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ve you - 5/24/2010 3:46:57 PM   
Pyramus


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Status: offline 		Have you ever provided emailed D/s instructions for a submissive to arrive at your vacation home?

For her to read the instructions provided for her, and then for her to follow them, and then await your eventual arrival?

If so, how well did it work out for you? (Vicariously, what were the instructions?)
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RE: ve you - 5/24/2010 3:48:26 PM   
Pyramus


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Status: offline 		The title was supposed to be "Have you ever provided an envelope of fetish instructions to be followed?"

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RE: ve you - 5/24/2010 4:04:35 PM   
LadyAngelika


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Status: offline 		I'm going to ask the question that is on a lot of people's mind right now presuming this is a submissive you've never met (because you said "a" submissive and not "your" submissive.)

Are you an axe murderer? ;-)

Edited to add the wink.

- LA

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RE: ve you - 5/24/2010 4:14:10 PM   
bluefireeyez


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I'm so glad I didn't have anything to eat or drink before seeing your post LA. It makes my heart happy.

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RE: ve you - 5/24/2010 4:15:25 PM   
GraciousLady


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Status: offline 		Perhaps the submissive is not an ax murderer but what about the Dom?

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RE: ve you - 5/24/2010 4:17:50 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		I can't say that I have.  I don't own a vacation home.

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RE: ve you - 5/24/2010 4:32:46 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		I've certainly been left lists of instructions. I'm a good friend so I pet and house sit for people regularly who just email or leave written directions down for me to find. No biggie.

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RE: ve you - 5/24/2010 6:02:40 PM   
DarkSteven


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quote:

ORIGINAL: GraciousLady

Perhaps the submissive is not an ax murderer but what about the Dom?


Then the Dom leaves a lit of instructions telling the submissive who to murder.  The Dom than has a perfect alibi.  It's the least a sub can do.


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RE: ve you - 5/24/2010 6:10:34 PM   
Jeffff


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Status: offline 		That's rather obvious.... what's the point of having a submissive if she won't kill for you?


It isn't just about the sex you know!

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RE: ve you - 5/24/2010 8:24:48 PM   
afkarr


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Status: offline 		As a femme fatale for the Russian mafia, I typically get instructions on who to kill from them. My Dom is an international arms dealer, he gives me the instructions for the weapons.

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RE: ve you - 5/24/2010 9:59:08 PM   
jbcurious


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Status: offline 		You all are cruel... derailing the poor guys thread...

Op I think it's a fun, hot fantasy...and have my own "first meet" fantasy involving meeting in a hotel bar, a keycard being set on the table and the decision to use it or not, going up to the room and finding a trunk that is not to be opened, a garment rack with handcuffs attached to the crossbar, a blindfold and a set of instructions...

It's a fantasy but not neccesarily outside the realm of possibility...

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RE: ve you - 5/24/2010 10:44:20 PM   
crazyml


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

quote:

ORIGINAL: GraciousLady

Perhaps the submissive is not an ax murderer but what about the Dom?


Then the Dom leaves a lit of instructions telling the submissive who to murder.  The Dom than has a perfect alibi.  It's the least a sub can do.



Fiendish

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RE: ve you - 5/24/2010 10:58:22 PM   
crazyml


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Status: offline 		A couple of years ago, I sent a sub instructions covering her arrival at a rented cottage.

For me, "anticipation" plays an important, sexy, role in play, so my instructions involved a gradual transition - They were a bit more elaborate than an email though.

Since I was going ahead of her, and driving pretty much the same route, I was able to hide a number of things on the way. So her email simply gave instructions on the route she should take, where to stop, and where to look.

So she left work (she's an attorney), in her suit and drove to the first stop, where she found a change of underwear. At the next, was a nasty halterneck dress, at the next there was meant to be a collar (but this went awol apparently), at the next was a plug.

So by the time she arrived she'd been transformed into a wanton slutty sub.


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RE: ve you - 5/24/2010 11:03:12 PM   
Elisabella


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quote:

ORIGINAL: afkarr

As a femme fatale for the Russian mafia, I typically get instructions on who to kill from them. My Dom is an international arms dealer, he gives me the instructions for the weapons.



Is there something wrong with me that I find this to be infinitely hotter than meeting someone online and getting a list of kinky sexual activities?

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RE: ve you - 5/24/2010 11:07:39 PM   
laurell3


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff

That's rather obvious.... what's the point of having a submissive if she won't kill for you?


It isn't just about the sex you know!



blinks and adds yet one more thing to the hard limit list for Jefffffffffffffffffffffffffffff.................

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RE: ve you - 5/24/2010 11:07:50 PM   
GreedyTop


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quote:

ORIGINAL: crazyml

A couple of years ago, I sent a sub instructions covering her arrival at a rented cottage.

For me, "anticipation" plays an important, sexy, role in play, so my instructions involved a gradual transition - They were a bit more elaborate than an email though.

Since I was going ahead of her, and driving pretty much the same route, I was able to hide a number of things on the way. So her email simply gave instructions on the route she should take, where to stop, and where to look.

So she left work (she's an attorney), in her suit and drove to the first stop, where she found a change of underwear. At the next, was a nasty halterneck dress, at the next there was meant to be a collar (but this went awol apparently), at the next was a plug.

So by the time she arrived she'd been transformed into a wanton slutty sub.




sweeet :)

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RE: ve you - 5/24/2010 11:15:16 PM   
jbcurious


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Status: offline 		Sounds like fun... Still learning terminology, so thanks for the "anticipation play" . One to add to my growing list of "loves"

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RE: ve you - 5/25/2010 1:37:11 AM   
lally2


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Status: offline 		.ive done it the other way around and given Him the instructions on how to find me naked in a wood under a full moon  - hawt

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RE: ve you - 5/25/2010 2:09:24 AM   
crazyml


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lally2

.ive done it the other way around and given Him the instructions on how to find me naked in a wood under a full moon  - hawt


Swoon, I salute you.

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RE: ve you - 5/25/2010 2:51:47 AM   
allthatjaz


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Status: offline 		Many years ago a friend and me had a bit of a fall out. We did make up but on our making up, she joked that she wanted to send me to a good friend of hers to be punished. Jokingly I said 'go on then, I dare you'. Now this should never of gone further than a joke but it did and it went something like this;

She gave me instructions of where he lived (it was before sat nav) and told me I must be there promptly at 11am. I must wear something smart, secretarial like and have my hair pulled back and up. I said that I wanted to talk to him first but she refused. She reassured me that he was one of her best friends and she wouldn't send me to him if she didn't trust him.
I ended up driving round totally lost. I called her and told her I needed his number but she wouldn't give it to me. Calmly she re-directed me to the right address.
I had been instructed to knock on the door and say 'Jill has sent me'
I was as nervous as hell and yet at the same time I was thinking to myself, 'who is going to Dom who here? who is going to get the better of one another?' I really wasn't taking this seriously but it was a dare and I like dares.

He answered the door and was much younger than I expected. He was tall too and had that sort of intellectual Eton look about him. He took me inside and told me to 'SIT' and then went into the other room and started playing something pretty elaborate on his grand piano. I sat there for some time, shuffling and feeling uneasy before he eventually walked back in and demanded I stand up and tell him why I had been sent.
He tells me now that I looked very smug. I had this challenge on my face saying 'come on then, I dare you' Well he did dare and I found I couldn't challenge him.

We are great friends now. He's just got married bless him but we often laugh about that day and he tells people, 'she arrived looking so demure and somewhat smug and left looking disheveled, humbled and a face covered in mascara.


< Message edited by allthatjaz -- 5/25/2010 3:32:47 AM >

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