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RE: Gay boys / subs / bottoms / slaves! YOUR turn to a... - 6/28/2010 2:15:46 AM   
gedienstig


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Status: offline 		Well, I just started going on sites like these, Dutch sites, in the beginning, and I already noticed quite quickly the few women there weren't responding or either not looking for me. The men were although, and that's how I got into contact with them. My very first play was with a bi guy who had no experience at all, and was only interested in spanking, nothing else. He chatted with me for weeks and weeks for hours during the evening before we ever met, so it was like the ideal first date for a nervous guy looking for his first play experience.

We kinda were each other's test subject. However, he lived quite far away from me and he was also so novice he was so nervous on these play dates that I decided to go find someone else, since I was confused enough myself, and I needed a stronger dominant. If he lived closer to me,I would have considered letting him get his experience off of me, but a total of a 2 hour drive for 30 mins of nervous play didn't seem like the right payoff. However, we have kept contact in the meanwhile while I explored some more. The cycle also ended with him, since after he also got some more experience, he still liked me best as a sub (the others were kinda chubby and he seemed biased against that as a body builder, plus he said nobody submitted unquestionably like me) and I tried him as a more experienced master. However, it was at that date somehow a click went of in my head: "God, this is not what I want" and when I got home I honestly told him "Look, you've grown a lot since I first met you years ago, and it's not that I don't like you, you've got everything I want basically, except the right gender."

He respected that, and is now rooting for me to find my Domme, as I am rooting for him to find his new slave.

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RE: Gay boys / subs / bottoms / slaves! YOUR turn to a... - 6/28/2010 2:18:28 AM   
Puckerpup


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1. What motivates you to be submissive?
-what started me off was the art of this, the gear, the look, the objectification. Though, after a while, the interaction and display became just as fun.

2. Why do you identify yourself that way?
-because i look better in a collar?

3. What are you searching for in a Top?
-all matters what they want from me.

4. What are the qualities and attributes that you look for in a Top?
-somebody funny, artistinc, and all out weird when it comes to what

5. What is the hardest part of being a male sub?
-finding somebody after the same things.

6. What kind of challenges do you face when attempting to approach a Top?
I'm by no means a-sexual, but I'm not one to rush into the sexual acts involved. Many trainers/owners/keepers are more motivated by sex than I am. Where as im just as happy to be strapped to wall at a party, put on display, or treated like a house hold pet.

7. What are you biggest fears when meeting a Top?
They will turn out to be unhealthy or with no sense of humor.

8. What do you believe to be your best strengths and attributes? And do you feel they are often overlooked?
I can laugh at this. Scenes are often met with pressure that can make things awkward. for me, this should be treated like a little party. Plus i have a good knowledge of gear.  



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RE: Gay boys / subs / bottoms / slaves! YOUR turn to a... - 6/28/2010 5:28:55 PM   
BigDaddy723


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Status: offline 		Pukerpup,

You have an intresting mindset. I like your sense of humor.

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2. Why do you identify yourself that way?
-because i look better in a collar?


Thats a cute responce. I am sure it's an answer that fits with your personality.

quote:

7. What are you biggest fears when meeting a Top?
They will turn out to be unhealthy or with no sense of humor.


Also seems to be a common thread between alot of the posts. But of course saftey is always paramount.

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