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SusanofO -> RE: Maybe I am a Whore! (4/7/2006 5:18:05 AM)
Well I really want to say thank you to all of you kind people for the support. Just reading the responses on this thread was so uplifting to me (my, there are a lot of smart, sweet people here. Glad I rejoined)! Yes, I think maybe I just needed to get all that out of my system and maybe the person who wrote me saying I am a Whore provided the impetus for that. Thanks for wading through my post and really listening. I don't really think you may really know what a big, positive difference it made to my day. I will try to reciprocate. Thanks again. - Susan

Moloch -> RE: Maybe I am a Whore! (4/7/2006 5:34:58 AM)
The author of that letter needs to be covered in tar set on fire sodomized with a plunger and drowned in vat of pig shit.

SirPrize -> RE: Maybe I am a Whore! (4/7/2006 5:50:41 AM)
Whover invented the old "sticks and stones..." cliche was obviously stone deaf. Words can and do hurt, and some people are professional hurters. They have an instinctive ability to find a weak spot, even with people they have never met, and stick a dagger in. I too have gotten posts like the one you received. Sometimes a word, sometimes longer. They always take you by surprise, for that is the only way a coward ever attacks. They knock the breath out of you. Then you get angry. Often you have no way to strike back, and that makes you even more angry. You wonder, as you have, how any human being can stop what they are doing to attack a total stranger for no purpose other than to cause pain. And in the end, it comes down to... some people just suck. Nothing you could ever say or do to them would be half as horrible as their life already is. Our lives are finite. Each day has only enough time to accomplish some of what you wish you could do. Evewry minute you spend on something ugly, leaves you one less minute to spend on something positive. The person who sent you the e-,mail has only what power over you that you let him have. It's impossible not to have that first initial kicked in the gut reaction when it happens. We are only human. But it's not impossible to just let it go and forget about it. The greatest revenge you can achieve against such people is to ignore them.

Tikkiee -> RE: Maybe I am a Whore! (4/7/2006 5:56:07 AM)
Some people find no joy in life unless they are putting others down. I guess it is the only way that they can feel superior over others. I would look at his attack as nothing more than that of an insecure person who is looking to validate his/her own existance. Be happy that you are above such things. Best wishes to you.

TNstepsout -> RE: Maybe I am a Whore! (4/7/2006 6:00:07 AM)
Interesting. It seems to me he could probably care less if you are a "whore" and simply wanted to push your buttons to get a reaction from you. Some people seem to think that makes them a "Dom". We're all able to more clearly see other peoples hang ups and issues than our own, but some people think it makes them special and thus gives them the right to use what they see to induce a reaction. Obviously, based on your intense reaction, somewhere inside he struck a nerve. He recognized this would be a tender area for you, but as someone who doesn't know you or have your best interests at heart it wasn't his place to push you in this way. It was arrogant and obtrusive and flat out wrong. He's an ass. Imagine that. A guy on the internet who's an ass. Who ever heard of such a thing? By the way, my condolences and stay strong. TN

coossa -> RE: Maybe I am a Whore! (4/7/2006 6:21:16 AM)
Dear Susan, I read your original message and the wonderful support you received with great interest. Who knows what set off that vicious letter you received. Your story must have prompted some negative event in their own story. Most unfortunate. What we all need to remember is that God tells us only our own story, and no one knows that story but ourselves and God. No one else can understand our story the way we do, and no one else has the right to direct that story but ourselves. Also, we need to remember that we are characters in each others stories. I, and all the others who have written to you, have become chararacters in your story, just as you have become a character in ours by our reading your message, and responding to it. And realizing this, we ought to remember to conduct ourselves in other's stories as we would have them conduct themselves in our story. The author of that letter forgot that fact, if he ever knew it. You have a wonderful profile, our interests are so similar. I wish you were not so far away. All the best, Dear. Coosa ...

unownedredhead -> RE: Maybe I am a Whore! (4/7/2006 6:26:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lashra Some people are just assholes and yes one is born everyday. Best thing to do is tell them to fuck off and go on with your life as you see fit. People all die, we grieve and then pick up the pieces and move on with our lives. For some people thats a long time, for some much shorter it just depends upon the individual. The difference between a whore and a slut is a whore gets paid for what he/she does, a slut does it because he/she enjoys it, or at least thats my thoughts on it. Try drinking some herbal tea, sitting in a quiet room and meditate for awhile. It works wonders and clears the mind of the daily trash we encounter. Good luck, ~Lashra And if that does not work? I found jumping up and down screaming and dancing to the loudest most painfillied music you can find helps. dont hold back scream and stomp and yell. fuck the world and go for scream therapy. wear your best runners and crank it. I will know when your emotions rage because I will feel it when I feel the breeze and the birds fly off the trees way over here....I will jump and scream with you........don't hold back let it out. dina

scratchingpost -> RE: Maybe I am a Whore! (4/7/2006 6:36:52 AM)
I'm sorry for your loss. I feel there is no reason why when you lose someone especially someone that you loved dearly you should stop your life...Would they desire you to do that? not if they cared for you. They would wish that you live and move forward, at least that is what I would desire for my loved ones. No one can judge how long you should mourn a relationship. No one is in your emotional place but you and only you can judge that for yourself. I wish you love, peace and happiness.

MsSophie -> RE: Maybe I am a Whore! (4/7/2006 6:42:45 AM)
Dearest Susan, Like so many others I would enjoy inflicting some serious pain to the person who wrote those words to you, but that wouldn't ease the pain you feel over hearing them. You are not a whore, and you are not a bad person for looking for a mate. Your husband is dead, and however sad this may be, it is not a good reason for you to live the rest of your life in celibacy. Also I wanted to say, don't give up on having a child to love. It may be too late to have one of your own, but is it too late to adopt? At least over here they will let you adopt alone, even if you are over 40 - but they may request that you take on an older child. There are so many children out there who need someone to love them, and mainly just the babies who find a new home. Even those older, rejected poor souls need love... Sophie

slaveladyj -> RE: Maybe I am a Whore! (4/7/2006 6:51:09 AM)
First, forget that idiot that sent that cruel email. He's the one with problems not you. After reading your post, I felt two things, a sadness that anyone would have to go through a marriage like that. (and maybe you aren't to old to be a foster parent), and secondly, that the woman who did survive the marriage, sickness and death, is one hell of a strong, caring woman. You have nothing to be ashamed of, or to feel guilty about. In fact, those that encourage you to remained married when you were clearly so unhappy are the ones that should feel shame and guilt. You are one hell of a woman!

plantlady64 -> RE: Maybe I am a Whore! (4/7/2006 7:50:50 AM)
Hello SusanofO, I say why do you care what he thought anyway. You are the one who has to decide if your actions are honorable or not, not some outsider looking in. Trust your own judgement and live your life the way it's comfortable for you. If that's not comfortable to people who are not part of your life just agree you disagree with them and move on. No one can control how you feel about yourself unless you let them. Me personally I'm a cum, play, and cock slut & proud to say it. I'm not a whore as I make no money from my intimacy, but if people want to call me one so f**cking what. Words only hold the power you allow them to. It sounds like you deserve to go do who and what you please. Start living your life for you and not what you think others want to see and you'll find more peace and strength inside yourself than you knew you had. Suzanne

michaelGA -> RE: Maybe I am a Whore! (4/7/2006 8:23:27 AM)
firstly, my condolences on your loss. i know how hard it is to lose someone close to you. quote: WHORE - How dare you be here so soon after your man died! What kind of girl are you? how long should one morn before moving on? where is it written that a person has to be cooped up after a loss? i say...take a month off after a death...maybe less...then move on...would the one you love want you drowning in constant sorrow after they are gone? telll this dipshit to fuck off, keep happy thoughts about the good times with the one you lost...and move on. it's people like this that really fuck up a day with little brains or hearts with nothing better to do than seek out others who have suffered a loss. it's ok to be here, if that's what you want. you're among friends here.

Evanesce -> RE: Maybe I am a Whore! (4/7/2006 8:42:52 AM)
It's curious that everyone is assuming the moron who wrote that vile piece of filth to Susan was a man. It could easily have been a woman. Susan didn't say, but males don't have the monopoly on bad behavior. At any rate... Susan, you're a good woman. You made a commitment to a man and, even when things weren't right for you, you stayed and tried to make it work. It speaks volumes as to your personal honor and integrity. Don't let the brainless sputterings of one person have such power over you. You've got every right to be here, and it is they who have no honor. Hugs to you...

Prunesquallor -> RE: Maybe I am a Whore! (4/7/2006 9:18:21 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: michaelGA how long should one morn before moving on? where is it written that a person has to be cooped up after a loss? i say...take a month off after a death...maybe less...then move on... It depends on the preceding relationship. In my case it took four years to become rational again and about another ten years after that to lose my emotional vulnerability.

ScotchMaster -> RE: Maybe I am a Whore! (4/7/2006 9:35:29 AM)
oops

Arpig -> RE: Maybe I am a Whore! (4/7/2006 9:39:26 AM)
he is an ass you are not need i say more? I am sorry for your loss and hope you continue to heal

Submotive -> RE: Maybe I am a Whore! (4/7/2006 9:41:12 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SusanofO Well I really want to say thank you to all of you kind people for the support. Just reading the responses on this thread was so uplifting to me (my, there are a lot of smart, sweet people here. Glad I rejoined)! Yes, I think maybe I just needed to get all that out of my system and maybe the person who wrote me saying I am a Whore provided the impetus for that. Thanks for wading through my post and really listening. I don't really think you may really know what a big, positive difference it made to my day. I will try to reciprocate. Thanks again. - Susan It's amazing how the slime of the earth has a knack for sniffing out when someone is down. Don't underestimate yourself. Your post alone says so much about your sensitivity and beauty. Hey - i like being a whore for my Master - a whore? What's wrong with that? Now a creep, an insensitive jerk - there's something to be concerned about.

Submotive -> RE: Maybe I am a Whore! (4/7/2006 9:42:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ScotchMaster oops Sorry Sir - didn't know i was still logged in under Your name.

BitaTruble -> RE: Maybe I am a Whore! (4/7/2006 10:26:39 AM)
quote: It's curious that everyone is assuming the moron who wrote that vile piece of filth to Susan was a man. It could easily have been a woman. Susan didn't say, but males don't have the monopoly on bad behavior. She referred to him as 'this guy on block' and 'he didn't write back,' but you're absolutely right, women can be just as if not more cruel than men. Celeste

Evanesce -> RE: Maybe I am a Whore! (4/7/2006 10:32:37 AM)
quote: She referred to him as 'this guy on block' and 'he didn't write back,' True, but the leap to "it must be a guy" was made by a couple people before she made those references. No biggie... I just thought it was interesting. Doesn't change the fact that Susan didn't deserve it.

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