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wolfpup21 -> Dominant women around Granite City Illinois? (5/20/2010 7:11:11 AM)

Hello all, something is bugging me. It seems there's a lack of dominant women around my area, like they're scarce or something. It doesn't make any sense to me how one area can be completely devoid of dominant women and yet other areas have a great deal of them. In any case, are there any dominant women around the Granite City/St Louis area looking for a male slave? If so, please by all means, message me.
~Submissively,
wolfpup




domiguy -> RE: Dominant women around Granite City Illinois? (5/20/2010 7:16:13 AM)

No cash...No gash or strap. Sucks to be a male sub.




divi -> RE: Dominant women around Granite City Illinois? (5/20/2010 7:24:16 AM)

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ORIGINAL: wolfpup21

Hello all, something is bugging me. It seems there's a lack of dominant women around my area, like they're scarce or something. It doesn't make any sense to me how one area can be completely devoid of dominant women and yet other areas have a great deal of them. In any case, are there any dominant women around the Granite City/St Louis area looking for a male slave? If so, please by all means, message me.
~Submissively,
wolfpup


pup I dont think your looking hard enough.  Stop being lazy get up and out and go find some. 




peppermint -> RE: Dominant women around Granite City Illinois? (5/20/2010 8:23:57 AM)

What are you doing to find that Dominant of your dreams?  Are you sitting on a computer hoping one will write to you?  With your short profile I wouldn't hold my breath if I were you. 

Now, if you REALLY want to find a Dominant then get off the computer.  Find the munches in your area.  No, the munch will probably not be a 10 minute drive away from you, but it could be.  You'll have to actually drive to the munch.  Then you show what a great guy you are when you are there.  You dazzle people with your personality.  If you impress enough someone may know someone who is looking for a great guy just like you.  It's called networking, similar to finding a job.  Regional events will bring out an even larger crowd of people.  If you're smart you'll be a volunteer.   Volunteers will meet a large number of people AND you will be showing what a helpful and service driven submissive you are.  You just might catch the attention of some lady. 

Last, do something with that profile if you insist on confining your search to the internet.  What activities do you enjoy?  No, don't list kinky ones but ones like watching movies, hiking, going to museums.  This is a relationship you are seeking, or at least I think you are.  You have to be compatible in all sorts of likes and dislikes.  Delete the part of your profile that says your life has no meaning.  You are trying to attract a vibrant lovely lady.  Why would she be attracted to someone who doesn't enjoy life?  Yes, you can say you are lonely for her, just don't say anything about you having no meaning in your life.  You need to get across that you are a great interesting guy whom a Dominant Lady would love to get to know.  You don't want to be a meaningless blob who is about as much fun as a baseball made of mud. 




SassySarijane -> RE: Dominant women around Granite City Illinois? (5/20/2010 8:36:55 AM)

How far out of St. Louis, MO are you? They have one hell of an active scene there. Things going on all the time. Plenty of opportunity to meet a lot of people.




wolfpup21 -> RE: Dominant women around Granite City Illinois? (5/20/2010 10:08:43 AM)

I'm across the Mississippi River from the arch, I don't know how many miles it is though.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Dominant women around Granite City Illinois? (5/20/2010 12:25:10 PM)

St Louis has one of the most active scenes in the Midwest. Do a little research.




sirsholly -> RE: Dominant women around Granite City Illinois? (5/21/2010 4:39:49 AM)

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wolfpup21 -> RE: Dominant women around Granite City Illinois? (5/22/2010 12:01:35 PM)

Someone check my profile and tell me if it's good enough or if I should possibly continue editing it? I've never been very good making profiles, so I don't know.




LadyPact -> RE: Dominant women around Granite City Illinois? (5/22/2010 1:27:49 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

St Louis has one of the most active scenes in the Midwest. Do a little research.

I was going to say exactly the same thing.  If I was looking for kinky people, you can bet I'd at least go to "Beat Me in St Louis".




sunshinemiss -> RE: Dominant women around Granite City Illinois? (5/22/2010 6:49:20 PM)


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ORIGINAL: wolfpup21

Someone check my profile and tell me if it's good enough or if I should possibly continue editing it? I've never been very good making profiles, so I don't know.



I'd take out the sexual stuff on your profile... It smacks of TMI. Bisexual means you are attracted to people of both genders. You are giving a mixed message. Get rid of the sex pictures behind your head in your pix. Where do you live? In a dorm? In your mom's house? That's how it looks. I don't think you need to have the "fears" part in there. You say you love blindfolds... but in your profile you say you're afraid of the dark but would wear one for the right person. Again, mixed messages.

The bottom line is that you are young and still learning who you are. I suggest taking all the "kink" stuff out of your profile since you've never really done anything (online and self stuff don't really count). Be polite, meet people, and explore.

Next time ASK someone to check your profile instead of telling us. A simple "could" makes you sound much more polite. While things being a bit more informal are fairly normal in other settings, generally a bit of formality rarely hurts and usually helps.

And remember, this is supposed to be fun!
good luck,
sunshine




wolfpup21 -> RE: Dominant women around Granite City Illinois? (5/23/2010 2:54:13 AM)

Right... i'm sorry.
Please, forgive me?




sunshinemiss -> RE: Dominant women around Granite City Illinois? (5/23/2010 3:36:45 AM)

So dude, you get some constructive criticism and your profile disappears? Interesting choice.




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