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RE: Clothing Restrictions - 5/25/2010 10:47:59 AM

kiwisub12

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When my Sir and i were living by ourselves, i was required to strip as soon as i hit the front door.
He also preferred me with no make-up , which suited me fine, since i seldom wore any.
Also - no shoes.

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RE: Clothing Restrictions - 5/25/2010 11:42:33 AM

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Hello MechaTeddyBear. Yes. In our house my submissive is naked. The guiding principal is to have a sub not feeling ''naked'' when nude, but to feel ''clothed'' when wearing something... With time, that also gradually takes care of the annoying body image thingie.

It is not for everybody, basically submissive exhibitionists will take to nudity more easily than those who are weak in that department. It is not the same when nakedness is humiliation based in a particular dynamic. In my dynamic it is based on identity, as a submissive should be proud of her ''nakedness'' not of her naked body. In our longterm relationship (more than ten years) appearances do not account for that much, being naked is more symbolic than a ''hot'' component of the dynamic, attitude and actions are more important.

I do not tell my sub what to wear. After some time, when being a naked sub becomes part of one's normalcy, clothes have new meaning (something you put on instead of something you take off) and you can rest assured that your sub will always be well dressed for ''any'' occasion (you won't save any money on clothing if you have a naked sub, on the contrary.) RL.

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RE: Clothing Restrictions - 5/25/2010 3:56:13 PM

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This is true: I always love seeing Beth... and I often perv your profile to see what's what. I'm always thrilled when there is a new photo. She is really beautiful... perhaps because she is so happy?

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To me beth is beautiful and sexy in anything she wears, and gets more sexy and beautiful every day! My personal prejudice is that she is most sexy naked but that's frowned upon in public. 'Naked' beneath whatever she's wearing is the next best thing.

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RE: Clothing Restrictions - 5/25/2010 4:02:59 PM

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Ah... clothing restrictions. This is one of my main kinks.

Once I fedexed a pair of latex knickers to a sub friend at her place of work (it was marked private and confidential), with instructions for her to put the knickers on, and send the pair she had been wearing back to me. Yum.

Now ML, that was sposed to be our little secret. You naughty man!

Ha! See... I made no mention of you, young lady - Oh no! Tis you who have let the cat out of the bag.

You have been bloody naughty.

*head desk... Dang you got me!

Ohhh did you say naughty? *perks.

(love a man who can use "Tis" properly)

back to the OP and away from this fliratiousness:

I've had restrictions before.... yeah... and really it's about doing it to make my partner happy much more than the doing it to be anything else.

I don't think this is anything more than other (vanilla-y) folks do.

My favorite restriction... no shoes!!! I love to be barefoot. You can feel so many more things. Have I mentioned the reflexology parks here?

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RE: Clothing Restrictions - 5/25/2010 4:44:33 PM

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S has never told me what to wear---but over the years I have discovered what gets the most positive reaction.
R likes me in skirts with no underwear. Skirt length seldom matters.
DG says 'wear something pleasing” and I've gotten it right every time! Not sure if that indicates I know him well or if he is just easily pleased!

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RE: Clothing Restrictions - 5/25/2010 6:02:47 PM

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MechaTeddyBear,

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I wanted to find out if anyone has imposed clothing restrictions on their female subs or slaves as a form of control or training. What were the restrictions you imposed?

I was restricted to skirts and dresses of a specific hue, no pants. Scarlet red lips and nails, Two scents. The rest of my perfume couldn't be used. Straight hair with no curl. I wasn't allowed to color it.

For a time I had a ribbon on my wrist. Although it was used as a reminder of my station it was primarily a humiliation tool.

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RE: Clothing Restrictions - 5/25/2010 6:34:51 PM

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Master doesn't have too many restrictions about my clothes. His only standing order is "no bra." Sometimes he'll tell me to wear something disposable or something I don't plan to ever wear again, which means he'll be ripping or cutting my clothes off.

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RE: Clothing Restrictions - 5/25/2010 6:42:04 PM

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I am not allowed to wear underwear whenever I am with master and I am not allowed to wear pants or shorts. Only short skirts and short dresses allowed.

I'm actually a jeans and t-shirt sort of woman, and I prefer sneakers to heels, so it gives my master great pleasure to make me dress feminine and slutty.

If I am going out with my friends, which I will then dress what I usually wear, then he'll make me wear a see through thong or something beneath.

Clothes are not allowed in the house, but I'm happy with that rule, I'd probably get more grumpy if he forces me to dress up in sexy lingerie at home. I like being naked in privacy. So sometimes, depending on his mood, he commands me to wear stockings and suspenders and heels at home, while doing house work. Just to make me uncomfortable.

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RE: Clothing Restrictions - 5/25/2010 7:30:29 PM

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No restrictions here.

I just know what he likes and I dress in clothes that make me look good and that I think he'll like.

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RE: Clothing Restrictions - 5/25/2010 8:59:38 PM

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Same here. Except he (and I) think the whole no underwear thing is kind of unappealing. He loves me in full on lingerie. Other than that, just classic tailored sexy clothing and always heels, which is a-ok with me

. The higher the better :)

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RE: Clothing Restrictions - 5/26/2010 2:14:46 AM

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I know, I know. [sniff] I feel terrible remorse now.
;-)

Good on you- now go to my room!

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RE: Clothing Restrictions - 5/26/2010 6:56:38 AM

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Since i do have a severe leather fetish. I do insist my sub to be dressed as i please. I enjoy instilling a desire for subs to wear leather boots. After a short training time they are begging to be in their leather boots that master has presented them to serve me.

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RE: Clothing Restrictions - 5/26/2010 8:21:22 AM

roland23

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Here are some of my rules:

Makeup

High heels (nothing lower than 3 inches, prefer classic pumps)

Skirts or dresses(I specify the style, pants or leggings are OK if it is really cold and they are really tight)

These are the basics..... That's for me to know and the sub to find out!

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RE: Clothing Restrictions - 5/26/2010 8:38:45 AM

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I would freeze to death if I had to be nude always. Right now, I'm out on the clothing optional beach, in the sun and I'm still cold.

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RE: Clothing Restrictions - 5/26/2010 12:51:54 PM

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LOL - too true!

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if you have to ask "has anyone ever ...(insert kink/fetish/whatever here)"

the answer is YES/.

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RE: Clothing Restrictions - 5/26/2010 2:47:19 PM

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I like IronBear's approach. One of my Protocols is that my subs are always naked except for cuffs and collar in my House(sometimes high heels). When we're going out, or she's leaving, she has to kneel and ask permission to get dressed. If we're living together, I sometimes have her lay out a couple of outfits for me to choose from: sometimes I take her out wearing a harness under her clothes.
I don't usually make them beg for food, drink, or the bathroom; I do require them to kneel and ask for permission. With slaves I follow the principle that in my House slaves eat only from my hand, and always with their hands tied behind them. They're not allowed to touch food except for preparing meals.
I like Siriks; I usually call them Kajira Chains. I've attached a couple of pics of nikki, my plaything, in my first set. I've just made a second set, using larger chain. I don't give girls permission to use the furniture often, and this is the way I have them use the computer.
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ORIGINAL: IronBear

As I stated in another thread, when a girl or boy isfirst collared to either myself or the Bruin Cottage, they are required to bed for permission to wear clothes unless their duties require then to be suitably clothed. During this period they will wear a shirik. Both the begging and wearing a shirik together with being required to beg for fluid and/or food and use of the toilet facilities certainly helps to bring home the seriousness of their bondage. This also does two other things, it helps form a bond between us and because of the manner in which I handle this, helps develop trust. I don't use this as a game although I do rather like to see the naked form of both male and female wearing either a chain (my preference) or rope shirik. with rope the harshness of hemp causes an interesting reaction and in cold weather, cold chains against the naked body creates it's own erotic and sensual displays and lets face it a naked girl when the conditions are chilly mostly has two large red flashing lights at the tips of her breasts due to the cold...

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RE: Clothing Restrictions - 5/26/2010 3:44:50 PM

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i am going to be what some would consider completely dense and obtuse here, but for those who have girls running about buck nekkid all the time, what about those "female times"?? And please don'y say something trite like "cups" or "tampons", the fact is other products exist because those just don't cut it solo for some people.

And warlock, how much time do you spend hand feeding your crew? Just wonderin', it sounds tedious.

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RE: Clothing Restrictions - 5/26/2010 4:46:21 PM

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thank gawd Master doesn't keep me nude all the time. I'd freeze most of the time. It gets cold in these parts of the U.S.
And it would be really inconvenient and difficult to keep up with him to wear heels and skirts/dresses while we're out hiking.

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RE: Clothing Restrictions - 5/26/2010 8:02:17 PM

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ORIGINAL: afkarr

i am going to be what some would consider completely dense and obtuse here, but for those who have girls running about buck nekkid all the time, what about those "female times"?? And please don'y say something trite like "cups" or "tampons", the fact is other products exist because those just don't cut it solo for some people.

During period , permitted to wear cotton panties and pads, but still no other clothes.

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RE: Clothing Restrictions - 5/26/2010 8:27:00 PM

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ORIGINAL: afkarr
i am going to be what some would consider completely dense and obtuse here, but for those who have girls running about buck nekkid all the time, what about those "female times"?? And please don'y say something trite like "cups" or "tampons", the fact is other products exist because those just don't cut it solo for some people.

And warlock, how much time do you spend hand feeding your crew? Just wonderin', it sounds tedious.

I'm so glad you asked these questions--I was wondering the same things (especially about the hand-feeding).

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