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lusciouslips19 -> RE: Singing the Dungeon Blues (5/17/2010 5:34:12 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy Why would you think that a bunch of people who gather based solely upon their interest in bdsm and kink would lead to something positive? I can't imagine any thing else transpiring other than the outcome that you have experienced. Yes, you are so right. I mean, much more positive things happen when people gather to drink beer, or go to a club to pretend to dance when the are looking to get laid.

lusciouslips19 -> RE: Singing the Dungeon Blues (5/17/2010 5:37:02 AM)
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OrpheusAgonistes -> RE: Singing the Dungeon Blues (5/17/2010 5:42:14 AM)
quote: I would have felt sorry for the OP if she didnt sound so judgemental and arrogant... I'd have written the OP off as another "OMG LOOK AT ME!@" post (which, I mean, to be honest, I do myself) except that 1) she used "surreptitiously" correctly, which is points in her favor, and 2) the last line, the one about the dude talking trash about the OP's own best friend, was actually kind of primitively poignant, in a Gossip Girl kind of way. So at worst, I'd label the post as an attempt to come off as a unique snowflake of unique uniqueness while just kind of kvetching about the way life presents itself to so many people, in so many (non-kink) contexts. Throw in a line about how she can't program the clock on her VCR and she could have gone on Carson circa 1985 with the material.

crazyml -> RE: Singing the Dungeon Blues (5/17/2010 5:44:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: laineyjade >>Why would you think that a bunch of people who gather based solely upon their interest in bdsm and kink would lead to something positive? Your assumption that I think that is highly illogical. Logic is the One True Way. Now you may ask me why I am such a stupid, spoiled whore. Are you a stupid spoiled whore? And if so, why?

domiguy -> RE: Singing the Dungeon Blues (5/17/2010 7:38:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy I can't imagine any thing else transpiring other than the outcome that you have experienced. I can vouch that some clubs aren't like that at all-it takes sensitive and aware management, good monitors, the right venue and a thousand other things but if you can't imagine a positive BDSM club then the issue is with your imagination, not the reality of the situation. Not at all. I baffles me that people place such a huge amount of importance on something that for many tends that to be a rather private thing. It never surprises me the lack of discretion shown out here. Since it is something that has an incredible amount of sexual energy tied to it. There is no way to avoid the creepy fucks that crawl out from under rocks to participate in this thang or to catch a gander at a gash. For the lost and disenfranchised this is the perfect way to meet other losers that are equally as lost and disenfranchised. It is the perfect storm for douchebag deliberations. Where else can Goreans, SCA'ers, D&D'ers, kinksters all gather and meet? People think that because we share an interest in bdsm that we are going to hit it off? Do they think that because we share some mutual interests in a fairly private matter that they are worthy of my time? Fuck no....Fuck off!!!

Aileen1968 -> RE: Singing the Dungeon Blues (5/17/2010 7:42:11 AM)
We go to public venues just because we want to see crazy dysfunction. It's fun!

lizi -> RE: Singing the Dungeon Blues (5/17/2010 7:54:21 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen1968 We go to public venues just because we want to see crazy dysfunction. It's fun! I remember your account of the place you visited where the communal butt plugs were in the bathroom and Tgirl or CD or something wanted to wrestle your partner. I laughed at that for days... I thought the OP was fairly amusing.

domiguy -> RE: Singing the Dungeon Blues (5/17/2010 7:56:03 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen1968 We go to public venues just because we want to see crazy dysfunction. It's fun! I agree. I love people watching. It's fun.

sirsholly -> RE: Singing the Dungeon Blues (5/17/2010 8:01:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: laineyjade (Stuff that has actually happened to me at various munches, dungeons, and fetish events) Note that all of the below do NOT come with an ignore button when you're in a real-life dungeon! Stupid malicious gossip and drama, politics, cliques, and high-school behaviors Subs being hostile to me because of my looks/age/style of serving/whatever Doms hitting on me inappropriately, especially married-and-cheating doms Blaring music being played preventing conversation Having to listen politely to lectures on opinions I have strong feelings against Watching couples who don't get along being mean and disrespectful to each other Winding up being some sub's shoulder to cry on when her mean and disrespectful dom pushes her buttons, and her having no further use for me when she's finished weeping and spilling her sob story to me Being questioned about my kinks by people who have no clue and no real reason to question me, who are almost exclusively male Seeing male subs surreptitiously masturbating through their nylon g-string while their balls hang out the side Meeting people who appear to be mentally or emotionally unbalanced rather than into BDSM Doms with strict definitions of TRUE submissiveness praising me for being a TRUE submissive whilst making wild assumptions about my character, feelings and training Doms with strict definitions of TRUE submissiveness telling me if my master were a TRUE master he'd be training me differently Doms lecturing me about what they would change about me if I belonged to them Doms thinking it's okay to order me to put shoes on because I might cut my pretty little feet on broken glass if I am barefoot, when half the male subs are walking around barefoot Getting stuck listening to someone endlessly drone on about her surgery/fibromyalgia/bipolar disorder Feeling weird and getting judged for being a slave and having no limits or choices Watching bratty subs getting praised for exercising their limits and choices loudly and obnoxiously Being asked "What sort of control?" if I am dumb enough to say that I am into being controlled The creepy feeling of all eyes being on me if I serve my master in the rather formal way he requires Having to literally wedge my way in between the 15 single men sitting at the bar in order to get my master an ice water and having them leer at me while I order The filthy public bathroom because there is no janitor on staff Seeing people near-naked who have physical deformities that probably should have remained covered up (in one case a near-naked male sub with an exposed colostomy bag--yeah, I wanted to see that) ....and my favorite one of all: Doms who try to flatter me by telling me I'm so much thinner and prettier than that fat ugly sub over there--and the sub over there is my best friend and lover. (Stuff that has actually happened to me at various jobs in the workforce) Note that all of the below do NOT come with an ignore button when you're in a real life working situation!! Stupid malicious gossip and drama, politics, cliques, and high-school behaviors Coworkers being hostile to me because of my looks/age/style of working/whatever Coworkers hitting on me inappropriately, especially married-and-cheating coworkers Conversations preventing listening to elevator musik Having to listen politely to lectures on opinions I have strong feelings against Watching coworkers who don't get along being mean and disrespectful to each other Winding up being some coworkers shoulder to cry on when her mean and disrespectful boss pushes her buttons, and her having no further use for me when she's finished weeping and spilling her sob story to me Being questioned about my job by people who have no clue and no real reason to question me, who are almost exclusively male Seeing male/female patients surreptitiously masturbating through their nylon g-string while their balls hang out the side (ok...not really) Meeting people who appear to be mentally or emotionally unbalanced rather than into the medical field Management with strict definitions of TRUE dedication praising me for being a good employee whilst making wild assumptions about my character, feelings and training Management with strict definitions of TRUE dedication telling me if my boss were a TRUE boss he'd be training me differently Management lecturing me about what they would change about me if I worked for them Getting stuck listening to someone endlessly drone on about her surgery/fibromyalgia/bipolar disorder Feeling weird and getting judged for being a employee and having no limits or choices Watching bratty coworkers getting praised for exercising their limits and choices loudly and obnoxiously Being asked "What sort of ideas?" if I am dumb enough to say that I have a few ideas The creepy feeling of all eyes being on me if I talk to my boss in the rather formal way he requires Having to literally wedge my way in between the 15 single men sitting at the bar in order to get myself a gin and tonic and having them leer at me while I order The filthy public bathroom because there is no janitor on staff [sm=applause.gif][sm=applause.gif][sm=applause.gif]Seeing people near-naked who have physical deformities that they survived and I admire for wearing their scars with pride!!![sm=applause.gif][sm=applause.gif][sm=applause.gif] ....and my favorite one of all: Whiney bitches who will not shut the fuck up and who need to take "SUCK IT UP, BUTTERCUP" to heart.

VaguelyCurious -> RE: Singing the Dungeon Blues (5/17/2010 8:12:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy Since it is something that has an incredible amount of sexual energy tied to it. There is no way to avoid the creepy fucks that crawl out from under rocks to participate in this thang or to catch a gander at a gash. That's why you need sensitive management-they keep tabs on people and address any inappropriate behaviour. quote: For the lost and disenfranchised this is the perfect way to meet other losers that are equally as lost and disenfranchised. It is the perfect storm for douchebag deliberations. Yeah, but people move around pretty fast-if you get stuck talking to someone then that's an issue with your inability to extract yourself, not a feature of the place. quote: People think that because we share an interest in bdsm that we are going to hit it off? No. There is no expectation that you will hit it off with everybody-but as a cross section of humanity there will be someone with a sense of humour as nastily dirty as yours :P quote: Do they think that because we share some mutual interests in a fairly private matter that they are worthy of my time? No-they think that they are worthy of the time of those who want to express those interests in public, or those who want to discuss them in person or whatever. You aren't one of those people. That's fine, but it has nothing to do with the friendly and positive atmosphere you get at good events, which is what we're talking about here. Not everything is about you, Mr Dead Jesus Rapper Necro Man :P

leadership527 -> RE: Singing the Dungeon Blues (5/17/2010 8:25:16 AM)
quote: Whiney bitches who will not shut the fuck up and who need to take "SUCK IT UP, BUTTERCUP" to heart. chuckles You know, I went and looked at the OP's profile thinking I was going to find an 18 year old there. Imagine my stunned surprise to see 33 years of age. Yeah yeah, I know the age police are gonna get on me for saying that but oh well. All I can say is I am deeply and truly glad that such negativity coupled with arrogance is far, far away from me. And astonishingly enough, she thinks it is OK to spew in public... more than OK... funny.

IronBear -> RE: Singing the Dungeon Blues (5/17/2010 8:30:46 AM)
Nothing like a good chunder to spread the happiness. OP you rock girl! Saw the humour and can relate it more to the daily goings on I see in my neck of the woods than and dungeon or munch I've visited.

SimplyMichael -> RE: Singing the Dungeon Blues (5/17/2010 9:37:55 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SailingBum Im still attempting ot figure out if she is a drama whore or a attention whore..... Lemme get back to you on that. BadOne Wow, we agree, how rare is that? On fetlife, her and her partner have an agenda trying to convince people the only way to meet "real" bdsm people is in chatrooms and they post a lot of "one true way" tripe. This post clearly fits that. Is there crap in the scene? Hell yes. Can you find pockets of sane people? Oh hell yeah!

SailingBum -> RE: Singing the Dungeon Blues (5/17/2010 9:42:51 AM)
Stranger things have happened tho I can't remember when. Enjoi the day BadOne

Phoenix73Sir -> RE: Singing the Dungeon Blues (5/17/2010 9:52:11 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: laineyjade (Stuff that has actually happened to me at various munches, dungeons, and fetish events) Note that all of the below do NOT come with an ignore button when you're in a real-life dungeon! Stupid malicious gossip and drama, politics, cliques, and high-school behaviors Subs being hostile to me because of my looks/age/style of serving/whatever Doms hitting on me inappropriately, especially married-and-cheating doms Blaring music being played preventing conversation Having to listen politely to lectures on opinions I have strong feelings against Watching couples who don't get along being mean and disrespectful to each other Winding up being some sub's shoulder to cry on when her mean and disrespectful dom pushes her buttons, and her having no further use for me when she's finished weeping and spilling her sob story to me Being questioned about my kinks by people who have no clue and no real reason to question me, who are almost exclusively male Seeing male subs surreptitiously masturbating through their nylon g-string while their balls hang out the side Meeting people who appear to be mentally or emotionally unbalanced rather than into BDSM Doms with strict definitions of TRUE submissiveness praising me for being a TRUE submissive whilst making wild assumptions about my character, feelings and training Doms with strict definitions of TRUE submissiveness telling me if my master were a TRUE master he'd be training me differently Doms lecturing me about what they would change about me if I belonged to them Doms thinking it's okay to order me to put shoes on because I might cut my pretty little feet on broken glass if I am barefoot, when half the male subs are walking around barefoot Getting stuck listening to someone endlessly drone on about her surgery/fibromyalgia/bipolar disorder Feeling weird and getting judged for being a slave and having no limits or choices Watching bratty subs getting praised for exercising their limits and choices loudly and obnoxiously Being asked "What sort of control?" if I am dumb enough to say that I am into being controlled The creepy feeling of all eyes being on me if I serve my master in the rather formal way he requires Having to literally wedge my way in between the 15 single men sitting at the bar in order to get my master an ice water and having them leer at me while I order The filthy public bathroom because there is no janitor on staff Seeing people near-naked who have physical deformities that probably should have remained covered up (in one case a near-naked male sub with an exposed colostomy bag--yeah, I wanted to see that) ....and my favorite one of all: Doms who try to flatter me by telling me I'm so much thinner and prettier than that fat ugly sub over there--and the sub over there is my best friend and lover. MY GOOD GOD!!! WHAT A WHINEY ASSED LITTLE WHINGE BAG! You arent very tolorant of ANYONE are you? even those who are trying to HELP you. and the part I have bolded made me feel SICK and believe me.. as a father who has had all sorts of infant bodily secretions all over me there isn't much that can make me wretch these days but YOU managed it.

manicimp -> RE: Singing the Dungeon Blues (5/17/2010 10:03:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: laineyjade Seeing people near-naked who have physical deformities that probably should have remained covered up (in one case a near-naked male sub with an exposed colostomy bag--yeah, I wanted to see that) I rarely post on these boards, but this has managed to tick me off to the point of HAVING to post before i chewed someones head off! True ugliness is not what you see when you look at someone and realize they have an arm or leg missing... or when you see the tight mottled scarring covering a burns victim.... nor is it the person in a wheelchair or the one with the colostomy bag... it is not the one with a catheter... the one with saliva drooling from their mouth as they talk... none of those people are ugly... each and every one of them are beautiful... the people that judge them and decide they should cover parts of themselves up so as not to offend the delicate senses of some upperty bitch are the ones that truly ARE sickeningly repulsive.... and outright ugly!

lucylucy -> RE: Singing the Dungeon Blues (5/17/2010 10:09:24 AM)
As sirsholly's competing list shows, these things happen everywhere. It's called life. Get over yourself. Based on your whiney list, I doubt people are being hostile to you over your looks/age/style of serving/whatever. I'm guessing it's because you're a self-centered judgmental bitch. Good luck with that.

divi -> RE: Singing the Dungeon Blues (5/17/2010 12:59:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy Where else can Goreans, SCA'ers, D&D'ers, kinksters all gather and meet? Rhen Faires, Midevil Times & Star Trek conventions *** adds Rehab & Walmart

SailingBum -> RE: Singing the Dungeon Blues (5/17/2010 1:14:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: divi quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy Where else can Goreans, SCA'ers, D&D'ers, kinksters all gather and meet? Rhen Faires, Midevil Times & Star Trek conventions *** adds Rehab & Walmart Geeze that sounds more like revenge of the nerds meeting places... BadOne

divi -> RE: Singing the Dungeon Blues (5/17/2010 1:15:24 PM)
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