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Why my pro-domme wants me shaved? - 5/12/2010 6:56:06 AM   
nicemike


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Status: offline 		I see a pro-domme, regually for the past 4 months. Last session she said she wanted my entire groin area shaved, when next we meet. I will of course do as she told me. I always keep my groin area trimmed, balls and cock are shaved for my sessions.

Is there a reason she is asking me to do this? She said it was to see how well I followed instruction, but that seems a shallow answer from a very smart woman. Is there sybolism here? Is this a prelude to something else?

Please share your thoughts.
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RE: Why my pro-domme wants me shaved? - 5/12/2010 7:05:34 AM   
domiguy


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Status: offline 		Dude, you have got the dollars. If you don't like the answer threaten to cut her off until she comes up with something better.



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RE: Why my pro-domme wants me shaved? - 5/12/2010 7:06:09 AM   
gentlemanprince


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Status: offline 		Instead of having us speculate, why don't you just ask her?

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RE: Why my pro-domme wants me shaved? - 5/12/2010 7:10:08 AM   
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Instead of having us speculate, why don't you just ask her?



agreed. she can tell you better than any of us can.

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RE: Why my pro-domme wants me shaved? - 5/12/2010 7:13:30 AM   
nicemike


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Status: offline 		i did ask her. she said to see if i follow instruction. i think she has another motive

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RE: Why my pro-domme wants me shaved? - 5/12/2010 7:19:58 AM   
ReginaMirus


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Instead of having us speculate, why don't you just ask her?


Yeah, well now I guess a simple, common sense answer to such a question would spoil all the fun of having to bait us along and make us guess as to what his next torment's going to be.

I'm with domiguy on this one. Dude, it's your cash, and YOU are the paying customer. If she won't answer your questions, fire her sorry ass and find someone else that will.

Or perhaps that throws a big ole wet dishrag on your thwapping fantasies...

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RE: Why my pro-domme wants me shaved? - 5/12/2010 7:24:01 AM   
GreedyTop


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i did ask her. she said to see if i follow instruction. i think she has another motive


you are paying her. if you dont want to shave, dont.  if you think she has another motive, but you still want to pay her, do it and dont worry about her 'motive'.

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RE: Why my pro-domme wants me shaved? - 5/12/2010 7:41:03 AM   
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i did ask her. she said to see if i follow instruction. i think she has another motive


I doubt it. She's probably just throwing in new stuff so that you keeping back and keep spending money. Don't look too much into a business relationship.

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RE: Why my pro-domme wants me shaved? - 5/12/2010 7:55:51 AM   
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She said it was to see how well I followed instruction, but that seems a shallow answer from a very smart woman.


I don't see how giving you instruction to do something which you don't particularly want to do simply to see how obedient you are is shallow.

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RE: Why my pro-domme wants me shaved? - 5/12/2010 10:04:56 AM   
stef


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i did ask her. she said to see if i follow instruction. i think she has another motive

And you expect complete strangers to know what her motivations and desires are?  You asked, she answered.  If you don't like it, spend your dollars elsewhere.

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RE: Why my pro-domme wants me shaved? - 5/12/2010 10:20:15 AM   
MsAlisedeSade


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Status: offline 		There are forms of play that go alot better for you if you are shaved. It grows back. So unless you have a significant other it will raise alarm bells with I wouldn't worry about it. You may just have some hot wax in your future.

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RE: Why my pro-domme wants me shaved? - 5/12/2010 10:21:03 AM   
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ORIGINAL: nicemike
Please share your thoughts.

Sharing is caring.

My opinion: Your Mistress loathes bushweasels.

Good Day.

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RE: Why my pro-domme wants me shaved? - 5/12/2010 10:25:38 AM   
nicemike


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Status: offline 		thanks all. i'll know soon enough

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RE: Why my pro-domme wants me shaved? - 5/12/2010 10:36:22 AM   
LadyHibiscus


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ORIGINAL: pyroaquatic

quote:

ORIGINAL: nicemike
Please share your thoughts.

Sharing is caring.

My opinion: Your Mistress loathes bushweasels.

Good Day.

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Pyro, you are as a god!

Having to wack the weeds to get to the dangly bits is both annoying and disgusting! That you did not think to shave in the first place is baffling!! Though, using clothespins as hair removal devices has its own built-in entertainment value.

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RE: Why my pro-domme wants me shaved? - 5/12/2010 11:12:13 AM   
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RE: Why my pro-domme wants me shaved? - 5/12/2010 11:13:16 AM   
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Status: offline 		so she can easily determine without getting too close if you got crabs crawling around on ya, I imagine. 

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RE: Why my pro-domme wants me shaved? - 5/12/2010 11:54:33 AM   
Baldbalzs


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Status: offline 		what is the big seal just shaving a little hair around little, or big we all wish, things. just enjoy . if you are paying seems she is giving you your moneys worth

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RE: Why my pro-domme wants me shaved? - 5/12/2010 11:55:08 AM   
pyroaquatic


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Status: offline 		Meh, not so much a god.

I have to wax my bushweasel. If I am not in a relationship I simply trim. Braiding is Not an option. ClothesPins or Ductape? Pluck them out one by one with tweezers or wax. Ah.. a game of choices. ;)

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RE: Why my pro-domme wants me shaved? - 5/12/2010 11:58:12 AM   
detroitsearcher


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Status: offline 		to clear the canvas and to get you into a more submissive mindset.
it makes CBT so much easier and it marks you as a submissive.

ok, why no one wants to be called a prostitute: the connotation. first off its been condemned really hardcore in the bible, though they are more talking about people who slept with animals or each other for performance at rites. but in the US and most other places, it is the most generic catch all version of sex work, but really its street stuff. drunk tank jail type junk. nobody on here is in the realm of street stuff. unless you actually know what crack being smoked smells like. socialization kicks in and largely people come off as prohibition Protestant fools when talking about these subjects.

all these people who are saying "well you are the one paying for it"
the irony is that you are paying to not be in control.
um, if you paid to go to a boot camp experience, would your drill instructor have to give you breaks because you paid for it?
if you paid for a prison experience, are they supposed to have your favorite food to serve you?
if you paid for Lady Lydia of Seattle's Homeless Slave experience, should the other homeless people you spend time on the street with treat you better because you PAID to be homeless and destitute?



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RE: Why my pro-domme wants me shaved? - 5/12/2010 12:31:48 PM   
GraciousLady


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ORIGINAL: nicemike

i did ask her. she said to see if i follow instruction. i think she has another motive


She is doing what you pay her to do. Her motive is none of your concern. Shave. If your unhappy with your paid employee you can get another but I say shave.

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