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how to kiss the shoes of mistress by greeting her? - 4/7/2006 5:48:40 PM

ben2

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i´m new at that lifestlye, so till now i didn´t have the pleasure to visit a party, where i meet other mistresses. therefore i wonder how i have to kiss her shoes by getting a order of my mistress. shall i lick them clean or shall i give them a only kiss? and further, may i graze her skin by kissing her shoes or is this too personally to alien mistress?
please, mistresses, give me a hint, so i won´t disappoint my mistress, when it happens.

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RE: how to kiss the shoes of mistress by greeting her? - 4/7/2006 5:58:18 PM

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If you meet a mistress at a party who wants you to kiss her feet, she'll tell you what to do. The chances of that aren't actually very likely, but you never know.

Just don't go kissing anybody's feet without being specifically directed to do so. Most parties have no-touching rules unless you are invited to do so.

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i´m new at that lifestlye, so till now i didn´t have the pleasure to visit a party, where i meet other mistresses. therefore i wonder how i have to kiss her shoes by getting a order of my mistress. shall i lick them clean or shall i give them a only kiss? and further, may i graze her skin by kissing her shoes or is this too personally to alien mistress?
please, mistresses, give me a hint, so i won´t disappoint my mistress, when it happens.

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RE: how to kiss the shoes of mistress by greeting her? - 4/7/2006 8:45:38 PM

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I always preferred My submissive to ask permission to kiss My feet, and he did so after very intense (physical and/or emotional) activity. To Me that meant more than just demanding that he kiss My feet at hello. When he asked permission... I knew he was in a special place.

However, I would have smacked him down if he had tried to 'lick them clean'.... a soft respectable kiss on each foot or shoe (usually open-toed) filled with adoration and emotion is the best way to kiss My feet.

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RE: how to kiss the shoes of mistress by greeting her? - 4/8/2006 5:28:58 AM

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I'm with the other ladies here... someone drops down & starts messing with my feet without getting a go-ahead from me will most likely end up with me kicking them square in the face.

Uninvited personal contact is a big no-no regardless as to whether you do so on your own or if a dominant you are in attendance with directs you to do so. I was at a party one time where a girl was directed to kiss the feet of all dominants in the room. I caught on to what was taking place before she came to me so the poor girl didn't get kicked but I looked to her 'master' & told him that if she touched me without he obtaining my permission it would be he that I would have on the floor licking my heel.

To each his own but I don't have to play with others just so they can fulfill their kink. I have just as much right to consent as any submissive.

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RE: how to kiss the shoes of mistress by greeting her? - 4/8/2006 5:50:42 AM

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I have never understood the boot worship thing. Foot worship, sure, it's all about the sensation there, as well as the power exchange of course. But the boot? It seems it would dull the sensation a great deal, but admittedly I don't know. And of course if that is what Ma'am wanted I'd be a willing convert, undertsanding it or not.

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RE: how to kiss the shoes of mistress by greeting her? - 4/8/2006 10:43:38 AM

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I'll add that the below is true even if your own mistress or top tells you kiss other people's feet. Unless she owns them, she has no power or authority over them. She should ask first.

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ORIGINAL: LadyMorgynn

If you meet a mistress at a party who wants you to kiss her feet, she'll tell you what to do. The chances of that aren't actually very likely, but you never know.

Just don't go kissing anybody's feet without being specifically directed to do so. Most parties have no-touching rules unless you are invited to do so.

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ORIGINAL: ben2

i´m new at that lifestlye, so till now i didn´t have the pleasure to visit a party, where i meet other mistresses. therefore i wonder how i have to kiss her shoes by getting a order of my mistress. shall i lick them clean or shall i give them a only kiss? and further, may i graze her skin by kissing her shoes or is this too personally to alien mistress?
please, mistresses, give me a hint, so i won´t disappoint my mistress, when it happens.

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RE: how to kiss the shoes of mistress by greeting her? - 4/8/2006 10:48:13 AM

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If you will indulge me and let me share a story about kissing or worshipping boots/shoes at pubic events.

I took a female friend of mine to a club (in NYC, I think it was The Vault), she went as my submissive because it was her first time there and she was most comfortable in that role.

We were looking around the place we decided to sit down. A man approached us, knelt down and asked if he could worship my shoes. I politely said "no thank you" and then he asked me "May I worship hers?". Now his grammar was good and he clear understood the dynamics of her being in my collar and yet when I saw the discomfort on her face I repeated my reply.

For many women, even having their shoes touched by strangers is uncomfortable.

When you ask, do not be surprised to hear far more "no" than "yes".

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RE: how to kiss the shoes of mistress by greeting her? - 4/9/2006 10:13:15 AM

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thank you very much. i asked so, because i´ve heard of a rule, which tells this: by meeting an alien mistress there are three types of greeting. first, if the mistress reachs her hand out horizontally, the slave has to bow down and kiss her hand. secondly, if the mistress reachs out her hand towards the bottom, the slave has to kneel down and kiss her hand. and lastly, if the mistress places her shoe in front of the slave, he has to kneel down and kiss the shoes of this mistress. i wonder, if you know these rules and further what you think about them?

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RE: how to kiss the shoes of mistress by greeting her? - 4/9/2006 10:53:36 AM

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thank you very much. i asked so, because i´ve heard of a rule...

ben2, Each Domme makes her own rulebook. You have to ask each one. There are no shortcuts.

And TeeGO, my submissive is a bootbitch. I can't tell you how much I enjoy how hard he works to give me the massaging pressure from his tongue through the leather. Yummy...

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RE: how to kiss the shoes of mistress by greeting her? - 4/9/2006 12:24:49 PM

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ORIGINAL: Misstoyou

And TeeGO, my submissive is a bootbitch. I can't tell you how much I enjoy how hard he works to give me the massaging pressure from his tongue through the leather. Yummy...

That's really all the understanding needed.

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RE: how to kiss the shoes of mistress by greeting her? - 4/9/2006 1:54:51 PM

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OK the fact that you have read/ heard the "rule" is somwhat impressive the fact that you are taking the time to check out the rule with other people before employing it shows some intelligence.

You specified that your mistress may have you do this, in that case if the Mistress orders it you can assume that she knows that it will be OK. Any Faux Pas will be hers not yours. Now as to accomplishing the task at hand you are asked to "Kiss" the shoe/ boot not worship it so anything more than a chaste kiss, generally on the toe of the shoe,(make sure it is not one her skin if open toed shoes) and hold the possition head down until you get some recognition that you are released to return to your mistresses side or told to continue on the shoe would be exceeding your permission/ order.

Now this of course is my own protocol and not by any means universal. So your best bet is the same thing you do any time you are unsure as to the intent of your mistress, ASK HER in the time and manner you have been given to ask for clarification of intent.

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RE: how to kiss the shoes of mistress by greeting her? - 4/9/2006 2:15:48 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ben2

thank you very much. i asked so, because i´ve heard of a rule, which tells this: by meeting an alien mistress there are three types of greeting. first, if the mistress reachs her hand out horizontally, the slave has to bow down and kiss her hand. secondly, if the mistress reachs out her hand towards the bottom, the slave has to kneel down and kiss her hand. and lastly, if the mistress places her shoe in front of the slave, he has to kneel down and kiss the shoes of this mistress. i wonder, if you know these rules and further what you think about them?

The only way these could be rules would be if they applied to a particular organization or a venue -- like the house rules at a play party or a public dungeon or a private dungeon.

In that case, if you are told the rules ahead of time and you want attend events at said place or held by said group, you are basically agreeing to abide by their rules.

Frankly these are not the sort of rules that would make me comfortable.

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