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ADVICE ABOUT MY NEWLY BEDROOM SUB GF - 5/16/2010 3:16:39 PM

BondageDomUK4529

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Hello all,
I have been wth my girlfriend for a few years now but recently have noticed see enjoyed a little dominating in the bedroom eg: nipple clamps, blindfolds, dildos, spanking, hand cuff's.
We are going away very soon for one night to a hotel and i thought it would be very kinky if i included a few simple, not to hardcore rules she could follow and obey to while in hotel room/and out for the day.
like i said she is new but not to new i almost wanna test her.
many thanks
james

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RE: ADVICE ABOUT MY NEWLY BEDROOM SUB GF - 5/16/2010 3:42:29 PM

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I'm not sure what the point of your post is but have fun!

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RE: ADVICE ABOUT MY NEWLY BEDROOM SUB GF - 5/16/2010 3:44:44 PM

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Are you looking for suggestions of "hardcore" rules? That term is HIGHLY varied here and really, you should ask her. I'm not sure "hardcore" (or at least what I perceive that word to mean which is quite different than many) really fits with first encounter and "bedroom sub".

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RE: ADVICE ABOUT MY NEWLY BEDROOM SUB GF - 5/16/2010 3:48:04 PM

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Profile not found. It's just pointless babble anyway.

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RE: ADVICE ABOUT MY NEWLY BEDROOM SUB GF - 5/16/2010 3:50:34 PM

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Anyone can hide their profile now though, I'm not sure that means much.

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RE: ADVICE ABOUT MY NEWLY BEDROOM SUB GF - 5/16/2010 4:55:28 PM

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I think you ought to be talking to her about this.
No idea what your point is.

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RE: ADVICE ABOUT MY NEWLY BEDROOM SUB GF - 5/16/2010 5:04:44 PM

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ORIGINAL: BondageDomUK4529

Hello all,
I have been wth my girlfriend for a few years now but recently have noticed see enjoyed a little dominating in the bedroom eg: nipple clamps, blindfolds, dildos, spanking, hand cuff's.
We are going away very soon for one night to a hotel and i thought it would be very kinky if i included a few simple, not to hardcore rules she could follow and obey to while in hotel room/and out for the day.
like i said she is new but not to new i almost wanna test her.
many thanks
james

You could order for her while out to eat.
You could have her get the icy cold beverages from the c-store fountains during the trip.
You could have her keep her hand on your arm while you are walking places.
You could have her wait to get into the car until you open her car door.

Hope that helps.

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RE: ADVICE ABOUT MY NEWLY BEDROOM SUB GF - 5/16/2010 5:10:11 PM

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I once was ordered to act like a puppy dog for a certain number of hours in the hotel room many years ago...I couldn't talk but could make puppy noises, etc. (woof! wimper!, etc)..You could have her fetch, wag her tail, beg, etc....I remember fetching Rollo candies, dried apricots and something else I forget about now..this was many years ago..anyway, she can't break the whole puppy persona for the time prescribed...I hope that helps!

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RE: ADVICE ABOUT MY NEWLY BEDROOM SUB GF - 5/17/2010 4:28:43 AM

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Testing her without discussing it with her beforehand could have bad results. Ask her if she's interested in this. Otherwise you could give her some order that isn't usual in your relationship and have her tell you that you must have lost your marbles.

Moreover, testing means there's a chance of failing. If she isn't interested in that, but is the kind who is only interested in a win/win situation, doing this could be emotionally distressing.

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RE: ADVICE ABOUT MY NEWLY BEDROOM SUB GF - 5/20/2010 6:41:53 AM

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From what little you've said it's hard to know if she wants you to step up the control.

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RE: ADVICE ABOUT MY NEWLY BEDROOM SUB GF - 5/20/2010 9:50:04 AM

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I'm with DesFIP on this one. If she is a bedroom sub, would you really want to give her more restrictive orders? She may balk at anything heavier than what you described. Perhaps rather than ordering her, you could suggest what you would like her to do (IE I'd really like it if you wore this particular outfit for this activity/outing) and see how she responds. I would be careful not to push her too far too fast.

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RE: ADVICE ABOUT MY NEWLY BEDROOM SUB GF - 5/20/2010 3:28:17 PM

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Why is communication the last thing people do? You want to know what she's interested in exploring, talk to her.
Guessing by bringing out the whips and chain saws is never a good idea.

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