yourMissTress
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Joined: 6/14/2005 From: Nashville, TN Status: offline
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From my experience they typically offer me a nice mortgage bill(my name is not on the deed), car payments (her name her car), insurance bills(both), utility bills(both), all the housework, child care(theirs), finally a little kink with here a spank there a spank once in a while or the other extreme of bdsm obsession that is so caustraphobic, limiting and depressing that i could puke. It's too bad that this is your experience. But I have to wonder, how many times did this happen to you? If it was one time, can't you understand that that woman doesn't represent all women? If it happened more than once, what is it that you are doing to attract such women? and why do you get into relationships with women that want to treat you in such a way? I am far from the perfect anything. I am human, woman, mother, girlfriend, lover, Domina, sister, employee, student and much more, and still learning how to be better at all of them. I know what I want, I know what I need, and I know what I require in a sub. When I find one that I believe suits me I ask these questions of them. If we still seem to fit, I do my best to ensure that their needs are being met on a daily basis, their wants on a reward system, and their fantasies when it suits my whim. I respect my subs and I let them know it in the way that I talk to them, treat them, and care for them. The chemistry has to be there first, affection grows quickly, and love, when it blossoms, is the perfect icing on the cake.
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Tress "If you have to tell people that you are a lady, you are not." My Grandmother
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