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Submissive Female/male double-dildo play? - 5/25/2010 4:26:13 PM   
ChainsNpains


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Status: offline 		Am I the only one with this fetish? Well Im at least curious about it. I love to watch girl/girl double dildo sharing.... but what about male/female? I've seen one video on the web (lame one too). I think this could be very fun.... but what do I know I haven't done a whole lot either....
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RE: Submissive Female/male double-dildo play? - 5/25/2010 4:35:54 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		I'm glad you found something that you like.  Now, if only you could find a topic that really has something to do with BDSM.

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RE: Submissive Female/male double-dildo play? - 5/25/2010 5:21:25 PM   
ChainsNpains


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Status: offline 		How about you have both the female and male tied up flogged/whipped as they do it?.... I thought I could post this here because there's not a "fetish" page for me to post it... It was on my mind and I wanted to share it. I don't get to share what's on my mind very often so if you want to go ahead and remove this topic fine, whatever.

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RE: Submissive Female/male double-dildo play? - 5/25/2010 8:00:05 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Was it real hard to understand the request for the forum? 

General BDSM - Genuine and more serious discussion of BDSM. This is NOT a garbage pail or a catch all forum.

There is an off topic section.

Look how many posts just on the first page have to be moved by a mod just because folks can't figure out what subjects go where.

Not rocket science.


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RE: Submissive Female/male double-dildo play? - 5/25/2010 9:15:21 PM   
ChainsNpains


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Status: offline 		1. I chose the General BDSM thread because I don't believe a subject talking about two submissives is "off topic"
2. If my topic is "garbage" or "catch all" delete it already. (although there's a topic called 'breast injections' and I don't see how that's any more related to BDSM than my topic)
3. Just because it's not "rocket science' doesn't mean it's user friendly. If there's a problem with people posting in the wrong area happening often maybe it's not all the peoples fault and maybe its the system/layout of the forum?
4. A little less attitude? This will be what my 6th post? I'm a n00b here. Point me in the right direction with some kindness maybe?

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RE: Submissive Female/male double-dildo play? - 5/25/2010 9:21:58 PM   
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Status: offline 		Welcome to CollarMe!  Don't mind the warm welcome.

Sexual interest/fetish, and the thread's here already.  I'll leave it in this section for now; let's see what happens.

Any user with further questions should please email me or another mod.  Further public discussion of where this thread should go will be considered a hijack.

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RE: Submissive Female/male double-dildo play? - 5/25/2010 9:47:20 PM   
ReginaMirus


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Status: offline 		Ok, why would it HAVE to be a female submissive? Or does submission always = penetration?

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RE: Submissive Female/male double-dildo play? - 5/25/2010 9:57:44 PM   
ChainsNpains


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Status: offline 		Well it doesn't have to be a submissive female, nor does submission always = penetration...A  Domme could play with her slave with a Double-dildo sure! Why not?

I should have stated/ asked Can a male submissive and female submissive play with each other with out a Dom(me)? (Double Dildos are the first  and only thing that I can think of)

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RE: Submissive Female/male double-dildo play? - 5/25/2010 10:13:27 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		If the female submissive and male submissive felt like it and had permission from their Dominant, why not?

Then again, what's the difference between two people in an equal relationship doing the same activity?  What about that activity would make one think that it is an inherently 'submissive' thing to do?  When you watched the porn scenes, did one or both of the women have a big "S" on their heads to show you they were submissive?


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RE: Submissive Female/male double-dildo play? - 5/25/2010 11:05:02 PM   
ChainsNpains


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Status: offline 		No the male/female didn't have a "S" on their forehead. There was a third person (female) who 'directed' the action. (like I said not very good vid) I would think double-dildo sharing is inherently a submissive thing to do because it's hard to picture a male dom using a double-dildo, and both the female/male sharing are both "receiving" penetration. I KNOW penetration doesn't always = "submissive", But out of my knowledge of BDSM it would just seem more likely for a male and female to share a double dildo if they were submissive... But my knowledge is young and inexperienced! THAT'S WHY I'M HERE...And asking these questions.

@ Ladypact: Are you always this sarcastic to everyone? Or just the newbies? Either that or you must like me :) LOL

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RE: Submissive Female/male double-dildo play? - 5/25/2010 11:10:33 PM   
FetishRose


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Status: offline 		I'm actually not sure what is with the snarky replies, since your question, while not technically BDSM, was a lot more interesting than the common "my online master is seeing someone else...what do I do?" type of threads...
So...welcome to the boards!
While that is not a personal fetish of mine, it does have an interest value to me, primarily because I have not seen or heard of it much.  It seems, in porn and in real life, that when two submissives are involved playing together at the discretion of their dominant, that the two tend to be the same gender.  Having a mix up of one female and one male submissive would be an interesting, although still viable twist on that.
If it's an interest of yours, I'd suggest you get involved in your local community and see if you can't befriend a Domme with a female submissive that may be willing to act out this fantasy with you.
Best of luck!


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RE: Submissive Female/male double-dildo play? - 5/25/2010 11:22:25 PM   
crazyml


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quote:

ORIGINAL: ChainsNpains

Am I the only one with this fetish?


I'm not completely certain that this can be classed as a "fetish" in any case. I had always thought that "fetish" in a sexual context implied a sexual interest in things that aren't usually associated with sexual activity - but I suppose plenty of things are now described as "fetish" that wouldn't pass this test.

I'm sure you're not the only person who likes the idea of girl-girl or boy-girl or boy-boy sharing a dildo.

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Well Im at least curious about it.


Being "at least curious" about something doesn't quite elevate it to the status of "fetish" for me... but hey.

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I love to watch girl/girl double dildo sharing.... but what about male/female? I've seen one video on the web (lame one too). I think this could be very fun.... but what do I know I haven't done a whole lot either....


Thanks for sharing!

OP - Welcome to the forum. This place can be a bit like the Roman forum at times - it can get a tad gladiatorial at times. Which is entertaining at least, very instructive at best.

The one thing I would say is that given the range and intensity of some of the topics that get kicked around here, many of the hardened old-timers will be thinking "meh - whatever!" at the idea of a discussion about double dildo combinations.

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RE: Submissive Female/male double-dildo play? - 5/25/2010 11:22:31 PM   
ChainsNpains


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Status: offline 		Thanks for the Welcome FetishRose! As far as getting envolved with my <i>dull</i> community... I am a member of fetlife which is a social networking website similar to CM which has groups you can join to find out where all the local muches/meet ups are... However I don't see myself going to one of those anytime soon... I am much to shy and would feel really uncomfortable unless I had someone to go with. (though I might have to force myself to go since I have yet to meet... ANYONE)

I do want to comment on dom(me)s having male and female subs/slaves... I've seen vids of a couple being domminated here and there but I've never really heard of a dom(me) taking in a slave of each gender. Has someone else? Like FetishRose, this Interests me a whole lot too and would love to learn more about it.




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RE: Submissive Female/male double-dildo play? - 5/25/2010 11:30:40 PM   
Bobanna


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There's a  scene in the movie Requium for a Dream that had two chicks going at it with a D/D in front of a crowd of men cheering them on and jacking off ... so (well at least one of the two girls) could get money to do heroin. Using a d/d could be used for a number of things including a film scene that had absolutely nothing to do with BDSM but more along the lines of prostitution and how low you will degrade yourself to get a fix, and men having nothing better to do but being scuz bags and cheering in a circle jerk.  Sad.

< Message edited by Bobanna -- 5/25/2010 11:34:49 PM >

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RE: Submissive Female/male double-dildo play? - 5/25/2010 11:33:55 PM   
ChainsNpains


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Status: offline 		@ Crazyml: I agree with that I'm not the only one interested, that's why I posted so those who are, can comment! And I know "at least curious" is from from "fetish" But My point was I am really curious about it...

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This place can be a bit like the Roman forum at times - it can get a tad gladiatorial... ...many of the hardened old-timers will be thinking "meh - whatever!"
Yes I've noticed... I feel like I stepped back in high school... Anywho thanks for the Welcoming!

^(My last post)I realize italic tags don't work! >_< Oops, shoulda previewed.

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RE: Submissive Female/male double-dildo play? - 5/25/2010 11:43:21 PM   
ReginaMirus


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Status: offline 		The reason I asked...I've done this with a submissive of mine in the past and thought it was pretty hot. I little awkward at first, but we figured it out. ;)

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RE: Submissive Female/male double-dildo play? - 5/25/2010 11:49:19 PM   
ChainsNpains


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Status: offline 		@ ReginaMirus: LUCKY!! Wish I could of been your sub at that time lol. Well it's cool to know that a female/male do share double dildos in BDSM. But your case was Domme/sub, interesting. You're sub was a guy right?

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RE: Submissive Female/male double-dildo play? - 5/26/2010 12:05:12 AM   
ReginaMirus


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RE: Submissive Female/male double-dildo play? - 5/26/2010 4:43:24 AM   
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Status: offline 		I think that sounds like an excellent idea and would be crazy fun. I could totally see that in a scene involving two subs. One of my favorite videos on the web is with a dominant directing a male sub to flog, penetrate, etc, the female sub. I can imagine that a double dildo penetration would be a great activity for a couple of subs under direction. 

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RE: Submissive Female/male double-dildo play? - 5/26/2010 5:14:59 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Well, since you asked.  

No, I'm actually not sarcastic with everyone.  However, what you've got here is a premise that honestly could have went either way.  You've got it kind of backwards and making a mistake that many people who don't really know anything about all of this make.  The parallel to your post would have been, submissives brush their teeth, so brushing teeth is a submissive act.  It really doesn't work that way.

Go back to your example again.  The act itself isn't specifically related to the key elements of what many people call a scene.  It could be just two people enjoying the hell out of that particular toy with each other.  But that kind of leaves it lacking for a lot of people like us.  That's kind of why we're here.

You added another element in your follow up that changes everything about the situation and that element is control.  A third party directing the action, controlling the scene, and the other people following that direction, is what actually makes it about BDSM.  One person complying to another person's wishes and the power that person is giving them that they will follow their instructions.  One person bending to the will of another. 

Look very intently at the difference between the two.  What really is the part that turns you on about it?  (Somewhat of a rhetorical question.  I realize that you're a male.)  Was it just the fact that two hot chicks were playing with a toy, or was it something a little more than that?  Does being commanded to do it make it just a little hotter?  Does it turn you on to think about giving those commands?  Maybe it turns you on to be receiving those commands?  Maybe it could be either one, depending on what mood you're in.

That, My friend, has a lot more to do with BDSM than what you asked originally.  Examine that a little closer.  If that is the part that turns you on, you're probably in the right place.

Oh, but no more excuses about being new.  You're either hear to learn something or you aren't.


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