a master - 5/9/2010 11:28:00 AM

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May I gently suggest you do some further research. What you're looking for is a Mistress as a Master is male. And make the type a bit bigger, it's kind of hard to read.

You're just out of high school, take your time, get to some munches in your area. The reality of life is in contrast to online. Check out the forums and threads, get some idea of who and what you're looking for. Don't rush into things. Be careful as there are many predators, 'net and real, who will gladly take advantage. Don't let your first encounter be your last. Look out for yourself.

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RE: Fun and genourous sub ;) wanting a master - 5/9/2010 11:36:19 AM

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O; I edited it and I have done lots of research already, but how do I find out where munches take place?

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RE: Fun and genourous sub ;) wanting a master - 5/9/2010 11:43:57 AM

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May I gently suggest you do some further research. What you're looking for is a Mistress as a Master is male.

While I agree that it would be a good idea for clarify of communication to emphasize that the OP is seeking a female dominant, Master is not automatically a male gendered word. One can be the master of a craft or a skill, or of a slave, without it being particularly relevant to gender. It would sound kind of silly to refer, for instance to a Tae Kwon Do Mistress.

In the highly sexualized world of BDSM it is the social norm to emphasize gender, so many women will prefer to self-identify as Mistress. But some won't, and it is not an automatic default assumption by any means.

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RE: Fun and genourous sub ;) wanting a master - 5/9/2010 11:46:15 AM

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ORIGINAL: blueeyedbbwsub
May I gently suggest you do some further research. What you're looking for is a Mistress as a Master is male.

While I agree that it would be a good idea for clarify of communication to emphasize that the OP is seeking a female dominant, Master is not automatically a male gendered word. One can be the master of a craft or a skill, or of a slave, without it being particularly relevant to gender. It would sound kind of silly to refer, for instance to a Tae Kwon Do Mistress.

In the highly sexualized world of BDSM it is the social norm to emphasize gender, so many women will prefer to self-identify as Mistress. But some won't, and it is not an automatic default assumption by any means.

Agreed. One of the people I respect most in this lifestyle is a dominant woman who identifies with the title of Master.

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RE: Fun and genourous sub ;) wanting a master - 5/9/2010 11:46:23 AM

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ORIGINAL: XDsubXD

O; I edited it and I have done lots of research already, but how do I find out where munches take place?

In your neck of the woods, google Eulenspiegel Society or TES for their contact information. Also google "New York BDSM Munch" or some similar search string; it should be very productive.

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RE: Fun and genourous sub ;) wanting a master - 5/9/2010 12:12:22 PM

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My bad on the Master/Mistress. But I still hold to everything else. Innocence shouldn't be a preclude to self-destruction.

ETA: Research is all well and good, but it's just that research. It can be a big bad world out there for someone who's done the reading but hasn't got a clue on how to protect him/herself from predators.

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RE: Fun and genourous sub ;) wanting a mistress - 5/10/2010 4:05:53 AM

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Welcome, you've made a good start with the generous bit, now if you can just present a photograph of yourself with a table full of money, those Nigerians will come running!

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RE: Fun and genourous sub ;) wanting a mistress - 5/10/2010 4:11:32 AM

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